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Shweta laxman

@-Stardust-

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Arch.Archu
@Missscarlett-
Purvi never said 'I will never fall in love with you. We will never share pati-patni relation.'
Also, Onir didn't scare her off or 'browbeat' her. She did have the choice of refusing his proposal. It it weren't for Onir, Purvi would have been in a lot more trouble. Till date the Indian society looks down upon an unwed pregnant woman.

Yes, but it was purvis problem right? Nt saying that onir didnt do a fovour on her... Yes, he has helped her a lot... But i disagree with d statement that he 'accepted' her... Bcause she didnt force him for anything...
Yes, mayb wot will happen in d future nobody can tell.. But for nw, purvi isnt in love with him or is in any sorta relationship wid him and is wid him only for her child and that their marriage is a samjhota... Her words nt mine .:) u just cant fall in and out of love just like that :)

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714873

Hibernated

Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

Rofl... U TC dear... Byee

u too TC...

PuNir on d way after all 😃

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notsurewhy

@notsurewhy

Beginner

Posted: 12 years ago

#33

I completely agree with you. I am the mother of a adorable 2 year old girl and I cannot imagine what it would take for me to give her up.

That said, this is the land of make-believe and we all sacrifice our intelligence and common sense before we enter the temple of PR. We (or at least I do) embrace suspension of disbelief when we start watching the show every day.

The show does not have a history of dealing with Ovi as she should be dealt with. At every turn, Ovi's family has given into her demands and Purvi has sacrificed something for Ovi. So it seems unlikely that the show will break from its historical stance and require Ovi to face the facts now. I suspect that CVs will rationalize this unreasonable scenario by having the doctor proclaim either that "Ovi can never have children" and/or "Ovi will mentally decline if she learns of her miscarriage" or somesuch.

Originally posted by: chinyere
I dont ever believe in separating a baby from its mother.It is also very difficult for a woman to give away her first born even if it means she can have a 100 more babies..this one time they should just leave ovi to go through her tantrums or whatever..let ovi and arjun mourn their miscarriage and start all over to begin a family...

Besides i dont trust ovi raisning a child she doesnt have the qualities of being an undersdtanding ,giving human being how then will she be a good mother??its a repeat of ovi junior...Just look at when she saw punni for the baby shower function,the first thing she remembered about punni was when she used to work in the office and address ovi as ovi maam..that ovi is so vain and shallow what qualities will she pass on to a child..she still sees purvi as an orphan.ovi cant see beyond her needs and wants..she has no empathy for nobody ..what kind of life a baby will have to endure with her(ovi)...

HAve a blessed day and a great week...

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Arch.Archu
@Missscarlett-
Purvi never said 'I will never fall in love with you. We will never share pati-patni relation.'
Also, Onir didn't scare her off or 'browbeat' her. She did have the choice of refusing his proposal. It it weren't for Onir, Purvi would have been in a lot more trouble. Till date the Indian society looks down upon an unwed pregnant woman.

What trouble purvi would have been in? People like purvi need to change that society that thinks like this. Someone makes a mistake like hers, should not be afraid to keep their baby. its best to keep the baby rather than aborting it. Because of such things many women risk their lives to avoid the discrimination. (Kya Kehna the movie)

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rithika2012

@rithika2012

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#35

i cant imagine how can someone be happy on leaving their children for someone.. No mother on this earth will be happy away form their chld..

Coming to purvi onir relation after donating purvi will not practically work out... This is because their relation was mainly based on the baby and was just an understanding for the security of the baby... Once if the baby is not their then how can the relation based on it will survive??? Can ever purvi forget her baby whom she gave birth too?? no.. the baby is the only one person on this earth with whom she shares a blood relation and say it completely as hers.. so in her life time she can never forget her...when a mother cant forget the baby whom she lost even before birth then how can purvi forget her baby and move on with onir..

And my question can onir be happy seeing purvi suffering and crying for her baby?? definitely no.. this is because he is the one who knows how much purvi loves her baby and the struggle she faced for the baby and he clearly knows that he is just a friend in her life and nothing more than that and thought to himself that he will never tell her his feelings untill he knows her feelings...as he knows her love for the baby he will understand her pain too..

so keeping all this in my view i feel that the situation between purvi and onir will not change even if the baby goes to arjun.. and more over they may feel that when there is no reason for the relation they can end it as purvi knows she can never love onir and can never keep him happy.. so even this is possible...

