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Posted: 12 years ago
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"Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person. It is most often talked about as an emotion between two persons. Hence is also sometimes referred to as interpersonal love."

In my opinion, what Ovi feel for arjun is infatuation while what purvi and arjun feel for each other is LOVE. Based on this, I am of the view that Ovi and arjun marriage failed because they were never in love even though they tried to make it work. On the other hand, purvi and arjun even though not married and has been separated for so long still have that strong bond or emotion between them that makes their relationship so successful up until now. If purvi and arjun are to be married, I think their marriage will be very successful as they love and respect each other. they also listen and understand each other's views. Sometimes they dont even have to speak, they just sense the problem/concern.


I do hope that archana would make sure as a mother that purvi gets her love and live a happy life as she of all persons would know what true love is and how difficult it is to make a sacrifice as huge as purvi and arjun. Ovi has already made her decision to move on, then she should allow her. It makes no sense trying to bring she and arjun back together because they are in a so called marriage. It has not work and it would not work.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I look at it this way always that arovi failed due to lack of "in love" and obession with Arjun. Ovi was obsessed with Arjun and just having him. That's why when she had him legally, she was still always sad and upset because she realized she didn't have his heart which sucks after you have the person legally or physically there. The person has to be present for a relationship to work. Although Arjun was there for Ovi, but he was there as a friend. Not as a lover or husband. Because he couldn't. He was in love with someone else.

Arvi was manipulated due to purvis weakness. She didn't have faith in her love. For her, her mother was more important. That's why ovi was able to manipulate their relation.

Arjun I believe was the true man in all of this. He was in a comfortable relationship of convenience with ovi. He cheated, tried to fix it. Then went to prove his love which he did successfully. As for Manav saying if he truly loved purvi he would have always stayed by her side. I think this was wrong. Arjun has always stayed by purvis side, it's purvi that did not give a side to Arjun to stay by. She betrayed him by letting him go. It's purvi who didn't stand up for the man who took bullets for her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

"Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person. It is most often talked about as an emotion between two persons. Hence is also sometimes referred to as interpersonal love."

In my opinion, what Ovi feel for arjun is infatuation while what purvi and arjun feel for each other is LOVE. Based on this, I am of the view that Ovi and arjun marriage failed because they were never in love even though they tried to make it work. On the other hand, purvi and arjun even though not married and has been separated for so long still have that strong bond or emotion between them that makes their relationship so successful up until now. If purvi and arjun are to be married, I think their marriage will be very successful as they love and respect each other. they also listen and understand each other's views. Sometimes they dont even have to speak, they just sense the problem/concern.


I do hope that archana would make sure as a mother that purvi gets her love and live a happy life as she of all persons would know what true love is and how difficult it is to make a sacrifice as huge as purvi and arjun. Ovi has already made her decision to move on, then she should allow her. It makes no sense trying to bring she and arjun back together because they are in a so called marriage. It has not work and it would not work.

i do agree with ur post completely.. and i always said that ovi's love was more of infatuation and obsession and was never a true love.. it was quiet evident from her behaviour in the beginning when she came to know that arjun loved purvi and not her.. she always lived in her own world where she never tried to accept the truth and that all made her stand where she is today... she was so much obsessed with arjun that she herself said in one episode that if arjun cant be hers then she will never allow him to be others also and she made him exactly that today. neither she is with him and nor purvi can be with him at present..
@bold: i agree with this part very much.. arvi has a strong bond which may not be seen by others but which they both can sense..
since their confession their love life was never happy as soon as he proposed it was a refusal and then confession but they were seperated within 2 days sue to engagement drama and then seperated till truth was out and then arjun's test to prove himself and even then their love life was never smooth but still they are connected to each other emotionally and that was what their support system was and even today after all the crap which happened in their life they can still understand each other even without uttering a word..
sadly ovi understood this now and backed from arjun's life understanding that she can never have such a bond with him and can never have such a place in his life and heart which arjun have for purvi.. and its now the time for deshmukhs to understand their relation and set everything right..
as ovi herself doesnt want to enter into this relation again and move on i think d clan need to understand it and allow her as she herself does want to give their relation a chance and take it forward.. so its better they act wise and set everything right with arjun purvi and ovi keeping in mind that the poor soul pari needs the love of both father and mother...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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well in my dictionary forcing urself on others is pagalpan.
Reason behind failure of arjun ovi marriage is lack of trust. Of course love was nt there from very first day bt they failed even in friendship.
Coming to arvi they r in love coz they dnt want to live togather at any cost. Its nt like hum mar jaenge ek dusre k bina. They feel for each other. Thats love.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

"Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person. It is most often talked about as an emotion between two persons. Hence is also sometimes referred to as interpersonal love."

In my opinion, what Ovi feel for arjun is infatuation while what purvi and arjun feel for each other is LOVE. Based on this, I am of the view that Ovi and arjun marriage failed because they were never in love even though they tried to make it work. On the other hand, purvi and arjun even though not married and has been separated for so long still have that strong bond or emotion between them that makes their relationship so successful up until now. If purvi and arjun are to be married, I think their marriage will be very successful as they love and respect each other. they also listen and understand each other's views. Sometimes they dont even have to speak, they just sense the problem/concern.


I do hope that archana would make sure as a mother that purvi gets her love and live a happy life as she of all persons would know what true love is and how difficult it is to make a sacrifice as huge as purvi and arjun. Ovi has already made her decision to move on, then she should allow her. It makes no sense trying to bring she and arjun back together because they are in a so called marriage. It has not work and it would not work.



Superb Post. Completely agree with U. My view is also same all these bold point. Thank U so much for open this thread & marvelous post.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with u. I would like to say ovi is most disgusting to put a deal forward just to have Arjun like he was some toy. This girl should be slapped hard
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ya its so sad..arjun took bullets for purvi ..awww :(
arjun is so sweet!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

"Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person. It is most often talked about as an emotion between two persons. Hence is also sometimes referred to as interpersonal love."

In my opinion, what Ovi feel for arjun is infatuation while what purvi and arjun feel for each other is LOVE. Based on this, I am of the view that Ovi and arjun marriage failed because they were never in love even though they tried to make it work. On the other hand, purvi and arjun even though not married and has been separated for so long still have that strong bond or emotion between them that makes their relationship so successful up until now. If purvi and arjun are to be married, I think their marriage will be very successful as they love and respect each other. they also listen and understand each other's views. Sometimes they dont even have to speak, they just sense the problem/concern.


I do hope that archana would make sure as a mother that purvi gets her love and live a happy life as she of all persons would know what true love is and how difficult it is to make a sacrifice as huge as purvi and arjun. Ovi has already made her decision to move on, then she should allow her. It makes no sense trying to bring she and arjun back together because they are in a so called marriage. It has not work and it would not work.


agree completely😳

btw I just love reading ur posts 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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this one always struck in my mind ovi's love is teenage love which is just infactuation
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

"Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person. It is most often talked about as an emotion between two persons. Hence is also sometimes referred to as interpersonal love."

In my opinion, what Ovi feel for arjun is infatuation while what purvi and arjun feel for each other is LOVE. Based on this, I am of the view that Ovi and arjun marriage failed because they were never in love even though they tried to make it work. On the other hand, purvi and arjun even though not married and has been separated for so long still have that strong bond or emotion between them that makes their relationship so successful up until now. If purvi and arjun are to be married, I think their marriage will be very successful as they love and respect each other. they also listen and understand each other's views. Sometimes they dont even have to speak, they just sense the problem/concern.


I do hope that archana would make sure as a mother that purvi gets her love and live a happy life as she of all persons would know what true love is and how difficult it is to make a sacrifice as huge as purvi and arjun. Ovi has already made her decision to move on, then she should allow her. It makes no sense trying to bring she and arjun back together because they are in a so called marriage. It has not work and it would not work.

YOU left me speechless 👏👏👏 completely agsre wdh you ⭐️

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