Kool's Commentary : 29 Oct PR - Page 5

but how long will the cildren be 18 and naadaan and saints or just plain demons!

S. Nina & Shyamala dears wonderful posts...I wrote a looong post identical to your thoughts but lost it as my silly puter got stuck and did not feel like re writing it..We have been screaming for months or yr and half for the same nonsense which is going on in PR..

My dear Varsha,

@ red. You are spot on wrt Damodar and the daru. You should have been a lawyer! I never thought of that; It makes Archana putting up her nose at the bottle on the table there all the more laughable.

We are not only on the same page but on the same line wrt Manav, Satish, and Arjun. How can one help those who will not help themselves?

Shyamala

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

S. Nina & Shyamala dears wonderful posts...I wrote a looong post identical to your thoughts but lost it as my silly puter got stuck and did not feel like re writing it..We have been screaming for months or yr and half for the same nonsense which is going on in PR..

The Arjun I used to love and support has disappeared and has been destroyed to unrecognizable 🐷

Your response to Nina is precisely I have been writing about Manav, Satish and Arjun...Not only karanjkar women deserve each other but the men in their lives deserves exactly what they are getting...Enabling people by not correcting them and pacifying their bad behavior only reinforces in their minds that they can do no wrong and are right all the time..

Not only Archana emotionally blackmailed-manipulated Sachu into bailing out Varsha-balan but she (ArMan as plaintiffs) manipulated Sachu yesterday into giving address of the defendent who ArMan has a case against for kidnapping of their son SOham...If Sachu and Savita were held responsible and yelled at for issuing forged singnatured divorce papers to Archu, how is this any different Archana making Sachu first representing Plaintiffs and defendents in getting them bailed out but Sachu the lawyer also giving out confidential information to Archana by providing Varsha-Balan's address so she can go visit Soham on his bday.

Mind you she did not consult Manav regarding bailing Varsha balan but she yet again did not consult him regarding visiting Soham @ Varsha-Balan's home...Why take these silly decisiions which jeapordizes other Deshmukh family members against her own spouse's wishes? But when spouse is not upset abt it who are we to blame Archana alone??? manav is equally or more respeonsible in this...Just like Archana is more responsible in Soham's kidnapping than Varsha IMHO.

Archana giving Ovi advice on trust and loyalty to Arjun, what right does she have when she did not take her husband's words regarding chawl case that he was innocent and took him to court for random people and their words??? Defamed her own husband personally, professionally and than some...Yet that was not even done with she trusted her psycho sister with a 4 yrs young child and the outcome is what we see today..

The lectures on Sanskars, parvarish etc Archana keeps dolling out why does she not look at herself in the mirror to recognize they apply to her too..

Blaiming Varsha for raising a son who drinks Daaru...What if Soham was raised in the same home where her chamcha sasur who is an alchoholic???? So quick to judge others but never look within for faults...Admitting or saying passing sorry does not mean a damn when one does not mean them..

I defended Manav, Satish and Arjun but I have stopped as they are lying in the bed or the grave they dug for themselves...When one pacifies wrong behavior and enables i do not feel an oz of sorry for them..

Sorry for the looong post but I wrote so much yesterday and lost it...Decided to write it just to get it off my lovely chest..

Thanks for reading..

ADD: I am so happy Manju will teach Sulo her sanskars...Who is Archana or Teju to question manju's intentions? Sulo thinks she is changed just like Savita thinks Archana was right and did not do wrong..Savita also took complete blame for ArMan's stupidity...

Why Q Manju the DIL and not Q Archana the DIL????????? Archana has done more barbadi of Deshmukhs by protecting Manju..Same with Sulo who never corrected Manju when she did wrong...Now bughto.😡

Dear Kools,

Thanks, and I am glad we are of one mind on this.

I once wrote a VERY long case history of the chawl demolition case as a response to Tulsey, and I think the thread was called When did Archana ever help Manav? or something like that. I did that because I was truly horrified by Archana's betrayal of a beloved and very caring husband, to whom she had been married for so long that she should have known, without the shadow of a doubt, that he would never have done what he was accused of.

