if purvi was in ovi's place how will you fill

i dont understand one think why people always crushing archana and purvi because she support purvi and not ovi i know that ovi is her own daughter an purvi her adopted i know i also fill bad for ovi and because ovi cry for arjun,and suffer people fill bad for ovi and crushing purvi .but if instead of purvi archana support ovi dont you think that purvi will also fill like ovi fill she will not cry for arjun,she will not suffer like ovi then people will startt crushing for ovi and simpaty with purvi .if archana support ovi and not purvi she is good mother.but if she support purvi and not ovi then she is bad mother. and if she support ovi do you think how will purvi fill she will think that because she is her adopted daughter no one care for and because of thart no one adopted child will belive in their mother .atleast ovi has her family who support her and be with her in bad time but if archana support ovi then where purvi will go she has no any family.atleast she has some one who support her. and if archana try to speak with ovi do you think she listen to her not she once again start to crush her then why she should to go and speak with her. we always hear that daughter's and son always should to respect their perents even if they are bad perents you should to respect them because they are in god's place some people even not open their mouth to crush their parent's .but ovi always crush archana she should to think what will god fill if he see her crushing her mother even if she is bad mother dont you think how archana fill when she hear from her own child that she is bad mother and they always crush her this is the more horible moment for parents to hear this from their children she suffer a lot if somthing happen to archana then will they will forgive her self.and purvi she never open her mouth .when ovi shout at purvi and blam purvi she even not open her mouth she keep quit.and if purvi and arjun fall in love with then what can they do love is happen in somehere with some one this is not crime to fall and why purvi should to sacrfice if she know that arjun love her an not ovi. i dont like this tipe of girls who scarfice her love for other's happenis and ruin 3 people's life. and other think ovi and teju never see archana as her mother then why she should to think about them it is only purvi who care for and cry for her .manav or savita has not right to decide who will arjun marry and whom not because he is not purvi's father and grandmother.it is only archana she is purvi's mother and she has right to decide about purvi's life and not some one else.