Why blame others for your decisions?

Is it really a good thing to blame others always for your shortcomings?

I doubt whether its right to blame others for your mistakes and your problems when you yourself made your decisions to get what you want in life. Blaming and accusing others does not make you a better person, just because you are vocal and well known to be such a person.

In ovi's case, she tends to form conclusions in her own little head about each and every character around her. Its either her way or the highway. and everyone including her intelligent father does nothing to guide her on the right track. He is making her more unhappy than really happy by not putting some sense in her head. Look at his reaction after she told him about seeing purvi and pari in arjun's room. Why would arjun video call ovi and have pari and purvi in his room? any person with common sense can tell you that it was not what it seem like.

This whole situation as it unfolds in my opinion off course, would only serve to push arjun and purvi together. I wont blame them if they start to develop feelings again for each other as its just everyone accusing them of what they are not guilty of. Its better to be blame for something you have done rather than what you have not done.

Just my two cents. What you guys think?

They already have feelings for each other
But I think ovi's faults end right when she left Arjun and went to Canada
Ever since , it's her family's fault
And Arjun's for pursuing Ovi again and again

Arjun is doing what in my mind is right as he is married to Ovi and has lived with her for one year. He just want to make sure that its what she wanted, after all he does not want for him or her to have regrets after the marriage would have been dissolved. Arjun also knows Ovi and her temperiment, we all see how she left arjun but as soon as she sees pari and purvi in his room, she gets upset. If you made up your mind then that should not affect you. Should it?

Arjun should also pursue her also to ensure she has made up her mind because she already cause him much pain in life in the name of love. So he should make sure that she does not turn up mths later when he has move on to come in between and cause problems for him.

Old habits die hard. Blame game is given to Ovi in virasat, Savita assumes ArVi still have secretive meetings going on, Manav blames everyone except for Ovi... so its in the family.

i completely agree with u.. and not only ovi the whole D and K clan comes to conclusions without listening to the whole matter..

blaming others and coming to conclusion without thinking is D families trade mark character.

senseless people.

Khandani parampara. Never accept ur mistakes.

Originally posted by: rithika2012

i completely agree with u.. and not only ovi the whole D and K clan comes to conclusions without listening to the whole matter..

purvi was accused of moving near arjun when arjun himself came to purvi's house to see pari.. savita being an elderly person doesnt have the sense and accuses purvi of having an affair with arjun and says that arjun is not such a type of guy.. and sulo also does the same with purvi doesnt she know about purvi's character??

its the habit of the whole D and K clan to push ones blames on others.. as arjun should hook up with ovi again they will not say him and purvi as she was never theirs they can accuse her in every possible way...

this serial and the thinking of the people in it really makes me sick...

I agree with you completely. Sulo of all persons should have known purvi better as she grew up with her. She should have known that there was a reason why purvi did what she did, even onir told her but what- she choose not to listen and not to understand. Its really makes it look like what my mother would say 'blood thicker than water'.

It is always easier to blame others and make oneself seem the scapegoat.

Originally posted by: rayadallie

I agree with you completely. Sulo of all persons should have known purvi better as she grew up with her. She should have known that there was a reason why purvi did what she did, even onir told her but what- she choose not to listen and not to understand. Its really makes it look like what my mother would say 'blood thicker than water'.