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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree completely with your assessment, and this is not just because you have been so kind about my posts!

I see that there is a great deal of acute disappointment and fury among our members at Arjun for not having announced at the party that he could not go in for the engagement with Ovi.

I think all this is premature. We have first to have the facts, which in this case means seeing the episode in full ourselves. I have not seen the SBS segment (how does one access these? ), but you have noted that someone literally lifted his finger and Ovi pushed the ring on to it, and another post even mentioned that in the SBS segment, Manav appeared to be putting the ring on Ovi's finger.

It is all very unclear, and I still cannot believe that anything could compel Arjun to go ahead with the engagement willingly. I cannot see how Purvi could have compelled him to do so either, as neither of them would have known about it in advance.

In any case, to call Arjun a two-timer, as one post says and another endorses, is nonsense. He has tried, from the minute he realised that he loved Purvi, to tell Ovi about it and sever their relationship. That he could not manage to do it for one reason or another is a different thing. Even today, he wants to tell DK about it at once, but it does not work out. So, it is totally incorrect and unfair to say that he is a two-timer, but it is perhaps natural that people get so worked up about a pair they care so deeply about.

Nor can one say he does not love Purvi. That is equally baseless, especially after we saw the last few episodes. It is also an unshakeable fact that Arjun and Purvi are the new romantic pair, and nothing is going to change that either. So those who are looking for a new pairing for Purvi can spare their efforts.

I do not know how the chips are going to fall, but I am still not willing to give up on Arjun. He loves only Purvi, and he will work his way round to getting her in the end. How long that takes is up to the CVs.

Shyamala B.Cowsik


Originally posted by: archverma10

Ok everyone so here is my take on this:


1) I agree with Shyamala who has been writing excellent posts...ARVI is ultimately going to happen.

I know a lot of people have been bashing Arjun but keep in mind sthat he was taken by complete surprise in front of everyone. It also looked to me like while he was looking at Purvi somebody literally lifted his hand and Ovi stuck the ring on. I noticed throughout the entire segment he looked extremely shocked and unhappy. He didn't get a chance.

2) The engagement may have happened but the marriage will not. Yes it will be tough few weeks for Purvi as well as for all of us. But ARVI is the track just like Archu/Manav. Ultimately they also did not end up going through with marriages to others,

Also, even though Purvi is upset she will have to stay strong as Arjun had to when he watched her with Vinay. Even though there were no confessions he had to watch and couldn't do anything about it.

I think Ovi will find out and unfortunately she will end up turning into a negative character. I still have hopes for Teju though. For some reason I get the inkling that she is going to play some part in our favor. Ive watched her in the last episode and the way she was talking she definitely was not at all convinced about Arjun's feelings for Ovi.

I think when Archu comes to know she will stand with Purvi. That's the funny thing with twins and a different story track too that will be very interesting, Teju is so sweet, humble, adventurous and endearing while Ovi looks down her nose at the language, idea of staying in crawl,wears skimpy clothes, etc. Archu already was shocked at her pics, inability to wear sari, and if she maintains this attitude Archu will find it tough to relate to this daughter of hers.

Arjun will do something...I am pretty sure of it...but u have to see from his shoes...it was a total and complete shock of unexpected proportions. Also keep in mind Purvi's dignity...he cannot expose her in a public setting like that in that moment...u guys have to realize that it would have actually been very damaging for her given the circumstances of everything.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice analysis of the situation..👏⭐️

But..this is also Armaan story for Ekta and for them she has given a 18yrs gap and after that 6 months preparation for divorce.
Then similarly when our ARVI will reunite ..I don't know!!!!

I think the entire thing will be projected in such a way that Arjun will be blamed as guilty..and it will be the fact because Purvi will not be ready to believe that Arjun knew nothing about his and Ovi's engagement . So I am afraid if he will not get a chance to express himself.

