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Posted: 13 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Luv4games



Why is that when people make posts that only encourage character's actions whether good or bad and likes them nobody complains and not tell that person what to do and what no to do...how about the people who do not like those posts...They dont complain and ask them to stop making posts...Prasad can make as many posts as he likes as long as he has a valid point and he totally does in this thread..he is not angry at archana for no reason...any child will act like that if their mom let them go without a fight...if people are fed up seeing posts of hatred then why do they even open that post and read it...the name of the TM is listed there...and since some people think prasad only hates archana for no reason then why dont they stop reading his posts...or if they want to read the post but disagree with it then they are more than welcome to put their points...that will be a healthy discussion...if parsad says he likes how ovi talked to archana then somebody who doesnt agree can easily say i dont think the treatment was right and i felt really bad for archana and state their points...it is a public forum we cannot ask people not to make threads however we do have the control not to open those threads...

If i am reading a magazine and there is an article about some actor i dislike or one that i like but the article includes negative things about them then i just wont read it...because i didnt have control over the writer and publisher but i do have control over what my action will be

this thread would have been so fun to read and include a healthy discussion if everyone just try to stick to the topic and stop attacking the TM or ask for for the thread to close...

yah i dont agree with any mother leaving their kid but I would also love to read opinion of people who do feel bad for archana and think she wasnt wrong...i am sure they have valid reasons too

One thing is for sure that not everybody will have the same opinion because we are all very different people, with different backgrounds and in different stages of lives...so it is better we all stop expecting everyone to agree with our points or force them or just flat out ask them not to share their POV



Kya Baat hai LuvForgames...👏

Totally agree...
Yes one may make a post we like /Dislike.
We agree/Disagree... we might agree to some,disagree to some...

But for all those reasons we need not attack or fight or argue with the member or the Opinion stated until or unless that member do a personal attack on us or mock our opinions...

As you said,if we like,click the like button,if we dont like, we can ignore the post, or post our disagreement with our points why we feel so with the Due respect which will lead to healthy discussions and Debates...

we too welcome it...

Over all well said, felt glad on interacting with you...
Just Bang on your post was...
Edited by umayal - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32
The funny thing about all of this..I have never seen the anti-Archana's Behaviour fans that I know of, attacking her supporters. However, when we are defending ourselves we are deemed wrong. I won't go any further because this is not the grievance thread.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33

I don't like what Archana did by giving up her children but her love for Sachu was real, there was no act. Archana loved Sachu as her own and Shravani knew that. Archana is being criticized right now for the choices she made but didn't Shravani do the same? Shravani thought Manav and Archana were the right choice for her child and left without giving it a second thought, in years she didn't call to find out how he was or where he was. It was Savita who ultimately contacted her when she started her schemes. Shravani wasn't heard of in all those years and its probably the same case now so how is she better than Archana? It shouldn't matter how good a person is, you should find a way to stay in touch and keep up to date about your child's life. Shravani and Archana are both guilty of not doing that.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

I don't like what Archana did by giving up her children but her love for Sachu was real, there was no act. Archana loved Sachu as her own and Shravani knew that. Archana is being criticized right now for the choices she made but didn't Shravani do the same? Shravani thought Manav and Archana were the right choice for her child and left without giving it a second thought, in years she didn't call to find out how he was or where he was. It was Savita who ultimately contacted her when she started her schemes. Shravani wasn't heard of in all those years and its probably the same case now so how is she better than Archana? It shouldn't matter how good a person is, you should find a way to stay in touch and keep up to date about your child's life. Shravani and Archana are both guilty of not doing that.



I totally agree with you regarding sharavani...i cant believe a mother who can very well take care of her son just leaves him with others...no matter how nice those people are...and after that she doesnt even call at least once a week to check on him...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#35
I see your point with Shravani.
However, she was not married and pregnant, that is frowned upon by certain people in society, and obviously in her situation. That is why they were trying to let her get married to Manav in the first place, to avoid Sachu being called "illegitimate and her looking "loose." So, since she realised she cannot win Manav's love, plus Archana was going to stop the wedding anyway "last minute," she left Sachu with Manav and Archana. She felt it was best for Sachu to have a Mother and Father and it was best for him to not know he was not Manav and Archana's son. That was her reasoning, I have never been in her situation, so honestly I can't say she was wrong or right.
I just know I could not give up my child.
Archana's situation was different, she is "married," and even if she got divorced her child would not be considered "Illegitimate," in society. Taking Manav to court to get her children would have been a good move, she had the status of "wife." Being a divorced woman with two children also looks a lot better than having a child and never been married, you are more frowned upon.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: hillydee

I see your point with Shravani.

