Ovi betrayed? - Page 4

No one gives 2 hoots abt Arjun-Purvi had premarital unprotected sex..

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Dear Kalapi, if we were getting married in this 21st century, better for us to ask those questions especially if the guy has been in a prior relationship unless of course, we are so much in love that we don't care about his past or have done such things ourselves. Moot point for the two of us, we did not get married in these present times and I am happy for that. Yes, we should tell our daughters to make sure the guys they are marrying are worthy of their trust or that if they love blindly they should be able to accept their husband's past trespasses even if it be a hard pill to swallow.

Yes, I will tell my daughter to make sure that the boy they date will be (now that is sooo far away, can't even imagine😃) worthy of her trust and above all, to have self-respect and self -worth for herself. Hopefully, I can infuse some myself. But will never ask her to ask his future hubby questions about his past relationships. Hopefully, he should come out with his himself, if there are dark secrets and be honorable about himself and her. Although, I too know that reality can be very different, but er...to me why sow the seeds of mistrust and doubt even before a beautiful relatioships starts.

MAny time, I have wanted Ovi to divorce Arjun, but she didn't have that self-worth and put Arjun above all others. That is what I blamed her aways, that she put Arjun above herself. Hopefully, my daughter will have enough pride to value herself more than even the person she loves dearly 😃

Coming to Ovi, if she could not/did not accept that Arjun could be in love with another that denial sadly can be placed only at her own door. The truth is like a solid brick wall that she has inescapably bumped into, no turning back from the fact that her husband did love another girl madly before he was hers.

I do feel badly for Ovi, she has always been insecure where Arjun's love has been concerned even if she insisted on believing that he could love no other, this is the final nail in that coffin. I am hoping that Arjun can explain, and appease and reassure her that she is his wife now, that Purvi is his past, and the present is all that should matter to their life together. Easily said than done and very hard for any wife, blind or not, to accept and come to terms.

Well, I guess now Cvs will truly turn obsessive...for that created enough interest points for the serial...that translates into high activity in the forum, that is to a point the yardstick of the audience...

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

No one gives 2 hoots abt Arjun-Purvi had premarital unprotected sex..

but but

When you have unprotected sex there is possibility of pregnancy 😳

Superb and consice post abv by Justlikethat1 👏

Thank you. I am Harini BTW..😳


The one thing that makes me happy apart from the fact that Ovi finally knows the truth and can move on is the fact that all Mahaans who kept lying and lying are getting caught in their own lies.. It serves them right.

By lying all the time about her pregnancy and the child's father Purvi has created an illusion that the Pari was consummated after Arjun and Ovi married. Now even if Arjun and Purvi shout to the world that the sex happened before marriage, who will believe them? ..

Worse, saying they had premarital sex would not make their crime any less. Just more horrible 😈

So Arjun and Purvi have no way out.. They either betrayed Ovi before marriage or betrayed her after marriage.. Neither act can be condoned.. They played a game with Ovi in the middle and betrayed her. There is no two ways around it.. It is not about love at all. This is about being honest and truthful and neither Arjun nor Purvi understand ABC of those two words.🥱

It will be good to see them stammer through this mess they created themselves. I hope everyone tells them exactly what they are.. Hypocritical, back biting relations🤢

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

This is just not the betrayal of the baby switch IMHO..

What Ovi heard was that Pari is Arjun and Purvi's baby..

She now knows the following things.

1. Her baby has died and she did not get a chance to even see the child

2. Arjun did betray her inspite of all his promises and protests..
Remember that Ovi will not know that Pari was conceived before marriage.. Purvi and Onir hid it well. They switched medical reports to say that Purvi was pregnant almost around the same time as Ovi. What more, when Ovi was suspicious, her own mother told her that everybody is different and that Purvi was and was surely only as pregnant as Ovi..
Purvi's accident also very easily helped her put her full term child in the incubator as premature..

Now any logical conclusion from this is that Purvi and Arjun had sex after Arjun was married to Ovi. I think that is also the betrayal Ovi is talking about..

After all her hysteria which no one gave two hoots to, here is the girl seeing her husband who denied every link to his ex not just have a rendezvous with her but also hears her husband and his ex lover talk of 'their' child which as per all medical reports and evidence was consummated right around the time Ovi also got pregnant..

Ovi has every right to feel betrayed. Arjun almost slapped her and abused her for voicing the same thing both Arjun and Purvi revealed today.. Of course Ovi feels betrayed.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Thank you. I am Harini BTW..😳


The one thing that makes me happy apart from the fact that Ovi finally knows the truth and can move on is the fact that all Mahaans who kept lying and lying are getting caught in their own lies.. It serves them right.

By lying all the time about her pregnancy and the child's father Purvi has created an illusion that the Pari was consummated after Arjun and Ovi married. Now even if Arjun and Purvi shout to the world that the sex happened before marriage, who will believe them? ..

Worse, saying they had premarital sex would not make their crime any less. Just more horrible 😈

So Arjun and Purvi have no way out.. They either betrayed Ovi before marriage or betrayed her after marriage.. Neither act can be condoned.. They played a game with Ovi in the middle and betrayed her. There is no two ways around it.. It is not about love at all. This is about being honest and truthful and neither Arjun nor Purvi understand ABC of those two words.🥱

It will be good to see them stammer through this mess they created themselves. I hope everyone tells them exactly what they are.. Hypocritical, back biting relations🤢

I think Indian population would lessen if they would make illegitimate children illegal
That way the population would be under control and many marriages would be saved

I really hope Purvi , onir and Arjun realize that good intention isn't everything
It's the actions that is taken for the good intention to work out that is hurting everyone
If Purvi really wanted to make life simple for herself she could just leave and go
To Kolkata
But she and her husband had to stay here and stir up all the problem
Purvi is a drama queen a big one
When she was gone Arjun and Ovi had problems in their marriage
But there were no police , cases , etc going on

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Thank you. I am Harini BTW..😳


The one thing that makes me happy apart from the fact that Ovi finally knows the truth and can move on is the fact that all Mahaans who kept lying and lying are getting caught in their own lies.. It serves them right.

