Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Kools,
So shocking to hear anyone of us here in this forum know women like Varsha.😲😲😲, and to know they actually exist.
Sharon , such women do exist . They r very much amongst us .The reason I mentioned my 3 experiences was bcoz of the parallels I drew to Varshas character . What i noticed among the 3 was this
A strong independent spirit
Financial independence
careerists
A solid upper middle class background
Love marraige with man of own choice
Justtt like Varsha . Yet , life plunged in tremendous unhappiness . They made their own life and husbands life unhappy . Sasural people watched the bonfire of their son's life with tears and maayka people simply watched helplessly as it was not even within their control to do anything .
I bring u Varshas parallel coz its exactly what Varsha is facing ...it is not about maternal love etc etc . Its CONTROL issue , Rage issue . They cannot bear ANYONE thwarting their wishes , even fate .
Ultimately its FATE that gives us or does not give us certain things right ? But these women cannot bear a NO .
Children r not in Varsha's fate .But she is unwilling to accept it . She cud have adopted ANY kid .But she started insisting on ONE particular girl who caught her fancy .
Then she shifted focus to Soham . I want ONLY him .
Its about CONTROL .
Manav had told her right in the bazaar when she had pushed a pregnant Archana . Its not about Mamta or maternal feeling. You r empty from inside .
Hence no one shud BUDGE . Let her do ANYTHING , she shud be firmly told NO . Let her take the fight to ANY ugly proportion the answer she shud get is we have no problems getting ugly . Do what u want , go die , u wont get the baby . Not some one else's baby .