Originally posted by: Dabulls23
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I also believe in equality between both families too but there is a reason why our elders did things certain way...Why 2 mothers can't stay in one home..This had to happen..Our riti rivaaz were not always wrong..Everything is good in moderation..Like babysitting your grand kids..Watch them but they go home with their parents at the end of the day...
I agree , what was happening in the Deshmukh home was very unnatural and cannot happen in real life .Both mother in laws living together just cannot happen .At one time , problems will start and that is exactly what is being shown here .
Could Sulo keep Manju's mom Rassi in her house??? NO..
No way 😆
What was being shown can never happen ..
Latest culture is Girl's family gets more importance than boys family...Western culture is that way and our own culture is heading that way...MILs are scared or DILs for last decade or even more..Role reversal already has happened...You will also see this when the time your boys get married ...
Oh God , that's a scary thought ..I am all for the girl and boy's equality .I believe that both the mothers should work together to help the kids establish their life and their home and strengthen their relationship .I know you too believe in this and I will try this from my side when my time comes ...
But the effort has to be from both sides ...that I completely agree with ..If the girl's mother is acting all important then that is also wrong .
But that is not at all happening in PR ...Sulochna didn't even wanted to come and live in Manav's house and she was given the kitchen control by Savita ...not her daughter Archana ...
In fact , no matter how much I get angry with Sulochna , I was happy with the way she was making money and was not dependent on anyone ...
Everything was fine and too good to be true in Deshmukh family and we all knew it would end one day soon...Forget Rassi even if she was a good samdhan it would still come up that Savita-Mannu is supporting Sulo in her house VS taking care of her daughter's MIL or family...Human nature..
Varsha is majorly at fault here ..She was the most educated daughter and had a good job .She should have helped her mother establish her own place with Archana and Vaishu also pitching in with financial support as I believ that Manav's money is also Archana's money ...
Lets see what happens...Archu and Savita had worked so hly at ard in making their relationship and family happy...If Sulo was not staying there this woud not have happened IMHO..
Sulochna is not at fault here .Manav is .
Sulochna tried very hard not to let this happen but Manav threatened her that he will not talk to her daughter ..Manav did not even ask his mother berfore deciding to make her share her room with Sulo.No matter how good his intentions ...he should have asked Savita ...he always takes decisions and then expects the women around him to follow .
His decisions are for a good cause but they are very impractical .