And as the time passes they both may get closer also

but if that would have happened then with in these 6 months purvi could have forgot arjun and moved on as she know that arjun can never be hers but it didnot happen as even today we can feel the difference when she face arjun... so for her its not so easy to forget her baby and love and move on easily in her life...

in short i just wanted to say that the situation gives some options like

1 may end the relation get seperated and live their lives as they want

2. live like that only without change in relation

3. may move on in due time...

this is just my pov and im just posting the possibilities..

but as this is PR we cant expect any logic or reality here.. if cv's want onir and purvi then she can forget her baby too and move on and if they want arjun and purvi she cannot forget her baby even if it is 20 yrs from now and will be still loving arjun and her baby and missing him.. it all depends on their wish and more on trp's...

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pujli07

@pujli07

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

Yes. Nobody bashes onir... Someppl including me finds his character a lil unrealistic... Nobody hates him... But lets nt get into that. I respect ua views :)

i dont usually like arguing on these points but really, how is what Purvi or Arjun is doing in any way realistic?? forcing your ex-fiance to have babies with someone else and he goes around listening to her as well.. no 19 year old is that mahaan.. Onir is just a nice person who i dont think would have even lied to someone until purvi made him do so to hide her secrects.

Ovi is the only realistic person who is acting her age and speaks up whether it is good or bad. She is fine with Purvi too when purvi does not get on her business.. and she only gets mad when she sees something..

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: notsurewhy
It is not unreasonable to think that Onir and Purvi will eventually have a normal marital relationship. After all, it has only been 6 months or so since they met under rather unnatural circumstances. Many a marriages in the South Asian diaspora start out based on trust or even faith and wishful thinking and go on to become successful. All these characters are so young (early twenties) that a few months of intense love (between Arjun and Purvi), lack of intimacy (betweeen Onir and Purvi) and reluctant intimacy (between Arjun and Ovi) could be gotten past with time. Time heals or dulls most pain and sorrow.

All that said, this is PR. So who knows? :)

Guys are in their 20s but both women are not. Ovi is not even full 20 & purvi is 19. They have babies delivering babies.

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Sheetal

@arjunpurvixo

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#38

LOL so if Purvi gives up her child, she'll instantly forget about the special night it was created, whom it was created with, and the fact that she carried the baby for 7-9 months? Just because she gives up the baby doesn't mean that she'll instantly move on with Onir. Mothers get a special attachment with their babies, so Purvi should just give it up? I, for one, am really disgusted with this track. There's a reason why Purvi ended up keeping the baby despite the fact that she knew there would be others judging her for being unmarried and pregnant. Now, she'll easily just give up the baby that she was so excited for and had so much hope for? This is really sickening.

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Shweta laxman

@-Stardust-

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: pujli07

i dont usually like arguing on these points but really, how is what Purvi or Arjun is doing in any way realistic?? forcing your ex-fiance to have babies with someone else and he goes around listening to her as well.. 0„2no 19 year old is that mahaan.. Onir is just a nice person who i dont think would have even lied to someone until purvi made him do so to hide her secrects.0„2
Ovi is the only realistic person who is acting her age and speaks up whether it is good or bad. She is fine with Purvi too when purvi does not get on her business.. and she only gets mad when she sees something..

M sorry i find Onir totally unrealastic. Purvi might b still b v young, but he is a grown up man. He shouldnt have supported purvi in all this and should have encouraged her to tell the truth atleast to the father of the child. Any sensible person will do it. He is no better than purvi. He is playing with a child's future and seems extremly satisfied about it. U say that purvi made him lie or he wouldnt have done it. Why, doesnt he have a functioning brain of his? Why was he so eagar to get into this whole mess in first place? Marrying a preganant women who u just barely met. Nobody does nt. Ppl might find it an example of extreme mahanta. But i find it plain stupid! He doesnt even realise wen therz an extra 3 lakhs in d money someonez given him. He is a doctor. Doesnt he think that a father has the right to knw about his own child? Is he dumb to agree with whatever purvi says?
Also, it takes a lot and trust me a lot of hardword to bcome a doctor. If u have seen greyz anatomy, then u will agree with me. The surgeons literally can do anything for their carrer..
No normal person just throws away their medical carrer to go and goes to work for d poor and needy... M nt saying hez nt good. Just unrealistic... .