When Arjun was about to express his feelings, Purvi was not ready to hear anything. She was so sure about her & Arjun's employee - employer relationship..Then their MU will be more complex ed.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gr8 post...fantastically written...
I agree totally wid u bt she theonly ques is y didnt he speak...
Nd tht fear of balaji shows tht arranged marriage wrks...i know thts least possible bt we cnt
cmment nything abt. Balaji shows...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you so much Shyamala...You are definitely the voice of reason! I agree with your sentiments completely. It is very clear that Arjun loves Purvi...she is his world and means everything to him. And he also knows that she loves him too...we might have been able to speculate if the confession from Purvi had never happened. However, now that he knows she loves him as well he will never let her go. Especially not for Ovi.
I did see the SBS segment and the expressions (look at Issa's post (Arvi favorite scenes and offscreen interviews)...it is in there..it was obvious he was confused and taken by complete surprise. It looked like he barely realized the ring was being put on him because he was looking at Purvi and then when he realized it was on his finger he looked at it with the most horrifed expression on his face.
I havent seen todays episode yet but from the update it looks like Purvi knows that Ovi's engagement makes Archana extremely happy and she believes she owes everything in her life to her mother so she is not going to want to ruin her mother's happiness. I believe as time passes Archu will start having doubts as to what the real truth is and will stand for Purvi because she will always do the right thing. Interestingly I noticed an expression by Ovi too...it looked like she kind of realized that Arjun is not reacting like a man in love with her and had an interesting expression on her face of confusion and awkwardness.
ARVI will end up together...but it will take time. My take is that Arjun will first try to clear things with Purvi before he clears the misunderstanding with the elders. Hence neither of them will come out in the open about the relationship so everyone will not come to know right away. Somehow, some way someone will find out, it will be in the open, and then more drama will come.
After it is found out, Arjun will stand with Purvi and they will get married. Savita will come to India and create further misunderstandings for Manav/Archana as a result. I think Ovi will end up with a broken heart and Savita will use this to drive Archana and her daughters further apart. She will use Purvi/Arjun to convince Manav that Ovi's broken heart is Archana's doing because Purvi is her daughter. Purvi will be with Arjun but she will go through a lot because Sulochana, Manav, Teju, Ovi, and Sachin will all disown her and be against her. Archu may stand with her but she will be powerless herself as she has to either live with Sulochana or Manav.
I also dont think we have seen the last of Punni. She may not get Arjun but her hatred of Purvi will increase once she realizes Arjun truly loves her. She will be jealous and angry that Purvi has got the true love of a man like that. She will be exposed for the MMS eventually but she will definitely try to fan the flames with Ovi and anyone else in the family regarding Purvi. So I think there is going to be a lot of drama up ahead.
I hope the CVs choose a route more along these lines. I also dont believe either of these 2 are going to wind up with anyone else or anything like that. Arjun loves her too much and he doesnt belong to the "sacrifice" generation. Before Purvi he was a cutthroat egotistical businessman who got anything he wanted. Purvi is his world and the only thing that keeps him going. He is not going to walk away that easily.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes, the analysis is an excellent one. I also agree with you that it is not right, and far too premature, to rush to judgement about Arjun.

In today's episode, the only noteworthy point for me was that just as he tried to call Ovi as soon as he had realised that he loved Purvi, Arjun was trying to lose no time in telling DK about his love for Purvi either. That he did not succeed in either attempt, for different reasons, is another thing altogether.

I do not know how, after having watched him all along, our members are so quick to carve the poor chap up, dubbing him a two-timer, a patently false epithet, and accusing him of not loving Purvi. This after having been in ecstasies for the past 3 days about the strength,the purity and the innocence of his love for her!

One should not behave like a yo yo, especially when one does not as yet have the facts. As Sherlock Holmes famously noted, you cannot theorise without data. I will thus wait till I see the party episode for myself tomorrow. From various accounts of the SBS segment, which I have not seen, it does seem that Arjun had very little active to do in the 'engagement' ceremony.

Regardless of what they show, I am quite sure in my own mind that:

1) Arjun loves Purvi and he will work his way round to getting her one way or the other
2) Arjun-Purvi are the new romantic pair of PR and nothing is going to change that.
3) Arjun will inform first DK and then possibly Manav, and of course Ovi, about the correct position as soon as he can after the party. What happens thereafter remains to be seen. I also stand by my assessment that both Manav and Archana will back Purvi.

What remains to be seen is how far Purvi backs herself.

Shyamala


Originally posted by: Broken.Angel

Lovelyyy postt 👏...u made my day


i've been noticing lots of hatred posts for arjun , i mean v shouldnt think negatively all the time, v all know arjun loves purvi, its not tht he betrayed her , circumstances must hav forced him to get engaged, coz c if he does not get engaged to ovii at tht moment then everyone might question him abt it...n at tht moment purvi might get exposed, this is the time arjun will prove hez love again for purvi,he will obviouslyy not marry ovii , n find a chance to talk to hez dad wen situations will calm down...😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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You and I think very much alike,except that I think almost immediately after the party,Arjun will try and tell his father and perhaps Manav that he does NOT want to marry Ovi since he loves someone else. He cannot clear things with Purvi until he has broken off the 'engagement', so I feel this has to come first.

