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sushkita10

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Posted: 14 years ago

i think cv showing archana like a 8th wonder of the world or woman of other planet.how a woman always remain silent whatever her husband do.she is beautiful,hardworking finish diploma on office managment.so she should hv least self respect and hs sense to make correct her husband about his responsibility.always her husband whatever want to do like mistrust her,scold her ,insult infront of all,and even to qurrel with her for a secretery girl and went to her to consolation😲she save his husband frm insult its ok, bt she should[very natural]ask him why he insult and mistrust her and trust RIYA?😡no woman in this world remain silent to see her hubby in late night in his secretery home,how disgusting😕is she normal????she is not lether husband to ask forgiveness😲plese cv show some practicle and natural relationship what exist and previous PR which was so natural. dONT SHOW WOMAN SO HELPLESS AND DONT SHOW MANAV SO HOT_HEADED AND INREASONABLE WHO ALWAYS WANT TO ADORE HIS WIFE😳bt IN PAVITRA RISHTA IS MISSING BETWEEN MANAV ARCHANA THESE DAYS. please all of give opinion

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

It's funny the way you are calling her the 8th wonder of the world . Somewhat you are right but do look at the kind of life she has lived ..

Manav has already divorced her once ...for the sake of his family and his brother's child ...

It was a miracle she got him back ,all thanks to Shravani ...

The two years she lived without him , she missed him so much that now she is ready to put up with anything but to live a life without him ...

For that she will always try and avoid conflicts .That is why she forgives him the minute he realizes that he did wrong ...because she just does not wish to have any situation of conflict ..

The fear of losing him makes her behave the way she does ..

I am not saying it is right but just giving the reason why she behaves this way ( in my opinion )

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archanamanav

@archanamanav

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Posted: 14 years ago

poas..guruji is right..i think the life she has gone through has made her like this..and she doesn't want to loose manav at any cost..so she never questions him..sab galti maaf ..maafi mangne se pehle....
that is why manav is asking these days why u don't behave like normal lady anymore?..this definitely should concern him a bit..why she is so forgiving all the time?..

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sushkita10

@sushkita10

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Posted: 14 years ago

thank u tanya and usha for ur reply.actually i m always fan of archana for her caring nature bt sometimes for her well future she should correct her husband.i think this way.manav not learning frm hismistake and doing sm thing bc he never need to think or afraid of doing any wrong with her.

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karsri

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
It's funny the way you are calling her the 8th wonder of the world . Somewhat you are right but do look at the kind of life she has lived ..
Manav has already divorced her once ...for the sake of his family and his brother's child ...

It was a miracle she got him back ,all thanks to Shravani ...

The two years she lived without him , she missed him so much that now she is ready to put up with anything but to live a life without him ...

For that she will always try and avoid conflicts .That is why she forgives him the minute he realizes that he did wrong ...because she just does not wish to have any situation of conflict ..

The fear of losing him makes her behave the way she does ..

I am not saying it is right but just giving the reason why she behaves this way ( in my opinion )

Tanyaz- She is like this from the beginning. If you remember those 30 days( just after 1st marriage) when she stayed at manav's house, she put up with savita's abuse with out saying a word. Back then she was just started to understand and love manav... In my opinon the divorce wouldn't have happened if she is not like this. She didn't want manav to look bad by not keeping his promise... They say the story is unconditional love between arman but i only see archana loving manav unconditionally... I agree he does love her so!! much will do anything make her happy but doesn't know her and understand her completely the way he claims... he himself admitted that otherday by saying, though I claim to know u and understand u well but keep making mistakes... after the separation it is not only archana who is scared of separation, manav is also scared... he is just messes up all the time...because she lets him...
Archana's character is unreal, especially these days... may be 50 years ago... She is like 8th wonder of the world...

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Julle

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Posted: 14 years ago

idk why archana is made sooo larger than life.

even balaji greats like tulsi parvati prena bani were not this much of a door mat. they are thier phases , and werent perfect and at times too were abandoned by family but they were always shown to be strong. it was inspiring to see them. the might loose battles but they always won the war.

here, no matter what, archana always looses, the battles and the big wars. she makes choices that she knows will do her no good but she makes them anyways. she has no fighting will. there is no "wrath" factor to her. its like you can mess with her all you want, you never would have to pay. case and point =manju. she always does what she wants and never fears repercussions. there is no justice and archana doesnt even demand justice.

after all manju and her family has done, archana still wont hesitate to make amends etc. she never even stood up for her marriage, and then went to great lengths for manav when she was to be married to someone else. its like her cant see what she is doing. she has no clear direction in life,

she is doing all what savita wants, taking in the abuse but she has to live with her and manav for the rest of thier lives. does she really think this behavior will promote a healthy relationship for anyone?

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Mandy

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Posted: 14 years ago

I understand her fear of losing him but that doesn't mean she should make him take her for granted. His treatment of her lately has been disappointing, first the party where he made her feel like he is ashamed of her, then with Riya and now with Vandu and Savita. Archana shouldn't be so quick to apologize to him, she should give him the silent treatment like he does to her. Why should she give in everytime he treats her like dirt? Archana doesn't even let him finish his apology, she is just happy that once he asks for forgiveness everything is ok. Its horrible! I am tired of seeing Archana take everything quietly, she is human and she is someone who gets hurt.

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omshreejaanu

@omshreejaanu

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Posted: 14 years ago

Archana has always been like this coz she has been moulded this way. Her mom has made her, her carbon copy n wat Sulo couldn't instill in her other"normal" kids, she managed to do it with Archana. Archana's sacrificing n forgiving nature have always been her plus points n her drawbacks too because she just cant balance them n fit them appropriately in her life. She let these qualities overruled her logic n she ends up a misfit in this modern society

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Mandy

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu
Archana has always been like this coz she has been moulded this way. Her mom has made her, her carbon copy n wat Sulo couldn't instill in her other"normal" kids, she managed to do it with Archana. Archana's sacrificing n forgiving nature have always been her plus points n her drawbacks too because she just cant balance them n fit them appropriately in her life. She let these qualities overruled her logic n she ends up a misfit in this modern society

So true! Archana doesn't know any better, even today instead of telling Archana to stand up for herself she is telling Archana to apologize. Archana has nothing to apologize for, especially to a man who tried to hurt her husband and injured her son!

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

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After watching yesterday's show I know exactly who to blame for Archana turning out the way she has ..

Of all the people it is her mother who has totally messed up her mind by filling garbage into her head ...

It is only Archana who is expected to sacrifise .For Sulochna , her other kids should be given whatever they want .

Archana is a grown up woman and depite of the nonsense her mother has been telling her , she has to think about her children .She really should not have agreed to giving a house to Ajit and Vandita and also not agreed to apologise to Ajit .This is such regressive thinking ...

No wonder Zee TV is not doing well right now ..

Also the way Archana lets her sister all the time pick her son and control her son is totally disgusting ..

this particular story line is totally killing the characters of Archana and Varsha ...Please Zee Tv, keep Varsha awray from Soham .Let Archana be a good mother to Soham ...

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