By lying all the time about her pregnancy and the child's father Purvi has created an illusion that the Pari was consummated after Arjun and Ovi married. Now even if Arjun and Purvi shout to the world that the sex happened before marriage, who will believe them? ..

Worse, saying they had premarital sex would not make their crime any less. Just more horrible 😈

So Arjun and Purvi have no way out.. They either betrayed Ovi before marriage or betrayed her after marriage.. Neither act can be condoned.. They played a game with Ovi in the middle and betrayed her. There is no two ways around it.. It is not about love at all. This is about being honest and truthful and neither Arjun nor Purvi understand ABC of those two words.🥱

It will be good to see them stammer through this mess they created themselves. I hope everyone tells them exactly what they are.. Hypocritical, back biting relations🤢

Originally posted by: Kalapi

I said the same thing in my post 😃

Btw, Harini is a beautiful name...loved it Harini (I keep saying your name in my head 😃)

Aww thanks.. The credit goes to my mom. It was her choice😳


Love your posts and all the posts in KC 😊 One of the most witty and logical analysis I have ever come across in IF😛 Great job by everyone on that thread👏

Love your name Harini...Female Deer??? 😃 Pls share the meaning of your name...Simply love it...Yet another awesome post by you and Kalapi & ilovedhanjanird...

There is no way to prove when sex happened between the love birds of the 21st century's ...B4 ArOvi marriage of after...Betrayal is still a betrayal...On so many grounds Trio ArVNir has betrayed Ovi...This will defo kill her if not make her crazy-insane with depression and hurt...Mother not around to comfort...Hope father manav pays little attenion and takes an offense to what Trio has done to his daughter..No one yet has defended Ovi for what she has been saying all along...

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

<font color="#660099">Love your name Harini...Female Deer??? 😃 Pls share the meaning of your name...Simply love it...Yet another awesome post by you and Kalapi & ilovedhanjanird...

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<em><font color="#660099">There is no way to prove when sex happened between thelove birds of the21st century's ...B4 ArOvi marriage of after...Betrayal is still a betrayal...On so many grounds Trio ArVNir has betrayed Ovi...This will defo kill her if not make her crazy-insane with depression and hurt...Mother not around to comfort...Hope father manav pays little attenion and takes an offense to what Trio has done to his daughter..No one yet has defended Ovi for what she has been saying all along...</font>

<font color="#660099">Trio did not even spare that innocent stillborn baby 😭 Arjun has not thought abt that baby once and cried...How sad is that..😳</font>

Varsha Di,
I am Waneeka :D may I start by how much I love your posts? You have the most rational posts in this forum. I always enjoy reading your post.
Arjun not once mourned the loss of his baby but he mourned the loss of purvis baby who he then thought was onir's
May I also add how special pari has become since she is now the "nishani" of his and purvis amar prem
The funniest thing among everything is how Purvi is now revealing the truth ! She didn't reveal the truth when her husbands career was on stake but now she is
Wow
I think punni is a better person than Purvi is
Punni is better than Purvi because at least she knows what she wants
She knows she wants money and would do everything in order to get it
But Purvi she is confused , whiny and not to forget I-am-the-angel-please-worship-me person -.-

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Love your name Harini...Female Deer??? 😃 Pls share the meaning of your name...Simply love it...Yet another awesome post by you and Kalapi & ilovedhanjanird...

There is no way to prove when sex happened between the love birds of the 21st century's ...B4 ArOvi marriage of after...Betrayal is still a betrayal...On so many grounds Trio ArVNir has betrayed Ovi...This will defo kill her if not make her crazy-insane with depression and hurt...Mother not around to comfort...Hope father manav pays little attenion and takes an offense to what Trio has done to his daughter..No one yet has defended Ovi for what she has been saying all along...

Trio did not even spare that innocent stillborn baby 😭 Arjun has not thought abt that baby once and cried...How sad is that..😳

It does mean Female Deer and it is another name for Goddess Lakshmi. I am the first child in the family and hence the name😳


I agree completely. Ovi has been betrayed by her best friend, her so called sister, her Obgyn and unlike these three she has time and again apologized for her faults. What was horrible today was how easily Purvi talked about Pari being her child with Arjun and about revealing the truth and cared scant about Ovi for whom she was saying that her tyaags till yesterday were for😕 And in all this Arjun who was there at the hotel to meet Ovi did not even think about her once.. I mean not even once.. Not even after looking at the watch.

Wasn't he supposed to be there to meet Ovi? Should he not atleast once think about her? And when Purvi talked about Pari being hurt by Punni, shouldn't Arjun be thinking about the child that is already dead and buried? How can someone be this callous?🤢

Oh I so wish someone questions Teju, Manav and the rest for blindly disregarding Ovi's fears as just insecurities. Those who decried her helplessness as immaturity will have to eat their words.

I remember Ovi once accused Purvi of eyelocking and flirting with her husband and everyone told Ovi to chill it. But Ovi has been proved right and how?😊 This is far worse than eyelocks..

I really wonder if any family would accept someone who betrays their own sibling this way. I have heard of men wanting to marry the sister instead of the girl intended and getting away with it but I don't think anyone would ever accept that a sister slept with her siblings husband and sired a kid. Sex premarital or not does not matter. It is highly frowned upon and no family would accept such culprits and forgive them easily.

I hope this PR family also is shown with some sense and does not just let the matter go as before..🥱