Let us see. In any case, as I tried to reassure Trish, I am absolutely sure Arjun will redeem himself in the eyes of all of us very soon.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: archverma10

Thank you so much Shyamala...You are definitely the voice of reason! I agree with your sentiments completely. It is very clear that Arjun loves Purvi...she is his world and means everything to him. And he also knows that she loves him too...we might have been able to speculate if the confession from Purvi had never happened. However, now that he knows she loves him as well he will never let her go. Especially not for Ovi.

I did see the SBS segment and the expressions (look at Issa's post (Arvi favorite scenes and offscreen interviews)...it is in there..it was obvious he was confused and taken by complete surprise. It looked like he barely realized the ring was being put on him because he was looking at Purvi and then when he realized it was on his finger he looked at it with the most horrifed expression on his face.
I havent seen todays episode yet but from the update it looks like Purvi knows that Ovi's engagement makes Archana extremely happy and she believes she owes everything in her life to her mother so she is not going to want to ruin her mother's happiness. I believe as time passes Archu will start having doubts as to what the real truth is and will stand for Purvi because she will always do the right thing. Interestingly I noticed an expression by Ovi too...it looked like she kind of realized that Arjun is not reacting like a man in love with her and had an interesting expression on her face of confusion and awkwardness.
ARVI will end up together...but it will take time. My take is that Arjun will first try to clear things with Purvi before he clears the misunderstanding with the elders. Hence neither of them will come out in the open about the relationship so everyone will not come to know right away. Somehow, some way someone will find out, it will be in the open, and then more drama will come.
After it is found out, Arjun will stand with Purvi and they will get married. Savita will come to India and create further misunderstandings for Manav/Archana as a result. I think Ovi will end up with a broken heart and Savita will use this to drive Archana and her daughters further apart. She will use Purvi/Arjun to convince Manav that Ovi's broken heart is Archana's doing because Purvi is her daughter. Purvi will be with Arjun but she will go through a lot because Sulochana, Manav, Teju, Ovi, and Sachin will all disown her and be against her. Archu may stand with her but she will be powerless herself as she has to either live with Sulochana or Manav.
I also dont think we have seen the last of Punni. She may not get Arjun but her hatred of Purvi will increase once she realizes Arjun truly loves her. She will be jealous and angry that Purvi has got the true love of a man like that. She will be exposed for the MMS eventually but she will definitely try to fan the flames with Ovi and anyone else in the family regarding Purvi. So I think there is going to be a lot of drama up ahead.
I hope the CVs choose a route more along these lines. I also dont believe either of these 2 are going to wind up with anyone else or anything like that. Arjun loves her too much and he doesnt belong to the "sacrifice" generation. Before Purvi he was a cutthroat egotistical businessman who got anything he wanted. Purvi is his world and the only thing that keeps him going. He is not going to walk away that easily.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thathasthu, Shyamala, that Arjun will redeem himself soon!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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There is only one way Arjun can get Purvi back now ...
That is to get Archana on his side and make her trust him that he had no intentions of harming her daughters and his love for Purvi is true love ..
Archu has the strongest influence on Purvi's mind ...If she is convinced then Arjun's love life is back on tracks ...
But he has messed it up badly for himself ..he has to do some serious damage control and get Archana to trust him ...
One good thing in his favour is that Archana has tremendous respect for both his parents ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dear Jhanvi,

Yes, of course. And there is nothing like Sanskrit for providing just the right word to express any sentiment, is there!

Shyamala

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Thathasthu, Shyamala, that Arjun will redeem himself soon!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree. In fact I had suggested, even when Arjun was trying to get out of the post-MMS spat with Purvi, that he should go to Archana, who would help him out of her love for Aashana and her deep respect for DK. I had than felt, however, that once she learnt of the Ovi-Arjun angle, this would not work, as she would be bound to back her real daughter, regardless of how that daughter felt about her.

I no longer think so. I feel that Archana will support Purvi, basically for the same reason as George Bernard Shaw's Candida, who chooses to stay with her kind but dull husband, who is a vicar, rather than run away with an adoring poet, because the husband needs her more. Archana knows that while Ovi has many people to care for her, Purvi depends totally on her mother. Also Archana firmly believes in marriage for love, and she would agree that there is no sense in Arjun marrying Ovi when he cares nothing for her.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

There is only one way Arjun can get Purvi back now ...

That is to get Archana on his side and make her trust him that he had no intentions of harming her daughters and his love for Purvi is true love ..
Archu has the strongest influence on Purvi's mind ...If she is convinced then Arjun's love life is back on tracks ...
But he has messed it up badly for himself ..he has to do some serious damage control and get Archana to trust him ...
One good thing in his favour is that Archana has tremendous respect for both his parents ...

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