Unbelievable of Ovi.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

i dont how many times i have to say this, but if manav has accepted purvi as a daughter, then why do pple have a problem with him treating her equally liek a biological daughter. why would manav be considered a weak person bc he treats his adapted and biological kids equally. forget that archana adapted purvi w/o manav consent. manav has accepted purvi regardless, so why is it such a problem that he wants to pay for her ransom. SHE IS HIS DAUGHTER, which means he should not and did not differentiate b/t tej/ovi and purvi.

Originally posted by: nikki1591

Originally posted by: m_masti

ok, according to norms if manav agrees for adoption of purvi, why purvi not staying in deshmukh house...why the difference is , why purvi is in karanjkar's home, even if divorse happens why purvi has to stay with archana...

why Ovi is given diamond necklace for engagement...
why purvi is not given diamond necklace on engagement...
ofcourse both engagements are broken...but still why archana showed that partiality

and why arjun-ovi accepted for archana and why arjun-purvi not accepted, they have to prove...

Originally posted by: nikki1591

bc savita was going to taunt purvi at her home and archana knew this so purvi does not live there bc she would not be happy. plus she lived in karankajar her whole life so why bother moving now when her mother would move back in 6mnths for divorce. some biological kids whose parents are divorced stay in diff homes bc they feel closer to one parent so how is this any different

enagement ovi got diamond bc that was what ovi liked. archana asked manava and she remembered.

and archana does not accept both ovi arjun nor purvi arjun bc she knows that arjun cheated both of them. she accepted ovi arjun bf she found out he was 2 timing her

Ovi could learn a thing or two from Savita when it comes to humanity, I get that Purvi is not her favorite person which is completely justified but for goodness sakes she's been kidnapped and her life is in danger. Obviously her parents will be affected by this, they don't know who these people are or what they can do. Ovi knows her father well enough to know he will always help those in need, he won't just sit by and do nothing while someone is held hostage that too when he was the intended target all along. Ovi is being selfish and cold, at this moment it should not be about her.

Sudha, I guess we have to agree to disagree. I know the forum is getting overworked concluded how Ovi's lacks humanity, but no one for a sec considered her POV. How was she to react? Purvi isn't someone that helped her in anyway, rather she 'took' away her Arjun. Purvi isn't related to her yet (it will only happen if and only when she accepts Archana as aai and forgive Arjun for what he did to her). She is only 18 and we expect her to be a symbol of forgiveness. She sees her mother showing more concern for Purvi then her. Am yet to see Archana making an effort to win her (Teju seems ready to give Archana the benefit of doubt). Arjun and Dk who showered her with love and affection isn't showing any towards her anymore, (especially DK).Manav/Savita/Teju all showing concern towards Purvi. Ovi is bound to feel alone in this situation. It is only natural to feel jealous and helpless. Poor girl really, I don't see anything here in her behavior linked to getting bad sanskar or anything. Actually how many of us could be cool and carry on life as usual when all around our loved ones seems to have changed sides? Could we really wait and be logically and that from a 18 yr old girl?? Could we be cool if our love (even one-sided love) shows concern for another girl??? Jealousy is a natural reaction to me...

Originally posted by: m_masti

your answer doesn't justify...purvi always wanted ArMan should stay together, then why she will think after 6 months archu will be back to sulo home, and savita came after few months stay, why purvi didn't stay with ArMan before savita came to india...now don't tell sachhu would have opposed it...but the truth is when every deshmukh cares about manav and manav accepted purvi then every deshmukh would have let purvi stay with them...

in purvi engagement archu said she cannot afford any jewelry, but how arche can give such a big diamond necklace to Ovi...so archu could afford it for ovi but not for purvi...i still remember the diamond set design it was with south sea pearl, it would cost around 8-12lakhs indian currency...

when everyone can see purvi-arjun's love why archana cannot see it, even sulo tried to tell her sa many times but she was very stubborn...anyone can say archana is not accepting arjun-purvi as she wants to be mahaan in ovi's view...

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Sudha, I guess we have to agree to disagree. I know the forum is getting overworked concluded how Ovi's lacks humanity, but no one for a sec considered her POV. How was she to react? Purvi isn't someone that helped her in anyway, rather she 'took' away her Arjun. Purvi isn't related to her yet (it will only happen if and only when she accepts Archana as aai and forgive Arjun for what he did to her). She is only 18 and we expect her to be a symbol of forgiveness. She sees her mother showing more concern for Purvi then her. Am yet to see Archana making an effort to win her (Teju seems ready to give Archana the benefit of doubt). Arjun and Dk who showered her with love and affection isn't showing any towards her anymore, (especially DK).Manav/Savita/Teju all showing concern towards Purvi. Ovi is bound to feel alone in this situation. It is only natural to feel jealous and helpless. Poor girl really, I don't see anything here in her behavior linked to getting bad sanskar or anything. Actually how many of us could be cool and carry on life as usual when all around our loved ones seems to have changed sides? Could we really wait and be logically and that from a 18 yr old girl?? Could we be cool if our love (even one-sided love) shows concern for another girl??? Jealousy is a natural reaction to me...

Originally posted by: nikki1591

what would be the point of purvi staying at the house. to be taunted by sacchu? manav wanted ovi/tej to stay w him bc they were staying in a hotel alone. purvi lives w/ her grandmother which is a diff scenario so it would not worry him. archana does not feel the need to provide purvi w material pleasure bc she knows that purvi knows that archana loves her. but ovi she felt the need to provide such an expensive gift bc she has not been able to provide ovi w/ that love ( may be archana fault but thats another issue) archana does not want arjun for neither daughter bc she knows that arjun two-timed both of them. how is she supposed to feel when he was engaged to one daughter but carrying w/ another. in her view she cannot see anything else. and this is about manav treating them equally, not archana so i don't understand how we are talking about archana treatment. let me say it again. manav has not disputed purvi as his daughter, so why is this constantly an issue????