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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

How is Manav going to set Archana straight when he himself does not know where to draw a line? ...He brought this "K" problem home..He thinks he can be a better son to Sulo than Vinod...Well every family got similar issues...You need to be good son to your own parents..Let Vinod be a better son to his parents...Not ArMan or Deshmukh problem OKIE...

Why did he need to put of 1 lakh reward to find Sulo...After finding out where she was why bring her to Deshmukhs? Also Varsha calling him if she could spend few days staying @ Deshmukhs, Why does he need to agree? He is letting Archana think it is fine and dandy for Karanjkars to come and take over..

Manav has been the one kissing sulo's A** brown nosing since she moved in..Why cant he remain in his own respect like a damaad should while Sulo is there..Even Savtia was out of her character in being honey sweet to Sulo..

So while Mannu scolds Archu and clears up misunderstandings with Savita and Archu , he must admit his own faults for doing something he should not have.

As Piya mentioned abv some money in Savita-mannu and some in ArMan name...Explain to both no more fizul ka kharcha on kitty party, card games or giving money to Rassi etc for Savita and Archu to stop from spending on Karanjkars...Have some descipline-respect for money..They must understand no matter who's name money is in it is Deshmukh money for the family not to waste...Money also deserves respect...If you dont then money also wants to run away from careless people..No need for anyone to feel insecure abt their security or future..

So lets see what Manav does on monday..

I agree completely at the blue Varsha Di, very well said. Money deserves some respect but it is just being give naway to kitty parties, and to a greedy sister who not needs but wants a necklace. I thought Archu looks at Vandu like her sister but she gave money to Varsha. Varsha couldve waited till the bank opened the next day.

Varsha Di, I don't even expect Manav to scold Archu in Monday's episode, he will back his wife and will scold his mother for sure.

Originally posted by: bhallarox

I agree completely at the blue Varsha Di, very well said. Money deserves some respect but it is just being give naway to kitty parties, and to a greedy sister who not needs but wants a necklace. I thought Archu looks at Vandu like her sister but she gave money to Varsha. Varsha couldve waited till the bank opened the next day.

Varsha Di, I don't even expect Manav to scold Archu in Monday's episode, he will back his wife and will scold his mother for sure.

I dont expect Manav to scold Archu at all...He will say something nasty to Savita..Archana will have tears in her eyes, throw herslef in his arms and Manav ki chhutti ho gayi...Savita has to bear the brunt of it all..If Manav can forgive people like Varsha but he could not forgive Ajit which beats the heck out of MOI.. had he admitted to Ajit that he was wrong abt believing Shibu orver Ajit, Ajit may not have turned so bad...He really had lots of respect for Manav..I am not making excuse for Ajit...Yesterday I did let Ajit have it for teaming up with Rassi in cheating Vandu-Manav.

Varsha or actually all Karanjkars are selfish ungrateful bunch of people...Not sure why manav wants anything to do with them? WHy can't ArMan mind their own freaking business and be happy taking care of their own Deshmukh familY? Why does he see a need to be mahaan in front of Ks?? He must have a huge ego which get stroked kissing-brown nosing Ks..😡😳

Manav will forgive the Ks any time. Actually Varsha has used him so much, even once Manav slapped her and then he suddenly forgave Varsha for everything she did to them.

Ajit is not to be spared at all. As you said, since he is not starting a business, he is only using Vandu and Manav for money. But at least they could have given it for Vandu because Archana knows very well how Vandu gets abused at her sasural, yet she gave the money to Varsha.

Varsha has a very good sasural unfortunately. She deserves a husband like Ajit, they could put each other in their places. Varsha would put Ajit in place for drinking, and abusing and Ajit would put Varsha in place for trying to take Soham.

