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umayal

@LuvSSever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: pp29

That is so true! All I ever wanted for me to be happy about this Arman reunion is for Archana to apologize for her mistakes as well. That WAS VERY required. She has simply gone scot free in this blame game. Manav apologized so same way Archana should have said sorry to him for all her midoings that caused so many misunderstandings between them 18 years ago, she should have apologized to her children for not fighting for them enough and then it would ok if they showed them happy and content.

Hi,
Nice post. @underlined: well said, totally agree.
Exactly what you said is the sentiments most of us here share.
None of us are against ARMAN reunion. to be said less interested.
Anyways its going to be their Pavitra rishta always and I am happy that its always theirs as it was started with them.

So the least which could have been done that it make all the viewers Happy about the ARMAn reunion is what You have said in blue.
Manav apologized,similarly archu can also do so.
Then if the kids who are at lesser fault or no fault apologize, then why not archu too accept her mistakes and apologize.
Thats what cried out loud here.

Edited by umayal - 13 years ago

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pp29

@pp29

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
pp29 ...ur so right that she has gone scot free in this blame game bcoz of her weak husband . It is like Jai Santoshi Mata😆 and very hard to swallow .

Hi Kools,

Thanks :)) All that is left for Manav to do now is to take a pooja ki thaali and do arti every morning of his beloved wife. For all I know, the children might create a temple of her in the house too. Archana will continue her seminars and lessons on sacrifice and mahaanta and if she EVER makes a mistakr again, she will just tell the other person " It's ok, I FORGIVE you, let's move on", because only GODS do that.

All hail to the Almighty Archana. 😉

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#33

😆😆😆

pp29 u made me laugh coz these r precisely my thoughts .

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akruz

@akruz

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: umayal
@akruz :

Hi,
No one denies that Savita did mistake. Yes she has. But some see it as the largest mistake, while some see it as the final stroke, final stone thrown at the to be demolished building.

Here its never advocated that savita did no wrong.
Its said just that she had thrown a final stone at a already shaking basement which was shaken due to the own actions of ARMAN and archu.

So each one should take their Own blame is what talked or discussed about.

Not alone archu, everyone suffered in ARMAN's family.
Manav too spent all alone this 18 yrs, Ovi, Teju spent all their life without Mom's love, soham tho so unlucky, he didnt get Mom or dad's love.
So both ARMAn have their part of mistakes for exercising their punishments.

Past two days, we see everyone asking sorry to archu or the K group and archu saying, yes it was mistake on your part but I as a wife or we as parents, elders forgive it , so let it be.

So, how about saying, Yes its a mistake on our part, Lets forget and Move on.
Instead of saying yes its your mistake ,lets move on.

Its not said others have not done mistakes. its said all have done ,So why not admit it and then Let it go. Everyone has to took their own blame ,admit it, ask sorry and then move on,carry one, whatsoever

When Soham was lost, Archana was blamed...and Manav didnt want to see her any more...so she left Manavs house because she was wrong and she knew that it was because of her that she lost her kid...So when Savita brought the custody papers, she was drenched in guilt...and she had nothing to say...when manav also lost his trust on her, she had nothing to do but to sign the papers...again i am saying i am not glorifying Archana, she has to stop her mahaanta acts...but hasnt she suffered for 18 years...had Savita told atleast once to Manav what she had plotted against him and Archana, would this have happened??? Manav always had contact details of Archana, couldnt he have contacted her atleast once...Archana was alone...Manav had company of his kids...but whom did Archana have...

And when you say he should have said something gently to Savita, was her mistake a one to be pardoned so easily...inorder to keep her son to herself, hadnt she deprived her grand daughters of their mothers love...had Savita brought the tickets to Archana, will this separation of 18 yrs have happened? Archana would have gone with Manav, they would have had fights over the issue but they would finally have solved the issue...and the way Savita dragged Archana to streets when she came back from Canada...the way she behaved with her, tried to hit her...all for what...for trying to see her daughters...such a cruel lady Savita is...Manavs reaction is completely justified...as a mother if she couldnt see her sons loneliness and the pain in his eyes, then yes, she is not eligible to be called a mother...

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Why not ...if he can pardon the court case by wife , the loss of his child by wife why not pardon the mother who brought him up against hardships ...he did not fall from the skies but his moter gave birth to him with labour pains . He pardoned so many of sasural's insults including the loss of his child .

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Same thing here ...I want Soham to have no hard feelings for Sachu , Ovi and Teju but very hard feelings for his moter and contempt for his father who has made this mother his weakness .

Kalapi i agree . Sulo has so much himmat only bcoz of Manav. He has zero abhimaan of his own family .

None what so ever "Swabhimaan" that is why Archana or Sulo the do chanas can insult, humilliate Manav or deshmukhs at anytime..

Savita knows Archana and Karanjkar numbers so she does allow but Manav always puts himself and family in precarious situation by taking all faults on him and protecting Archana by not questioning..

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

The question i want to ask is this

Can one ever break the biological bond of nature and change his mother

Thats what Manav said yesterday

That I am ashamed of being born out of your womb

I am not saying he should not have difference of opinion with his mother

but he should do it in private

not in front of his bivi and sasural

he can choose never to speak with his mother till he lives but that that should be strictly between him and his mother ...Sulo and Archu should not een come in the picture

Yesterday whatever comparison he did between his wife and mother was uncalled for ...his mother never did a court case against him his wife has pulled him to court many many times

Doesnt he know at 61 that there is no comparison between wife and mother ...that there never can be bcoc the relations r entirely different

And thats the reason i want him to get a taste of his own medicene...Soham should talk to Archana as harshly as Manav has talked to his mother for even he has lost 18 quality years due to her gaffe .

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Kools who you are born to is in no one's hands...One must be grateful to be born to the mother who carried you in her womb for 9 mo, gave u birth, raised u like a precious child, protected you the cub in need like a sherni...

That is what Savita has done for Manav each time when no one was there to support him or all was against him, it was Savta fight for her cub or cubs like a sherni...

I won't even speak what The mother Archana has done for her cubs...As she is no where in comparison to Savita as a mother...Same for Sulo...No comparison..

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Not only is it wrong tayaba ...it is even more wrong of Damodar to encourage the grandkids to be so disrespectful to grandmother who brought them up in an old age like a mother . Whatever she has done she has loved the grand children whatever has Damo done for them . Savita should leave the house and quietly go away ...they can show a dramatic entry later when Manav is in trouble and Archana does nothing except weeping .

Kool and Taya, I do also want Savita to go away...I want to see the next time Manav is in trouble or is slapped silly by his favorite MIL Sulo, who saves him...I really want MAnav to be slapped everyday of his life from Sulo...that is all he deserves, my POV...because otherwise this character will never appreciate what his mother did for him or kids kids...