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Originally posted by: sonali.23
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tanyaz nice post! however theryre some points i beg to differ on.😊 sulochana too is a very bad mother to archana she always trying to misguide her and create problem between her and her sasural, she slap manav not twice but thrice. she also say many bad things to manav in ajit favor, insult him bad many times.Sonali , I also do not like Sulochna sometimes .The reasons are because she has been rather selfish with Archana .She used Archana for so many things ..But the last 18 years or so , I felt that she more than made up for all that .She stood by Archana when everyone dumped her ..As for the slaps . Savita too has slapped Archana twice and once even tried to burn her alive .How come no one mentions the slaps and the humiliations that Archana was getting .😕..So savita and Sulochna are both comepletely even on this front .Compared to how savita has been to Archana , Sulochna has done nothing ...Savita has deliberately tried to hurt her bahu many many times ..Knowing fully well that she is innocent ..She has got false divorce papers served to Archana not once but twice ...i have been very mad with savita these days and i still am but i honestly do feel a tad sympathetic for her. this way manav has been behaving to his mom this days is very inhuman. savita is an old aged lady and she shouldn't be treated like this.What Savita did , that was inhuman .She never respected another woman's rights as a mother ...What goes around comes around na ...She made the girls hate Archana for 18 years ..Now she has herself fallen in the same khadda that she was digging for her bahu ...As for Manav ...he is like this .He goes to extremes ..With Archaan too he was inhuman when he listened to his mother and hated his wife forgetting all good that she even did to him and just hating her and doing what mommy wanted ..he is doing the same now ...The difference is that this time the woman he is put off with is not Archana but Savita ..
Savita was loving Archana being hated ( she could not stop smiling everytime Archana was insulted by her children and her husband , how else would this woman learn how evil she was ) ...the only way God could teach this woman what Hate really means is to make her feel hated by her very own son ...Exactly what she wanted for Archana ...But Archana is such a nice person that she was telling Savita not to distance herself with her son or else this man will go away from her even more ..Why Archana said that ...simple , because she herself has experienced it ..She has felt the pain how Manav gets put off and how cold he can get if he wants to ..She does not want this pain for anyone ...not even for the woman who destroyed her life ...of course her age doesnt hide her faults but manav shud not have say to his mom that if u leave house i dont care. he shud show sadness upon his mom leaving house bcuz savita do care for him. she hate archana but at least she like her son.If she liked her son that much then she would not have seperated him from his love ..What kind of a mother sees her son unhappy for 18 years , without love , without his wife and a proper family , crying in locked rooms on his anniversary ...but Manav's tears did not effect Savita at all...Very strange love I must say ..Savita is very choosy at loving Manav .She only loves him when it suits her missions in life ..When her mission in life clashes with her son's love , she always does what her heart wants and not what Manav wants .actually archana not always stand by manav thru thick and thin. yes she was a wonderful wife to him at certain time but how about when he want to demolish chawl then archana objecting it and doing case against him which is not very appropriate for a wife to do.Archana had asked him not to take the case but he too did not stand by Archana and he took the case .So if she did not stand by him then he too did not stand by her ...Every person has a right to stand by their opinion ...Archana stood by hers ..Anyway , the court case did not hurt Manav at all...the Chawl people themselves protected him and made sure that he will nto get hurt ..Even his boss was least effected ( he told Manav to forget about it ) ...Manav ignored Archana throughout the pregnany ...I think that was enough of punishment but if he was still angry then he could have divorced her if he wanted to ..He himself does not think that Archana did anything wrong and has said it twice ( once in front of Savita and then 18 years later in front of Arjun that he was wrong and Archaan was right in the court case ) ..I think Archana has stood by Manav so so many times ...throughout her whole life but yes , Manav has not stood by Archana most of his life ..he is the one who did not trust her and trusted his mother and desptroyed Archana 's life ...I wish Archana had not forgiven him so easily .In my opinion Manav is the one who has wronged the relationship many many times more than Archana ...manav has suffer just like archana, to me both arman r responsible for whatever happened, not just manav. but the person who i hate most of all is varsha,😡 i totally hate varsha to the core she is a disgusting pathetic woman.😡 she steal soham away from arman and i hope soham blast varsha and archana for his bad childhood. varsha is way worst then savita anyday. and if archana dare forgive varsha for her sin i hope manav slaps varsha and even archana if she supporting her sister too much.I also hate Varsha .I hope she goes to prison ..Archana forgives everyone ..Hell she forgave Savita and Manav ...She forgave savita within hours ..I also hope she does not forgives Varsha ..But Varsha is so evil that Archana's forgiveness means nothing to her ...Al lthat matters to Varsha is Soham ..The only way Varsha can learn her lesson is for Soham to hate her eventually ...If Archana wants Varsha to be forgiven immediately then of course she will be wrong but let's first see what her stand will be on this .
