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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am not Archana bashing... i just find her talk that Arjun has no name, ridiculous.

Arjun said he was Arjun D K Kirolskar but now I am plain Arjun.
What's in a name ... a rose by any other would smell as sweet...
Arjun should feel proud that he IS Arjun DK Kirolskar. No Archana in this world should make him feel ashamed of his name. Yes, he was born into money, yes, he had a company that was all ready for him to work in ... BUT Arjun WORKED, he WORKED HARD to get the company where it is. He did not sit on his father's laurels and enjoy the fruit of his labours - Arjun contributed.
A little reminder to Archana - for all her arrogant talk of Arjun being given things on a platter - she has forgotten that if not for DK and Ashana, Manav would be nowhere. DK was already an established successful businesman when he gave Manav the biggest break of his life. If not for DK, Manav would still be a struggling mechanic. Archana has forgotten that Manav too was given things on a platter - yes Manav worked hard to be eventually given a partnership - but the point is DK did give him that break. So if you want to compare about things being given on a platter - there is no difference between Arjun and Manav. Both were given breaks by DK.
Archana - when will you learn to recognise the goodness of a person. YOu did not recognise it in Manav in the early years and not now you are doing the same. YOu talk of Manav's love for you - hullooo - if that love was so pavitra - why are you both so separated - why does he still misunderstand you - why does he believe that you are money-minde - that does not sound like a man who loves you. Is that the kind of love you want Arjun to have for your daughter - i think not!!
YOu don't recognise the goodness of Arjun - yes he was foolish to have left things till so late - but no one asked him why and when he offers to explain - no one wants to listen. Archana don't spoilt Purvi's life by insisting that Arjun behaves like Manav - if so i feel sorry for Purvi. Right now the love that Arjun and Purvi shares is truly PAVITRA - because they share their thoughts with each other - they know when the other has to sacrifice - they understand each other.
What do you and Manav have - sacrificing for no reason sacrificing without the other know - Archana have you ever shared a problem with Manav and has Manav ever shared a problem with you - you are both like two railway lines - parrallel but not meeting ... i am being harsh with you Archana because you need to realise where you and Manav have gone wrong - please communicate and stop keeping secrets.
But thanks to you Archana - Arjun is going to be a better person than he was. But don't feel happy with my thanks to you Archana because you don't deserve that thanks - because you pushed Arjun to be a better person not out of wisdom but out of ignorance. But never mind sometimes ignorance has a place ...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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ZeeZee55, Nice post! Like it. I also like Archana but not as much today!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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So true! Loved you quoting from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet. Arjun will always be himself, with Divyasagar Kirloskar attached or without. I don't know why Archana is even bringing his reputation into the matter. His being wealthy or poor has nothing to do with his love for Purvi. Alas, Arjun succumbs to Archu's irrational request. He's really willing to do anything for Purvi. 😆
Edited by nalonynnej - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wow! zeezee55 you are too good!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ZeeZee, excellent thoughts. Archana sounded a little demented with the Manav praise and their pavitra rishta, she lives in a dream world where Manav and her relationship with him are concerned. She lied again today, to her mother, didn't tell her how she got hurt, that Manav pushed her. She preaches telling the truth at all costs but repeatedly hides the truth herself. Just in the recent months, 1) didn't tell Purvi that Manav was her baba, Purvi found out from the lovely Punni 2) didn't tell Tej she was her mother 3) lied to Manav that she was after his money 4) hid the truth from Sulo today that her wonderful Manav pushed her, the same Manav she was praising to the skies while wishing the same kind of husband on her poor daughter, Purvi. Oh, and didn't she also hide the truth about Ovi's engagement? She told Sulo but not Purvi. The saddest part of this equation is that Archana means well. 😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You know people, i feel that Ovi and Archana are very similar in character - they believe what they want to believe and to hell with everything else.. They believe what they feel is correct - that their feelings cannot be wrong ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dear zeezee5,

I have never so far read a more coherent, comprehensive and forceful critique of Archana's persistently irrational and periodically destructive behaviour with all those who love and care for her. It is truly superb; every argument and every conclusion, rings true.

I have marked the parts I liked best in blue. When Archana was going on and on about Manav having realised his dreams, I thought of exactly the same, very valid point that you have made: that but for Aashana having rescued him when he was knocked down and left lying on the road, and DK having given him a break, Manav would still be either a mechanic or unloading lorries. Archana should be ashamed of herself for having forgotten this.

You have, however, saved the best for the last para. Lovely stuff!

