Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
If Arjun loving Purvi is a fact shown in this serial so is the fact shown that Purvi traded him ruthlessly without bothering about his feelings for her Aai's happiness .
The question is now what ? Will he hover around her on the pretext of teaching her a lesson and to ' show ' her that she does not control him or will he get a grip and focus on his work and his marraige ?
Is the hovering like a bee around Purvi be construed as 'love'??Or will it be construed as zero self respect ?
Personally i feel that he should not tell himself that he is hovering around her to show ' she does not control him ' . He is lying to himself then . What tremendous control she had was seen when she made him marry Ovi and controlled her personal emotions .
Quite true as well Kools. Arjun didn't dump Purvi - she dumped him so he's likely to don the "Jilted Lover" persona for a while. It was vicious, ruthless and heartbreaking for him so I think the all the emotions can be rolled up into one - rage, loneliness, hurt even love will make him very volatile at the present time.
The unfortunate thing about all of this is that it's all about perspective.
Ovi thinks she's in the right because she's known, loved and laid claim to Arjun before anyone else.
Arjun thinks he's in the right because he decided to follow his heart and make himself happy for once instead of pleasing everyone else.
Purvi thinks she's in the right because she's been able to gift Archana the family she's been craving for the last 18 years.
All perspectives are right - from their own POVs.Emotions cloud judgements and can even make the simplest decisions life changing (the butterfly effect).
Marriage is not a game and should not be treated as such but in this show logic does not apply.
The answer then is simple - test all theories to find the true result..see if the experiment fetches the desired results or if it blows up.
All relationships change with time and no one is guaranteed to love or be loved in the same way forever.
Ovi will be chasing Arjun, Arjun will be chasing Purvi and Purvi will be trying to escape both of them - to infinity and beyond - unless someone changes direction. Then the game changes!