However, she was not married and pregnant, that is frowned upon by certain people in society, and obviously in her situation. That is why they were trying to let her get married to Manav in the first place, to avoid Sachu being called "illegitimate and her looking "loose." So, since she realised she cannot win Manav's love, plus Archana was going to stop the wedding anyway "last minute," she left Sachu with Manav and Archana. She felt it was best for Sachu to have a Mother and Father and it was best for him to not know he was not Manav and Archana's son. That was her reasoning, I have never been in her situation, so honestly I can't say she was wrong or right.
I just know I could not give up my child.
Archana's situation was different, she is "married," and even if she got divorced her child would not be considered "Illegitimate," in society. Taking Manav to court to get her children would have been a good move, she had the status of "wife." Being a divorced woman with two children also looks a lot better than having a child and never been married, you are more frowned upon.



i didnt watch show during those times so i am not sure but from what i read in the discussions i understood that sharavani was very rich...so if she wanted she could go abroad and raise her kid where she wouldnt be judged because it is more natural there to be a single parent and she wouldnt have to tell anyone that she wasnt married...the problem with these mothers are that they do have other choices but they pick the wrong one and the one that causes the most harm...

like sharavani could take her child somewhere else..or even if she gave him to archana and manav she could at least keep checking up on him and once she realized he wanst happy there she could take him back

archana could have taken manav to court...but fine lets agree for one minute that she wanted manav to be happy then why didnt she stop him from taking the kids abroad...she could have just said manav i will give up the twins but the condition is that you will stay in India and keep giving me updates of my daughters...or ask for visitation rights...or ask him and make him understand that they cant divorce and being together for kids sake is the best option but what did she pick...letting them go without a fight...i will say it again i like how she fought with manju for purvi...i wish she had done that with manav regarding the kids and their marriage then they would still be together or at least her kids would be there with her or just know her and love her

another thing is that if sachu and archana had a good bond and since he was older i am sure he got hurt and damaged the most...i hope they had at least handled his case differently like letting him stay with archu or at least allow him to talk to her...i just know that a kid his age will miss his mother terribly...

and last thing no matter what happens I could NEVER give up my child for anybody...i will fight till the last breath in my body to keep them and protect them

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Posted: 13 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: prasad1991

whole episode archana was chanting ovi-teju & meri betiyaan ... not a single mention about sacchu & his well being

lot of mistakes were done by armaan ... & even shravani did mistake of giving sacchu by thinking about others
all mistakes of past cud had been corrected if archana wud had returned sacchu to shravani ... she shud had known that her love for sacchu is over ... yet she very shamelessly pretended in front of shravani that i still love sacchu & he is my first son etc etc ... bullshit
& now she has completely 4gotten him ... she cud had united a mom-son ... but she came in their way & became responsible for their separation
& now her own daughters r abusing her ... way to go ovi-teju ... u rock ... der will be many more scenes where archana will get badly humiliated by her own daughters ... & even sacchu & soham will join in ... it will be a treat to watch her beizzati from all sides🥳



It's very sad that they were so rude to someone on the telephone. That doesn't show class or good upbringing. Also, if they have grown up in Canada how is it that they have an Indian accent?
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: noodle2808



It's very sad that they were so rude to someone on the telephone. That doesn't show class or good upbringing. Also, if they have grown up in Canada how is it that they have an Indian accent?



initially ovi was nice and cute with archana...the one thing that put me off was how rudely she said to call her dad Mr. M.D. because she doesnt know who he is...i mean saying that is a little rude for a 19 year old...but i do remember when i was younger, i was really close with my uncle and his cousins were same age as me and they used to call him by his name and i would get really pissed off that they are not giving him any respect and they should also call him uncle...but after they found about the lady asking about their mom..it is quite natural to act that way...they are also trying to protect their father...and about the accent...Ovi and teju are grown up in Canada not the actors playing the characters...they were raised in India so naturally they will have an Indian accent...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know the circumstances were different but Shravani could have still kept in touch and find out how her son was doing. Same with Archana, Archana could have been shown putting up more of a fight for all of her kids. The way both women were portrayed easily giving up their children as if it were nothing was ridiculous. No matter how good someone is, this is your child. They were parting with a part of themselves and yet they let years go by without finding out about their kids.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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All 3 kids Ovi, Teju and Arjun they all speak perfect Hindi...None of them speak in english much...Its strange to see so much mother tongue being spoken VS local language...

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