grrr varsha - Page 2

u are right, Jhanvi. Purvi did choose her mother's happiness over Arjun. No excuse there for dumping Arjun the way she did.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Varsha, I agree with you, Purvi is at fault and so is Archana but so are Varsha and Ovi. They are all tarred with the same brush, Purvi wanted her aai's happiness at whatever cost, Varsha wanted Soham at whatever cost, Ovi wanted Arjun at whatever cost, and Archana wanted to be good and Mahaan at whatever cost.

Also, if Purvi should have stayed away from Arjun, Ovi should have stayed away from him too when the wedding was just a day away. In a real world situation both girls should have steered clear but this is a silly soap with an unfortunate set of events and to be fair, all four women are at fault, some more than the others depending on individual perspective. Most of the misfortune has been brought upon them by themselves that is what makes it frustrating for the viewer :)

Janhvi we both are saying the same...I agree with this post completely..😃 I do get where u r coming from dear...Not heartless 😳

Abhi, you are right force does not have to be physical, blackmail here was a threat to cause mental harm, and barter was offered in place of removing that mental anguish, you said it so well, no sale without an offer to purchase.

Jyothi, did you mean to say why is Ovi the wronged party? Arjun is the wronged party according to me, he was the one wronged and he is the victim in this mess though he was stupid (pardon the word) to comply with the force being applied by Purvi on him to go through with the marriage to Ovi. Ovi applied pressure on Purvi, Purvi in turn applied pressure on Arjun and Arjun became putty in the hands of these two girls. He would have been better off without either of them.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Abhi, you are right force does not have to be physical, blackmail here was a threat to cause mental harm, and barter was offered in place of removing that mental anguish, you said it so well, no sale without an offer to purchase.

Jyothi, did you mean to say why is Ovi the wronged party? Arjun is the wronged party according to me, he was the one wronged and he is the victim in this mess though he was stupid (pardon the word) to comply with the force being applied by Purvi on him to go through with the marriage to Ovi. Ovi applied pressure on Purvi, Purvi in turn applied pressure on Arjun and Arjun became putty in the hands of these two girls. He would have been better off without either of them.

Janhvi, it was Ash, who said it so well, she stated so PERFECTLY how i felt, EXACTLY...in words she was able to express what i was saying, so all credit to Ash...😳

In my view, fault lies with Archana ... she knew the girls were having relationships (in one form or the other). But as stupidity personified, she goes and gives a BS challenge to Arjun. She, as the 54+ old mother, had no foresight to see what was in store for all of them in the future. This coming from her is unbelievable; simply because she herself didn't lead a fairytale romantic life...she simply should have known better...

In my views fault lies with Purvi, because she came to know that Arjun is engaged with Ovi her sister by adoption, but she never stopped to encourage Arjun or stopped seeing him. Accepted, she tried in the beginning but stupid Sulo's encouragement took the whole thing in the wrong direction. Then when marriage was fixed, she went on with all the rituals without any apparent indications, planning simultaneously all that she could have to do to get Arjun and Ovi married. I haven't seen such meticulous planning in my life and when the moment came, convinced Arjun to marry Ovi and witnessed all the ritual/process. Such a strong girl she has been...

Fault lies with Arjun because he was engaged to someone else, but went on pursuing Purvi. Mind you before that he video-chatted with Ovi. Once he decided that he was in 'love' he just drops Ovi without much attempts to seek and explain the situation with Ovi or MAnav. Then when Purvi wanted him to marry Purvi, he didn't have the strength to say no...why, what was the compulsion??? Why couldn't he simply walk out that day from the marriage?? Why is he still carrying on this farce of a marriage today?? why isn't he going for divorce?? Why is he looking and fantasizing another women being married to someone else??? Where is his character strength???

Fault lies with Sulo, she being the grandmother could see what was ahead in terms of the mess up. Couldn't she keep her head straight instead of encouraging Purvi???

Fault lies with DK for not valuing his relationship with Deshmukhs. Shouldn't he being the elder talk with Manav the moment he came to know that Arjun was in 'love' with someone else and wants to marry this 'new' girl...why did he not take it up with Manav before any other business transaction...how then his talks about the importance of relationships is meaningful...when he himself failed to act appropriately...his talk on importance of relationships are just bogus...

In a way Fault lies also with Desmukhs for not managing the situation well..

Fault lies with Ovi because she was betrayed and felt left stranded with on one to go to. Her best friend was taken away by a girl who also took her mother (as she saw it). She was at the receiving end of all these when her own mom and grandmother were busy pushing her ex-fiance's marriage with an adopted sister on her...she had a raw deal in all the mess...she is an astute girl, successful in her career who knew how to achieve...mind you are achievement isn't in her dad's business, rather in a totally different world...she went ahead and got what she wanted. To her credit, she only had one conversation...just one conversation. There weren't ever a second phone call or any other blackmailing...she herself gave up on the deal as she said to Punni herself...yes, she should have walked away from Arjun, Arjun isn't worth her...her character is such that she is entitled to far better things than a cheating hubby...so yes, she is also going to get her dues...for not seeing through what Arjun truly was and is...a cheater all the way through...

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Janhvi we both are saying the same...I agree with this post completely..😃 I do get where u r coming from dear...Not heartless 😳

No where have I claimed Ovi did not put the deal forth..to back and read all my posts...Ovi is astute thinker and went after what she wanted...So can million others in this world...But it is up to Purvi whether to let Arjun go or not..She willingly gave him up for her mother's happiness...but she forgot to ask her mother if this would really make her happy.. It did make her mother happy not the sacrifice but the result of the sacrifice has made Archana ecstatic so much so that she seems to have forgotten Purvi's part in it and it is Manav who keeps reiterating Purvi's role in it and thanking her for it.

I am against Sulo-Archu supporting Purvi's alliance with Arjun...Archana should have stayed firm on her initial take of "Both girls should stay away from Arjun as he broke one sister's heart for the other"

Purvi never thought of Ovi as her sister although she kept calling Manav baba... neither one of them considered the other a sister though Sulo did surprise me with her ready acceptance and swinging forth both ways. Why did she not consider Manav or Ovi or Deshmukh's feelings or even Archana's feeling when she went ahead with Arjun's pursuations??? A normal mother also would have hurt for her daughter Ovi's heart break but here we have heartless Aaji Sulo and Mother Archana supporting this bakwas relationship...

No one in real life would allow this...That is where I am coming from.

Not only all 4 women are at fault but the 2 men Manav and Arjun for playing their parts too..

Originally posted by: abhimg

Janhvi, it was Ash, who said it so well, she stated so PERFECTLY how i felt, EXACTLY...in words she was able to express what i was saying, so all credit to Ash...😳

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

NO, Jhanvi !! No way will I say that Ovi is the wronged party... I said Ovi is not the innocent party in all this to be excused so easily, as quite a few on the forum have done. Arjun ,is definitely the victim in this, despite his foolishness of being so much in love with Purvi for doing this, but he did get railroaded by both the ladies in question here.

I think I actually said why is Purvi completely the 'wronged' party, when I meant to say 'wrong' party. typo i s my excuse 😃...

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Agree with the @ red completely. My reponses are in blue.

Agree with you on blue ones too...3 parties played Narad muni or there is a say "Narova Kunjarova"