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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Hello Kool di, You probably don't recognize me but I do know you from your posts and the famous, yet so infamous commentries! 😆 I'll be honest, I might have only read them like 1 or 2 times not cause I don't like them but cause my interest in this show is 0%! I hardly read any debates related to it.😆 anyway, meet myself Jia, the blabber! 😆

2 more days and the entire comment load will shift to the new characters my dear . This track is about Archana's mistakes and the subsequent rift . The comment load will be on that only as that is being shown . I don't have a problem with that whatsoever KD (short form of Kool di 😆) Make as much as comments you like on her, bash, criticize, she is just a fictional character afterall,and quite a stupid one indeed 😆 so I don't have a problem with that of any sorts...as I even said before I am not even a fan of her. but my whole point of raising those particular comments against Archana only was..the extent, the limit, the line which one should draw criticizing anything! And in my honest opinion, those comments were bit too much to handle, not only for that characters fan but also for me, who doesn't really care much about her.

The character bashing rule should not be invoked to muzzle members only when Archana is criticised , which has sadly been the case in this forum . I have been in this forum for very long now and did not see this zeal for being 'fair' when Manav was bashed , Shravani was bashed or Savita was bashed ...by groups gathering daily in one thread . I have been in this forum for almost a year now, and the only two things I have usually seen in this forum is Archana praising and Archana bashing,Manav toh bechara always was sidelined 😆...I know what you mean by that Archana is given a lot of importance in this forum and I agree, but I think as much as praise she gets in this forum,she gets twice the bashing too...which maybe the reason that the comments against her gets to your eyes more than for any of the characters cause as contrast to her praising the bashing is equally excessive.And about Manav, Shravani and Savita bashing toh I think I was not the part of this forum when Shravani used to get bashed, and about Manav and Savita then yes I have seen that happening and rules should be applied to all characters equally, as I said before I don't have the problem with bashing KD, if you read my posts you'll see me making fun of them half of the times 😆 my issue was with the extent of it. Personally, I haven't came across as harsh as comments for Archana than for any other character, otherwise I would have said the same..if I would have felt that its a bit too much.

I don't know WHEN you joined the forum and honestly dear , it does not even matter to me . I am sure , had you seen that bashing you would have spoken much much earlier . 😊 You seem to be a very intelligent kid . { Sorry if u feel offended that i called u a kid but I guess I am much elder to u and ur id name is simply so adorable . The kind my son would choose .}} No, I don't feel offended by that at all, I am a big mischievious kid only, hence the ID gremlin! 😆 Yes I guess if I would have seen all that bashing, I probably would have spoked earlier, If I would have felt that its too much,trust me I am not one of those who give bhashans on fairness and then do the complete opposite of it..cause that will make me a hypocrite, which is one of the things that ticks me off very much in anyone!

Regarding prasad's comments on Archana being sex driven ...That topic was closed down by mds , so u see , rules observed there .

Regarding comment on Archana throwing herself on Manav in yesterdays episode by people whose name u chose not to take ...😆😆 I went back , re read it to see how wrong it was and found NOTHING stomach churning there . It was a simple analysis of yesterdays episode . That indeed HAS been shown , and there are two POVS to that scene ...one is the romantic , lovey dovey POV that some may see or the POV that it was absolutely uncalled for action when a child is supposedly dead and OTHER issues are being talked about . Elders like us indeed saw it that way . Does mind become cynical when one is elder ? I don't know dear . But both POVS should be allowed and read by CVS don't you think ? Why should one be muzzled and only the other be allowed ? Many ...and I repeat , MANY thought that the romantic song was absolutely uncalled for in yesterdays intense episode . And they were NOT Archana Haters ...they were those nice neutral viewers who hardly comment .😆😆 KD, I didn't even mention about the song or the scene anywhere..I myself felt it was stupid and way out of the place going by the comments I read about it.Its the comment I was talking about. Fekta was doing the promotion of her movie's song as usual..but how is that Archana's fault that CV's played their stupid song for a stupid movie promotion...I won't interpret it as Archana seducing Manav by her body! 😕 And I'll still stick to saying that I did find that comment a little too much and a bit disturbing...maybe its the age difference...😆 but I didn't liked it so I said it 😳..not like I have anything against someone.

My dear , so many jumped on prasad for using the word sex driven . But at least he talked about a fictional character and his post WAS closed down as per mods rules . But when he was jumped upon , he was attacked PERSONALLY ...what is more bad , feeling so bad about a character that does NOT exist or attacking a member with personal quips asking him if he was married and knew how that sex involved TWO , not one ? I guess you're talking about that "Old Hags" comment passed by that troll, which I found very pathetic indeed! you probably don't know about this but those trolls belongs to Ankita fanpage and they talk like this with everyone..be it TD or anyone else...we ourselves have had arguments with them...super obsessed Archana fans! so I'll suggest you to ignore them completely...we do the same! 😆

So people feel bad that an imaginary character is bashed but have no problems attacking a living member ?😆😆 That is the most childish thing ever to do in my opinion,being personal to real people for fictional characters who don't even exists! 🤪 If you would have read my posts you'll see I make fun of such trolls who practise this the most! 😆

Regarding how everyone should be fair in criticism to ALL characters ...😆😆 Surely dear that is a bit IDEAL ??? And IMPOSSIBLE ? I won't even expect it as What I may feel is FAIR , may be deemed UNFAIR by the other ! Each one expresses his or her subjective opinion here and sometimes the other agrees or does not and this back and forth continues and so will it go on ! I am YET to meet a person who is fair to all characters ...and this goes for me too .True,true very true! I remember making a similar comment in one of the SOTD threads myself, that I am yet to see a total unbiased fan in this forum and that I love the way Manav and Archana fans bicker with eachother like husband and wife! 😆 My comment about the fairness was again related to that Savita comment only...as I remember when that person said that calling Savita a "chudail" is harsh and bit too much...Archana fans who were calling her that instantly stopped it and refrained from doing it further and even said sorry...so my point was just that when Archana fans can be considerate enough towards someones feeling...it would be nice if the harshness in comments against Archana are also leveled considering that even Archana fans will not like reading it..thats all.

