Written Update : 28th March 2012 - Page 6

Originally posted by: Tulsey

Thank you Tanya for the lovely update.

Today when Teju was pouring out her anger at Manav, she said to him "you did not want us to talk to our mother. She was never spoken about in the house"...what does this mean??? I understand that it is Manav/Savita combination to teach the daughters and Sachin to hate Archana. Yes to Hate Archana.

I am just so surprised how the hell he became a successful man...the guy does not know the right from the wrong and goes out to preach the same to his kids. DK knows Archana better than Manav...isn't that something for Manav to be thinking about???

I liked the strength of Tej today...She let Manav have the taste of his medicine...good going Teju!!!

I want Archana to go and listen to her daughter's feelings regardless of what Manav restricted her with. Atleast, Archana has never put spoken wrong or against Manav or any member of his family to anyone. Sometimes, I feel like shaking Manav until his grey matter falls in the right place...

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

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So just forget about this man completely and only focus on her daughters ..Even forget about sachin..Hope Manav , Shravani and sachin and savita live happily ever after ...she should just try and stay somewhat in touch with her daughters ..She should only and only think about her daughters ...ya i also want it pls CV show us this thing

how manav allow his daughters to live in a dream that he will marry shravani 👏😲and shravani who was abused so terrible way 18years before by savita waiting for manav😲👍🏼some saying why archana isnt telling manav sachin's emotional blackmail, why SHE TELL IT TO MANAV? bc MANAV ALREADY GIVEN HOPE TO HIS KIDS ABOUT SHRAVANI😲

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If I was the writer of this show , the first thing I would do is to make Archana stop caring and loving manav and only try get her daughters to love her .👍🏼this way CV can bring some positivity in the show
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and one more important things in this way new MANAV"S REAL FACE come out that how he gave impression to his kids about archana.if he has little bit of love for archana he WOULD TEACH THEM RESPECT FOR THEIR MOM. not to allow them to mention US AURAT.i hv to bound to say new manav bc OLD MANAV never blame/misunderstand archana even never allow anybody disrespect her.he fought with many ppl for this

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Archu has to stop caring about him ...even if she cannot stop loving him ,she must stop caring about him ...She is in a very bad situation ..he is father of her two daughters and even the third one loves him so much ...Let's just hope that the bond between Archaan and teju gets stronegr and stronger ...Archana needs teju a lot ...ya when she will win her daughters heart that day she will b real winner .i dont want CV showing manav realizing his fault and archana saying'aap mera pati hai pls maafi mat magna mujha acha nahi lagta 😡🤢

Originally posted by: Tulsey

Yes Tanya, you have said it very well. Archana has done a better job as a parent to raise Purvi as a beautiful person, caring about people's feeling, respecting and all the nice things. Archana gave Purvi both a father and mothers love just like Manav claims to have done for his twins. But look what Manav has raised...his kids who have only heard hatred about their mother.

After watching Teju fight with her dad today she had said everything correct...I am pretty sure that she will stand up for her mother. She will be shocked in the beginning when she finds about Archana being her mother...but then she will recall all the things that she shared with Archana and her family...how good and nice people they are...she will analyse that her father has no reason to have hated their mother...Teju will even fight with Savita. Watching Teju fight with her father showed me this girl's inner strength. She will raise hell with Savita and Manav for having to miss such a loving woman , Archana...

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Tulsey, fervently hope so. Archana needs someone to fight for her and it has to be someone within the Deshmukh family, Purvi would still be considered an outsider by them. Teju would be the ideal person to point fingers at her dad and grandmom and raise hell as you said for depriving her and Ovi of such a loving and wonderful mother.

Manav is a weakling, he has no grace and no generosity of spirit towards the woman he claims he once loved. Why would he not tell his children about their mother, her name, how wonderful she had been, how he had fallen in love with her and why they had separated? He has fostered and festered a deep hatred for Archana in his kids and that is not merely his mom's doing. All blame cannot be laid at Savita's door. Manav needs to shoulder a major chunk of the responsibility for making his daughters hate their mother so. If he really loved Archana, however hurt he was, he would not let the kids think so badly of their mother. Allowing them to call her "oos aurath" is disrespectful, however much you may dislike a parent under whatever unfortunate circumstance, it is just not kosher to keep referring to her as that woman. He feeds off their hatred and feels mahaan for having loved such a woman. How condescendingly kind of him to have loved her!!

It is not Archana who has a maahan complex, it is Manav. He needs that adulation and hero worship (that his wife used to accord him and is missing it and so cannot imagine her gall in not giving in to his demands of returning to him now that he has deigned to reenter her life) from his kids and perhaps cannot share their love even with their own mother as he is insecure about himself.

Archana seriously needs to get over this man who has no love in his heart for her, he just has a need to control and is verbally abusive of her. She needs to get away from him as far as possible. If Ekta wants Archana to forgive the heel that Manav is, he needs to grovel and beg for days and months and years, before Archana even relents and gives him a second chance.