Manav did the right thing by putting the FDs in Archana's name, he is making sure his family is well taken care of in the event something happens. Archana is Manav's wife and the mother of his children, naturally the FDs will be in her name. Savita should have understood this but instead she feels she should be in control of her son's money, she should be the one to decide how it should be spent and there she is wrong. It is this kind of thinking that makes Manav hesitant to put an FD in Savita's name, it is not that he does not love her it is because he knows she spends money carelessly.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

How is Manav going to set Archana straight when he himself does not know where to draw a line? ...He brought this "K" problem home..He thinks he can be a better son to Sulo than Vinod...Well every family got similar issues...You need to be good son to your own parents..Let Vinod be a better son to his parents...Not ArMan or Deshmukh problem OKIE...

Why did he need to put of 1 lakh reward to find Sulo...After finding out where she was why bring her to Deshmukhs? Also Varsha calling him if she could spend few days staying @ Deshmukhs, Why does he need to agree? He is letting Archana think it is fine and dandy for Karanjkars to come and take over..He has to be strong and not afraid of Archu or keep doing things just to make her happy or pacify her constantly..He needs to be stern and assertive with drawing the line when it comes to K family period and they both must abide by that too..

Manav has been the one kissing sulo's A** brown nosing since she moved in..Why cant he remain in his own respect like a damaad should while Sulo is there..Even Savtia was out of her character in being honey sweet to Sulo..

So while Mannu scolds Archu and clears up misunderstandings with Savita and Archu , he must admit his own faults for doing something he should not have.

As Piya mentioned abv some money in Savita-mannu and some in ArMan name...Explain to both no more fizul ka kharcha on kitty party, card games or giving money to Rassi etc for Savita and Archu to stop from spending on Karanjkars...Have some descipline-respect for money..They must understand no matter who's name money is in it is Deshmukh money for the family not to waste...Money also deserves respect...If you dont then money also wants to run away from careless people..No need for anyone to feel insecure abt their security or future..

So lets see what Manav does on monday..

Nice post Varsha Di. Well written. Agree with you.

Manav as a major fault in this to take these things coming so far.
If he put his foot down and he himself has drawn a line then surely archu would have followed it.
Though archu had a weakness for her maayka, she is more weak in front of manav and will do things for Manav at first and then for her maternal home. Which is correct too from my POV.
Its the husband who should be given first preference than the spoilt sisters.

Atleast after this issue hope both ARMAN put their foot down and draw the much needed line between them and the karanjkars.

And hope fully wish that Manav have a talk with archu and sav aai as you said and treat the money as you said.

Or atleast wish that Manav express his displeasure in archu giving money to varsha instead of vandu to archu.

Waiting to see Monday epi.


And yes , me too puzzled or worried still at the thought, why varsha alone is treated well always by Manav after many insults and miseries. It was manju,dharmu and varsha who was the reason for his first child to get killed.
if he has the anger on manju and dharmu, then why cant on varsha. why varsha is given a free pass for forgiveness all time, as she is the sister of archu???. How i wish he had the same anger in varshu too. just lke the day they all came to his home after his child's death and he askng them to get out, I want that anger to see especially with varsha.

Then Ajit, yes , if Manav could forgive varsha, then he could have handled ajit issue also n a better way. In K's it was their fault and they pushed manav in miseries. But n Ajit it was manav who alsp had his part of fault with the trust on shibhu and mistreating him. so if Manav as handled it better, might be ajit wouldn't have fallen in hands of Rasika and Dharmu to fraud against Manav.

Archana loves her maika but not as much as she loves Manav .I say this because whenever she was asked to make a choice , she always chose Manav over her maika ...

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Manav did the right thing by putting the FDs in Archana's name, he is making sure his family is well taken care of in the event something happens. Archana is Manav's wife and the mother of his children, naturally the FDs will be in her name. Savita should have understood this but instead she feels she should be in control of her son's money, she should be the one to decide how it should be spent and there she is wrong. It is this kind of thinking that makes Manav hesitant to put an FD in Savita's name, it is not that he does not love her it is because he knows she spends money carelessly.

Mandy I dont believe that is true..Savita started feeling this way as of recent and said that precisely after she saw and heard with her own eyes and ears Manav and Archu lying abt Rs. 18000...On top of that Archu gives Varsha the money that she was to give to Vandu...I have never heard Savita b4 saying it is my sons money so it is mine and I will decide how to spend it...Bit harsh judgement I think..Apparenly even archana is not a good at judging who to give money between Varsha and Vanju..And Manav himself has spent money on Ks when he did not have money and now when he has money..So he himself is not a good with money..

