Archana - Page 2

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

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Thank God that she is not coming back ...please keep reminding me and her other fans of this ...it is a big relief ...

I feel Ankita was treated very unfairly by the production house and she should not come back ...Also the forum is very different now , don't want to participate fully in again ...

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Jhanvi, the talk of blood and water is because at one time I used to read this every single day ' blood is thicker than water ' , all the time ...the slightest thing Archana would do for her other kids and immediately this phrase would jump up in the forum...

So from that point it does seems odd that mother is in Coma and daughter is enjoying dancing in the party and playing holi and all that.. Purvi is right now all over in love again so she is being shown as someone who is enjoying that attention and all that ...but the circumstances around her are pretty bad , mother in Coma and daughter given away so it does comes across as rather odd that she is being shown this way ...

When Purvi was in trouble , Archana was in a state worse than her ..Purvi was kidnapped and Archana was like almost like she died herself ... then again when Purvi left then also it was shown that Archana would wake up with nightmares about her ...

But inspite of it all this phrase ' blood is thicker than water ' would just keep coming up again and again and again ...

I find it very sad when this adoption factor comes up .For me the adopted child is the same as your own ...in the case of Archana and Purvi, Archana has loved the adopted child even more than her other kids ( maybe because she grew up with her mother ) ..People , if angry , shoudl say ' Archana is being a bad mother " or she does not have good time management skills to give attention to all her kids but not say something like ' Oh so blood is thicker than water after all' , just because Archu is paying attention to her other child who also needs her ..

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Tanya, I find it odd that everyone is enjoying including Sulo and Savita. Manav looks sad but he is part of the Holi celebrations too. I was wondering if people do become used to someone being in the hospital for that long, be it a mother, wife, dil, daughter, or whoever else close. I understand daily business cannot come to a standstill but revelry to the extent shown in the soap is unrealistic.

And yes, Archana was distraught when Purvi was kidnapped and she knew her daughter was in danger but when she found her family after 18 years there was a period of lull when she seemed to have forgotten Purvi and her sacrifice, and left her behind in the K house (yes Purvi told her mother to go home to Manav when Archana hesitated, yet, as mothers you and I know that what our children tell us can only have limited bearing on our behavior, it does not completely absolve our responsibility) until Manav came to take Purvi home. I think that was when people said those things about Archana that she seemed to have forgotten Purvi in her newly regained happiness. Again, cannot fault the CVs for not showing Archana's angst over Purvi in that instance as perhaps a half hour is not sufficient to show all the comings and goings on in the show, some we have to guess and accept as happening behind the scenes, perhaps.

You are right, Archana has loved Purvi more than her own children by the simple fact that she has raised Purvi and Purvi to all intents and purposes is her child in every sense of the word just as Soham is to Varsha, unfortunately. Soham still calls Varsha Mayi and still reveres her as his mother even while accepting and loving Archana as his Aai. The bonds of togetherness are too strong to be broken by chance or circumstance. Archana gave birth to her twins and Soham but Purvi is more her child than all of them combined as she was given the opportunity to mother this girl unlike that of her own. One can never doubt Archana's love for Purvi or vice-versa for that matter.

That opened up a new thought, there is a bond too between Arjun and Ovi, that of having known each other for that long, he puts her first, she seems to know he will choose her or that he "belongs" to her. Familiarity and togetherness can be as strong a bond as relationships forged out of love and blood.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Sulochana loved partying and was partial always to Archu

Archana partied too and is partial to Purvi

Unfair motherhood is regarded as fair game in PR

Tanya which serials r u seeing