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Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: m_masti
from the time arjun felt something for purvi...he never left single chance to hug her or kiss her or touch her...is it love or infatuation...

Infatuation as the hormones are running wild..😉😆 Kare to bhi kya kare 😛

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LilButterfly003

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Infatuation as the hormones are running wild..😉😆 Kare to bhi kya kare 😛

I think its both😉👏

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m_masti

@m_masti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Infatuation as the hormones are running wild..😉😆 Kare to bhi kya kare 😛

yup agree, some hormones...

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Ume Salma Kakal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

It seems to me some have never been In love🤪.

So of course when you love someone you would like to be not only emotionally close but physically as well.

So if Arjun touches Purvi what wrong in that.

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m_masti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

oh ya...i agree...i am traditional middle class girl who is clear to friends/admirers/boys-who-proposed/cousins as my family things/traditions/reputation are high priority for me...

I support love for some extent...but i really totally never support the love that needs physical relationship before wedding...

according to arjun's view...everyone is ok for wedding, cannot he wait for few more days...

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Ume Salma Kakal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Love is a beautiful emotion, if you take it correctly.

What Arjun touching her is just on surface, is fine with me as long as they do not do the deed.

Which I think they have not done it as yet.

What class has got to do with love, whether you are rich, middle class or poor, love is needed. With out love there is no life.

I also do not support doing that deed when you are not married.

As long as you do not get carried away, it's fine if you touch your partner that you love. A person should have enough control on their urges.

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m_masti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

yes i agree love is beautiful...but i think love which needs physical relationship is not guaranteed...

are you really sure...yesterday rain-hut scene nothing happened...

and even today...when purvi is not 100% sure towards her love going to be wedding or not, she can let arjun touch and kiss her...

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Ume Salma Kakal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: m_masti
are you really sure...yesterday rain-hut scene nothing happened...

and even today...when purvi is not 100% sure towards her love going to be wedding or not, she can let arjun touch and kiss her...

This is an Ekta Kapoor drama, she would have shown it if they had done the deed.

I have seen enough of her dramas to know that she shows the leads doing that deed.

The only reason Purvi is letting him do it because she wants to feel his presence and love for one last time if she is going to sacrifice her love for a girl who did a sauda with her.

Purvi wants to return a favor to Archana for raising her and loving her, as she is an orphan.

You should read one of the posters who has given an inside state of Purvi's mind and her feelings of not belonging any where. Orphans are the most vulnerable as the society treats them very badly.

A society where blood relations matter more then of the heart, then you can imagine what Purvi must be feeling.

If Ovi has the longing for mother's love then Purvi has the longing for belonging to a family. Who will not only accept her as family member but treat her like one and not taunt her to be an orphan.

Archana and Sulo might not do that but the other sure do make Purvi feel that she does not belong with them and has no right to feel happy.

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m_masti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

purvi never had/has orphan syndrome...if she feels orphan it is because of archu sulo...

just tell me onething...did archu felt anytime that ovi is her daughter...or did archu felt purvi is her daughter...did archu feel both are her daughters...

1. If archu felt ovi as daughter...she should first support ovi then let the ovi to comeout from this shock, then prepare wedding plans of purvi...

2. if archu felt purvi as her daughter...she completely forgot that she has ovi, and she gave importance to purvi...and in this case purvi will sure have orphan syndrome, and she will think archu is feeling responsibility for purvi as she is orphan and archu doesn't want to show it because it might hurt purvi...and only purvi knows archu ki dil ka dard that archu missed her daughters so much...if archu giving priority for purvi over ovi then it will show as 'purvi as responsibility of archu not love or daughter'

3. if archu felt both ovi and purvi as daughters...then archu should not allow one daughter to marry ex-fiance of other daughter where the other daughter is not at fault of the break-up...if archu supports purvi wedding then it will create again the orphan syndrome, purvi will think archu is giving priority to responsibility not the emotions, same like she is doing in sachhu case, she is taking responsibility and feels sachu deserves shravani's love...which keeps sachhu and purvi in same place to get what they want...

Edited by m_masti - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: m_masti
purvi never had/has orphan syndrome...if she feels orphan it is because of archu sulo...

just tell me onething...did archu felt anytime that ovi is her daughter...or did archu felt purvi is her daughter...did archu feel both are her daughters...

1. If archu felt ovi as daughter...she should first support ovi then let the ovi to comeout from this shock, then prepare wedding plans of purvi...

2. if archu felt purvi as her daughter...she completely forgot that she has ovi, and she gave importance to purvi...and in this case purvi will sure have orphan syndrome, and she will think archu is feeling responsibility for purvi as she is orphan and archu doesn't want to show it because it might hurt purvi...and only purvi knows archu ki dil ka dard that archu missed her daughters so much...if archu giving priority for purvi over ovi then it will show as 'purvi as responsibility of archu not love or daughter'

3. if archu felt both ovi and purvi as daughters...then archu should not allow one daughter to marry ex-fiance of other daughter where the other daughter is not at fault of the break-up...if archu supports purvi wedding then it will create again the orphan syndrome, purvi will think archu is giving priority to responsibility not the emotions, same like she is doing in sachhu case, she is taking responsibility and feels sachu deserves shravani's love...which keeps sachhu and purvi in same place to get what they want...

Do you think Ovi would have let Archana near her or even listen yo her. If Ovi is not listening to her dad, sis and dadi. Do you really think Ovi will listen to Archana whom she hates with her heart.

Answer my above question.

About orphans how they feel and I know because I have personally seen a case. So I know what I am talking about.

Even if Purvi does not show, she will always have that sense of not belonging to any family in back of her mind.

Why does she always talk about D's as Archana's family, not as her's because Purvi knows she does not belong with them. She wishes to be a part of family, where there is mom, dad, sister and dadi and nani.

Ovi has that all except a mother which she does not want to acknowledge. Understandably so .

Ovi has a loving sister, father and Dadi, who are willing to do what ever she wants, but her obsession for one boy who is in love with someone else has blinded her to such an extent that Ovi does not feel or see how her behavior is affecting her family.

Does Ovi even realize when her dad and sis comes to know about her little sauda how will they feel.

You just can not deny this fact that Ovi is not acting right. If Purvi sacrifices her love I will not support Purvi here.

I do not support such useless sacrifices where everyone is not happy.