I clearly remember her looking at him when he was protesting his innocence, and saying Saboot saab khilaaf hain or the like.I was appalled. My definition of trust is that it needs no proof; if it needs proof, then it is not trust, and thus not love. I had cited that in a post about the time she was pointing her finger at Arjun and challenging him to make 10000 rupees on his own; she was going into paeans of praise about Manav and their pavitra rishta, and I felt like laughing and said so.

The problem is that very few in the forum take that court case seriously; it could have sent Manav to jail for years. No husband with an iota of self respect would have had anything to do with a wife who did that to him. But of course Manav is of a breed apart, and now he has issued indulgences in Archana's favour for any and all acts of commission and omission from AD 1.So who are we to complain?

Kools, when I heard Varsha ruminating about Satish, chills ran down my spine, thinking of the likely fate that awaited that chap. God save him, for the CVs will not.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

shyamala , brilliantly put . I agree with your full post .

That is what we were screaming for so many months ...that the court case alone was a very strong ground for Manav to leave her without the Soham fiasco .

And the leaving should have been such that Manav should have refused to give her a dime of his money as alimony or divorce settlements as she had condemned that money and called him 'ambitious' in open court [out of context entirely , she had used the court as a platform to air her own private sulky views]and if she or Sulochana had talked hypocritically of an ' aurat's haq' he should have coldly told them

'' Go and fight for it for years in the court then . As it is , u understand the language of the courts better .''

Not only this , Manav should have not allowed her to see the faces of the children for attempting to ruin him financially with the posibility of a jail sentence as the father's prosperity means a better future for the children . She was trying to destroy the children's future too for some random people who could take care of themselves for some whimsical highs .

I agree that its high time Arjun moves on and should not live indefinitely like a Trishanku . He has run after that girl enough.

Archana's lecture to Varsha on 'trust' is laughable as her entire marital life is nothing but distrust and distrust and distrust on her spouse . They can use Varsha to point that out to her .

Varsha thinking of Satish stymied me ...it meant there is a possibility of his return .

Well, Kools, Purvi seems to be eternally 18, like Markandeya was eternally 16! It is not just you, but a whole lot of others who put her at 18.

Look, she was not an infant in arms when Archana rescued her, and though one has to allow for Ekta's CVs and their wonky arithmetic, she must by now be at least 22. She is always talking about her education standing her in good stead, and one presumes that she is at least a graduate. Moreover, she has been working for 3 1/2 years at least. She could not have started at 14 1/2, could she?

Even setting this aside, a girl who can plan the lives of so many people, without a thought as to what they might want, can surely manage her own life, would you not say? And I do not think she looks at all lost and unsure.. In fact , having installed the Manju-Punni combo at the Karanjkars, she is now setting out to straighten out the lives of Arjun and Ovi. If she has any spare time and Zee thinks of one more PR-PSH mahaepisode, Thakur Vikram Singh is in for another edifying lecture from Ms. Purvi Deshmukh.

This said, perhaps your idea would help the future recipients of her attentions, and might thus be eminently desirable, if only Archana could spare some time from her Operation Soham.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

instead of wasting her time giving challenges to Varsha and trying to 'reform ' Soham whicch might take even years , why is Archana not thinking of Purvi as a mother ? Purvi has no job , no marraige and she recently understood from Ovi that she bumps into Arjun many times . How about finding a really good proposal for her , any mother would do that . But Archana can only focus on one kid at a time ...she ignores the others . Ovi is married and Teju is ok and under her supervision ...its Purvi who needs some attention . She looks lost and unsure . She is only 18 . She gave up her own life for Archana ...is not her settling down her responsibility .

Why is Damo still drinking? Doesn't the fool remember how he ended up in rehab? How come his liver hasn't succumbed to the effects of drinking so much or does he drink modestly?

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina

Why is Damo still drinking? Doesn't the fool remember how he ended up in rehab? How come his liver hasn't succumbed to the effects of drinking so much or does he drink modestly?

Sulo is a laugh. Let her believe that Manju is good, and then when she gets bit by the snake, I'll just laugh at her tomfoolery. Serves the woman right!

Archana really shouldn't have had all these kids if she can't take care of them. Purvi needs a mother now and Archana is too obsessed with Soham/Vishnu Lalla who is better off with Varsha and Balan (IMO). Archana's lectures on trust and etc., are just hard to bear. I feel like banging my head into a wall. Soham needs to try to get as far away from the D clan as fast as he can!