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: zeezee55

I am not Archana bashing... i just find her talk that Arjun has no name, ridiculous.

Arjun said he was Arjun D K Kirolskar but now I am plain Arjun.
What's in a name ... a rose by any other would smell as sweet...
Arjun should feel proud that he IS Arjun DK Kirolskar. No Archana in this world should make him feel ashamed of his name. Yes, he was born into money, yes, he had a company that was all ready for him to work in ... BUT Arjun WORKED, he WORKED HARD to get the company where it is. He did not sit on his father's laurels and enjoy the fruit of his labours - Arjun contributed.
A little reminder to Archana - for all her arrogant talk of Arjun being given things on a platter - she has forgotten that if not for DK and Ashana, Manav would be nowhere. DK was already an established successful businessman when he gave Manav the biggest break of his life. If not for DK, Manav would still be a struggling mechanic. Archana has forgotten that Manav too was given things on a platter - yes Manav worked hard to be eventually given a partnership - but the point is DK did give him that break. So if you want to compare about things being given on a platter - there is no difference between Arjun and Manav. Both were given breaks by DK.
Archana - when will you learn to recognise the goodness of a person. YOu did not recognise it in Manav in the early years and not now you are doing the same. YOu talk of Manav's love for you - hullooo - if that love was so pavitra - why are you both so separated - why does he still misunderstand you - why does he believe that you are money-minde - that does not sound like a man who loves you. Is that the kind of love you want Arjun to have for your daughter - i think not!!
YOu don't recognise the goodness of Arjun - yes he was foolish to have left things till so late - but no one asked him why and when he offers to explain - no one wants to listen. Archana don't spoilt Purvi's life by insisting that Arjun behaves like Manav - if so i feel sorry for Purvi. Right now the love that Arjun and Purvi shares is truly PAVITRA - because they share their thoughts with each other - they know when the other has to sacrifice - they understand each other.
What do you and Manav have - sacrificing for no reason sacrificing without the other know - Archana have you ever shared a problem with Manav and has Manav ever shared a problem with you - you are both like two railway lines - parrallel but not meeting ... i am being harsh with you Archana because you need to realise where you and Manav have gone wrong - please communicate and stop keeping secrets.
But thanks to you Archana - Arjun is going to be a better person than he was. But don't feel happy with my thanks to you Archana because you don't deserve that thanks - because you pushed Arjun to be a better person not out of wisdom but out of ignorance. But never mind sometimes ignorance has a place ...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful analysis by you Zeezee5. So true - each & every word you have written over here.

I personally do not support the method of judging a person by giving a challenge where one has to struggle with the life. Arjun is rich by birth and it is not his fault. Archana manav love story is not a good example to give as at the end of the day, they are ending with the negativity in their relation.

I love Archana, but I want to criticise her neutrally. How she is so sure what Purvi feels is not a love. She wants a life partner for Purvi like Manav..a Total failure as Husband..simply disaster with conjugal life..If their bonding is so strong then where was Archana for long 18years ..it is enough to pray for your family from a long distance..

I rally do feel that Archana has drawn some important conclusion based on the present scenario, she was not present with Ovi in Canada..so, she hardly knows the obsession/ feelings what Ovi feels for Arjun, she infact doesnt know in what circumstances Arjun agreed to marry Ovi..She only knows that Ovi loves him & once Arjun has done the engagement, he also loves her..


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nalonynnej

So true! Loved you quoting from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet. Arjun will always be himself, with Divyasagar Kirloskar attached or without. I don't know why Archana is even bringing his reputation into the matter. His being wealthy or poor has nothing to do with his love for Purvi. Alas, Arjun succumbs to Archu's irrational request. He's really willing to do anything for Purvi. 😆


Haha Thankyou for tellin me DK's real name.I was always curious.😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It is actually Dayasagar. DK mentions it when he visits Arjun's office the day before the Pune conference, and Purvi, not recognising him, tells him he has to get an appointment. He gives his full name to the receptionist, and Purvi overhears it, and is aghast at her inadvertent mistake.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: loveayeshaxox

Haha Thankyou for tellin me DK's real name.I was always curious.😃


Originally posted by: nalonynnej

So true! Loved you quoting from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet. Arjun will always be himself, with Divyasagar Kirloskar attached or without. I don't know why Archana is even bringing his reputation into the matter. His being wealthy or poor has nothing to do with his love for Purvi. Alas, Arjun succumbs to Archu's irrational request. He's really willing to do anything for Purvi. 😆



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