One more thing . U hesitated to take names as the members u found offensive were ELDERS . I really appreciate that respect .😊

Thank you and I really do respect the elders and once again I'll say sorry if I offended you or someone else with this post of mine...I really didn't intended to that.

Originally posted by: umayal

Respected mods,

Sorry to Butt in after you said that , the post made by Nikki is closed.
That is post is closed, so I had to say here. Sorry for posting it here.

I don't know what has been happening in last few days
as I haven't logged into forum.

I don't know the root of those problems and what they are.

But agree with Nikki on points as I had seen the same in old issues too.
Mainly the warning level for those who get into personal attacks.
when the character which is fictional or the actor whom we are not closer to shouldn't be attacked
then how come the person whom we know,chat daily and knew through this forum can be attacked and that too personally.

As an example,Kool di and Nikki as been attacked personally in a very bad manner and I had seen this and posted replies to that too, but that threads as been closed with the verbal warning and those members do come again and create ruckus.

Yes,it was a tough task to handle such people , but a strict action is needed.

Just wish to say this.Its upto you.
Sorry if it has affected you in any sense.

Originally posted by: Swati_

I had posted this in TD'S thread but as Jia and Umi replied to Niks post in the discussion thread me shifting it here 😆

Ok i am posting my reply to Niks thread as it got closed down before i could write anything

I dont want only Niks to be the bad girl here 😆

Niks you did a much needed thread as someone really needed to do it😊 You were graceful and voiced many people's opinion😊 I feel your thread was misused by few people .

Well i joined this forum during the worst phase of Manav when he was bashed badly. As i was new i thought the words like chawl ka kachra , wimp , impotent are allowed to use which was used for Manav. But when the same thing was done to Archana people were given warnings which left me confused 😕 But i guess those are old matters which need not be said now.

Also now when a memeber is attacked hardly anything is said to the person. I dont want to take any name but Kool di , Sharon di were attacked personally and never a warning was given or even the post was not edited.

HT is never bashed in this forum but still few fanatics of his attack the person and hurt 😊

I guess yes few Sushant fans did behave wrong but the same goes to HT fans . So i feel only Sushant fans should not be suggetsed to move on 😳

Also if a single post in a thread is offending the whole thread is closed down sometimes which hampers the discussion .

Niks me agree the KDMHMD forum is very nice and gives a pleasant feeling .But the credit even goes to the members who restrict themselves from bashing anyone. But the case is different over here and few members are indeed posting things which are not nice to read🤢

All in all PR forum has changed and i miss the old forum

Originally posted by: devashree_h

Swati, I swear I have never come across these words for Manav otherwise I would have atleast warned and I know Resham would have done the same. The problem is as DTs its impossible for us to read each and every post. When we come across something offensive we act on that. We get to know these things from you people, As for the person who insulted members here, he has been warned. Further action will be taken if offense is repeated. The only thing we ask of all of you is if you have any problems then pleas pm us, we will try to solve it. May be we will take some time but we will solve. A

And if we dont post here everyday doesn't mean we are not available. All 3 of us log-in everyday and check the issues.

Also, as for this forum not being the same as before and not being like other forums. Let me tell you, most of 2 years this has been a very peaceful forum. People used to have intellectual debates without insulting each other. We knew once there was character change, some tussles might happen. Inevitable. But we as a forum need to work on this together.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

That is what all of us also want Devu. That is why the post was made- to discuss and solve the issue. Unfortunately, it was closed down after the mods said what they wanted to say, without the members being given a chance to revert back.

We know that Nikki. We wholly understand the point. As of now, warning has been sent out. Since the offending is a newbie, he/she has been given one more chance.Member bashing just wont be tolerated on IF under any circumstances.

I could have made a PM again like I do everytime (Reshu knows about it) This time I made a thread cos a large majority felt the same and I wanted you to know it's not just me who feels that way- if I had sent a PM I could have been disregarded as a blind fan and I didn't want that.

My intention was not to hurt anyone. As I said in OP, I believe you are all nice people and I have interacted with all of you. But I saw the anger arising amongst the people for the Dev team. Hence I felt a proper clarification in front of them would be better, so they also know that the Dev Team does take feedback, and the matter could be sorted there itself.

Again, as I said it there, I could have made an MID and done it all. I didn't do it cos I don't like cheating anyone. I used my original id, knowing very well that I was going against the 3 of you.

But sad to say, it all backfired.

And I know you people do log in bcos I have seen Jaz give warnings to members and you posting in the TRP thread occasionally (I mentioned that ALSO in my thread). Inspite of that, when you see what is lacking in the forum (there's a long list) one can't help but feel that there is so much the mods need to do but do not do. Even the fight could have been so much better handled. The feedback thread could have been better handled.

It was not you, but many people accuse me and jazz of 'not-being-involved' here much. I owe an explanation to them.

anyhow, all of it has ended now. Just want to say my intention was not to hurt anybody. I'm sorry if I ended up doing that, but I'm not sorry for airing my views on the issue. If and when a situation comes when the DT is right and needs support, I will always do that.

Thank you.