As for how Manav, all depends on what he learns. I know he will learn about Vandu not getting the money but will Archana tell him about Savita scolding her and taking the necklace? Normally Archana keeps quiet about these things but maybe this time she won't, either that or Savita herself will speak out voicing her anger over how Archana favors her bratty sister over Vandu.

Manav and Archana really need to put their foot down, I didn't mind them helping Sulochana because of what happened to her but with Varsha that was just foolish. Varsha has repeatedly broken their trust yet they still pamper her, why? She caused them to lose their child, stole Soham, has repeatedly insulted them when she throws a temper tantrum for not getting her own way yet they still treat her as if nothing happened. The CVs need to put an end to this and stop making Archana and Manav look so bad. There should be a limit as to how kind they can be to someone.

Sulochana or Varsha permenantly anyone staying with them is wrong IMHO...Sulo also the worst role model for a mother to be..We saw what she did when she got thrown out of her house and how she made her daughter lie to Manav and rest of her sisters...

BTW how many times has Sulo mistreated and disrespected Manav??? Yrs...Its the money that made Sulo start respecting him and so she calls him her son...😳

ArMan did wrong in allowing Varsha to stay at their home. I think already that's Savita, ArMan which is already three people, and then Sulochana, Soham, and Sachu which makes it five. And if damodar chooses to ocme back, that will make it six. I really don't understand why in the world does Varsha have to stay at Deshmukhs. She could have stayed with Vaishali at her house. Dharmesh really wouldn't care as he only targets Manav and Archana.

Plus, Vaishali's home has four people in there and Varsha would have been the fifth person to stay there and Vaishali has a mansion and the Deshmukhs only have one bedroom and a small little bed out in the hall.

Poor Manav, he had to sleep out in the hall, not getting to sleep with Archana because of Varsha😡 It would be nice if ArMan could have a little privacy but with them permitting more and more guests at the house, it won't happen unfortunately. I hope what Savita does is she kicks Varsha out of the house, Varsha has no reason to stay there. If the whole family can yell and shout for Manju to leave the house, they can tell Varsha too. I don't see any difference between Manju and Varsha, as Varsha does not care even one little bit about her sister. She could've thought to herself how bad could this be for Archana and she may get in trouble by Savita but she is too selfish.

I don't think Savita will keep quiet about Varsha. She will defnitely want some revenge. She was even right in scolding Archana, agree she probably shouldn't have sold her necklace, maybe a bit on harsh side but she should also direct at Varsha.

Originally posted by: bhallarox

ArMan did wrong in allowing Varsha to stay at their home. I think already that's Savita, ArMan which is already three people, and then Sulochana, Soham, and Sachu which makes it five. And if damodar chooses to ocme back, that will make it six. I really don't understand why in the world does Varsha have to stay at Deshmukhs. She could have stayed with Vaishali at her house. Dharmesh really wouldn't care as he only targets Manav and Archana.

Plus, Vaishali's home has four people in there and Varsha would have been the fifth person to stay there and Vaishali has a mansion and the Deshmukhs only have one bedroom and a small little bed out in the hall.

Poor Manav, he had to sleep out in the hall, not getting to sleep with Archana because of Varsha😡 It would be nice if ArMan could have a little privacy but with them permitting more and more guests at the house, it won't happen unfortunately. I hope what Savita does is she kicks Varsha out of the house, Varsha has no reason to stay there. If the whole family can yell and shout for Manju to leave the house, they can tell Varsha too. I don't see any difference between Manju and Varsha, as Varsha does not care even one little bit about her sister. She could've thought to herself how bad could this be for Archana and she may get in trouble by Savita but she is too selfish.

I don't think Savita will keep quiet about Varsha. She will defnitely want some revenge. She was even right in scolding Archana, agree she probably shouldn't have sold her necklace, maybe a bit on harsh side but she should also direct at Varsha.

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