arjun did not deceive ovi,he is human not god

about ovi,he loved arjun from childhood..he was her best frnd..her story is little similar to me so its not that i cant feel ovi's pain...i felt ovi's pain very much...me too had a best frnd..we were very happy together...but one day a junior girl proposed him and he accepted her..and he started to love her..after that he came to know that i love him..but it was so late..i felt so much pain when i see them together...the most painful thing is that the junior girl is extremely selfish and lier..i trusted her very much..but later i found that he was with many boys before,the funny thing is that the junior girl is not beautiful at any angle...i became so angry but till now i never thought to make them separate...yes i want them to separate honestly speaking but i want my best frnd to know the reality of that girl,i dont want to do anything..daily i cry silently...and if i were in ovi's place i never wanted to marry a guy who deepy in love with another girl...and i found ovi extremely selfish,when she is happy then everyone should be happy when she is not,everybody should not..i found her attention seeker...she is responsible for her unhappy married life..dont blame arjun for her unhappy married life...

purvi did so many stupid things..she is becoming very irriating but her intention is just to make her family happy...yes,she gave her child for hiding her pregnency truth,but why for hiding her truth..if the family came to know the truth what coud they do,disown her etc etc..but she had a big house in kolkata..she could be very happy there with pari and onir..and the question why she did not leave after giving pari to ovi...she is also a human,human made mistakes her intentions was not hurting ovi and family..

i want punir together...purvi is an orphan and alone actually though she has her so called d family..onir love her very much..i know arjun suffered a lot but i dont want arvi together by suffering onir...and i dont want him to die...his looks does not matter..he is a great man,truly love purvi...i want punir together...

i want to see ovi a mature woman...she should realise how much she hurted people for her zid...she should redeem..but in ekta's show it will never happen..i will not surprised if ekta make her negative...but ovi is manav and archana's daughter..i hope she will never turn negative and will realise her mistakes later and will become mature...then ovi and arjun can be together...

if ovi remain as immature selfish i prefer a new nice sweet girl for arjun who will make arjun forget his every grief...

ps:-i did not want to hurt anyone's sentiment..sorry if i hurt u

i am blaming him for hiding the truth from every1 especially ovi,y wil a wife belive that her husband came to know abt this 2-3 days ago,

she has full right to have a doubt on arjun

He was going to tell Ovi as soon as he found out, but mahan Purvi stopped him

I don't believe Arjun is controlled by either women. Arjun is just straight up dishonest in his dealings with both women.

Purvi did not initially know about Ovi and visa versa.

One minute he is professing undying love to Purvi and in the next breath, he is consummating and impregnating Ovi.

Arjun very much resembles western men and their dealings with women, dishonest and confusing.

If a man is going to profess that he does not love you and can't love you, then as soon as some guy is hovering over you, he agrees to marry you, isn't that confusing? Especially to an 18 yr old virgin who has not really seen the world?

If a man after agreeing to marry you (but he does not love you) to his and your family, then goes to another country and has some sort of affair with some girl, and he does not even tell you, not to mention he hides it from the other girl that he is already promised to someone, isn't that dishonest on all counts?

Thanks to someone else you find out about the girl on the side, and he is finally forced to admit his love for this girl, then they plan to marry, then him not knowing your deal with the girl agrees to the marriage,even though the deal did not say marriage, isn't that confusing? Fine he was forced by the great powers of this girl, but you would still be shocked right? Who makes such a decision after declaring love for someone else? No guns, no Knives, no parents forcing the marriage That is confusing.

Fine you marry him, he tells you at every turn he does not love you, humiliates you by slapping you in front of the woman he loves, just to prove to that woman how much he loves her and hates you, you finally say okay I am done, then he asks for a second chance, have sex with you, knowing he does not care if you live or die, isn't that dishonest of him?

So, no I do not agree that Arjun is this poor wittle boy who did not know what to do, and was controlled by two women 18 yrs old, and was not aware of how horribly he treated Ovi. He was dishonest, confusing and cruel to Ovi.

If Arjun needs to be God to do a simple thing as being honest about what he wants and showing common decency and humanity to Ovi, then this world was a waste to begin with.