Infatuation and Love - Page 3

Originally posted by: rakie

Ovi Is such a spoilt brat she was obessed over arjun not in love with him she just thinks about herself and don't care about others she always get what she wants because that's the way she was brought up by her grandmother and father maybe if archana raised her she would've never come out that way 😡

Originally posted by: sk11

I look at it this way always that arovi failed due to lack of "in love" and obession with Arjun. Ovi was obsessed with Arjun and just having him. That's why when she had him legally, she was still always sad and upset because she realized she didn't have his heart which sucks after you have the person legally or physically there. The person has to be present for a relationship to work. Although Arjun was there for Ovi, but he was there as a friend. Not as a lover or husband. Because he couldn't. He was in love with someone else.

Arvi was manipulated due to purvis weakness. She didn't have faith in her love. For her, her mother was more important. That's why ovi was able to manipulate their relation.

Arjun I believe was the true man in all of this. He was in a comfortable relationship of convenience with ovi. He cheated, tried to fix it. Then went to prove his love which he did successfully. As for Manav saying if he truly loved purvi he would have always stayed by her side. I think this was wrong. Arjun has always stayed by purvis side, it's purvi that did not give a side to Arjun to stay by. She betrayed him by letting him go. It's purvi who didn't stand up for the man who took bullets for her.

Originally posted by: rithika2012

i do agree with ur post completely.. and i always said that ovi's love was more of infatuation and obsession and was never a true love.. it was quiet evident from her behaviour in the beginning when she came to know that arjun loved purvi and not her.. she always lived in her own world where she never tried to accept the truth and that all made her stand where she is today... she was so much obsessed with arjun that she herself said in one episode that if arjun cant be hers then she will never allow him to be others also and she made him exactly that today. neither she is with him and nor purvi can be with him at present..

@bold: i agree with this part very much.. arvi has a strong bond which may not be seen by others but which they both can sense..

since their confession their love life was never happy as soon as he proposed it was a refusal and then confession but they were seperated within 2 days sue to engagement drama and then seperated till truth was out and then arjun's test to prove himself and even then their love life was never smooth but still they are connected to each other emotionally and that was what their support system was and even today after all the crap which happened in their life they can still understand each other even without uttering a word..

sadly ovi understood this now and backed from arjun's life understanding that she can never have such a bond with him and can never have such a place in his life and heart which arjun have for purvi.. and its now the time for deshmukhs to understand their relation and set everything right..

as ovi herself doesnt want to enter into this relation again and move on i think d clan need to understand it and allow her as she herself does want to give their relation a chance and take it forward.. so its better they act wise and set everything right with arjun purvi and ovi keeping in mind that the poor soul pari needs the love of both father and mother...

Originally posted by: rayadallie

"Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person. It is most often talked about as an emotion between two persons. Hence is also sometimes referred to as interpersonal love."

In my opinion, what Ovi feel for arjun is infatuation while what purvi and arjun feel for each other is LOVE. Based on this, I am of the view that Ovi and arjun marriage failed because they were never in love even though they tried to make it work. On the other hand, purvi and arjun even though not married and has been separated for so long still have that strong bond or emotion between them that makes their relationship so successful up until now. If purvi and arjun are to be married, I think their marriage will be very successful as they love and respect each other. they also listen and understand each other's views. Sometimes they dont even have to speak, they just sense the problem/concern.

I do hope that archana would make sure as a mother that purvi gets her love and live a happy life as she of all persons would know what true love is and how difficult it is to make a sacrifice as huge as purvi and arjun. Ovi has already made her decision to move on, then she should allow her. It makes no sense trying to bring she and arjun back together because they are in a so called marriage. It has not work and it would not work.

Originally posted by: Salrina_Ashvik

Ovi a rich spoil brat who is jst extremly selfish behaves like 2 year old kid who is OBSSESSED with arjun nd married him despite knowing he luvs purvi,seriously my ears hurt whn she screams like hell feel lyk mai khudhi jaka uska gaala daba do.@tm i agre

Originally posted by: rayadallie

I agree with you but somehow I can understand purvi's position and why she did it. For me, she felt obligated to archana for archana had done so much for her. It was better for her to make sure that her aai gets her happiness as she saw her pain and suffering during the 18 yrs she was separated from her kids. I think anyone in purvi's place would have accepted the deal as a guaranteed way of getting her aai her lost happiness. If she had not done this then she would have been selfish. It would have made her as selfish as Ovi. that is the major difference between these two girls - one selfish and the other selfless

Originally posted by: sk11

I wouldn't call Purvi selfish for staying with her love. I would call her responsible and other nice words I can't think of right now lol.

All jokes aside, Archu deserved true happiness not fake ones Ovi was going to give although she didn't actually (remember she was ignoring purvi and what not about her end of the deal)

And purvi knew about the truth behind all of archus trouble she should have realized things would settle in their own. She didn't need to make this sacrifice. In doing so however, she ruined 3 lives and her Archu aai still got her happiness the way she would have always thru the the truth coming out & not ovi.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Soni, Purvi didnt have the time to wait for Archu's problems to be solved on their own.As far as I remember, ArMaan were getting divorced in 2 days and immediately after that, Manav was leaving for Canada again with his whole family, leaving Archu behind again, this time divorced and alone once more. Purvi had tried many tricks to stop divorce, she was at the end of her resources, She could not bear the thought of her mother alone and pining for her husband and kids forever...so she had to take up Ovi's deal. And yes, Ovi wasnt sincere abt her end of the deal until Arjun slept with her, I guess...🤢 If Teju had not overheard Savita and Sachin, I wonder if the whole truth would come out in time to stop ArMaan divorce...probably Purvi's sacrifice would have been in vain.

Originally posted by: sk11

You're probably right but I just feel purvi shouldn't have left Arjun hanging. He really needed her support then. He needed her to fight for him like he fought for her.

I know Ovi took advantage of Purvi and manipulated arvi but I wish purvi had stood up against this but the. I guess we wouldn't have a show right? How would we move forward in PR w/o the problems?