Archana not being able to speak engish

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I do not think that Darmesh should have insulted Archana because she could not speak english. Instead of insulting her why he did not translate to her. Why could manav not have come to her side and stand to darmesh or her sister? They all just stood there watching on and manav then got upset with Archana that she spoiled their night. Manav should have hit in on the mouth when he insulted his wife. And what is it that Darmesh have to always rub into Manav nose about who own the best car or who has more money. PS: Hey guys am new here and really love the show but sometimes they make the characters act such stupid roles.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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welcome to the forum Molly ...
You are not happy with Manav for telling off Archu about not speaking in English ..There are some more members who feel this way ...
I am also not happy with him for yelling at her for this particular reason but I would love it if he yells at her 10 times more if she gives Soham to Varsha ...
He is not chosing his battles correctly ...
I truly believe that he is a well wisher of Archana but yes, he should have gone a little easy on the way he told her off...that was a bit harsh ...
I also do not like the fact that Archana is not trying to understand that Manav means well for her and has moved on to do better in his life ...
Her asking for the old Manav all the time is unfair and silly ...makes her look insecure of losing him ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome Molly! I didn't like the way Manav spoke to Archana either because she didn't answer Dharmesh back in english. His tone of voice was hurtful and instead of Archana understanding he meant well, she felt he was embarassed of her. I agree with Tanya, Manav needs to choose his battles better. I would've preferred he got this angry with Archana after she let Varsha take Soham instead of getting angry with her about Dharmesh
I do want to see a stronger Archana, she is easily manipulated and humiliated by others and that needs to change. I hated seeing Manav have to endure this in the past and was happy to see that change after the leap, now that needs to happen to Archana. She needs to find her strength
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome to PR Forum molly🤗 Hope you have a rocking time here, I agree Dharmesh did horrible in insulting Archana, he knows himself that Archana can't understand very good English, he did horrible, and why did Vaishali stay quiet, and Aashna did too? No one spoke up for Archana and Archana did not speak up for herself and it let that Dharmesh win😡 But surely I hope ArMan come and both take revenge from Dharmesh and Vaishali better stay quiet, otherwise she will also be counted as Dharmesh's accomplice. Again, welcome to PR Forum (PR stands for Pavitra Rishta Forum)😊 You will have gr8 time over here
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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree with you manav should stand up for her wife archana but i guess now archana should learn english give a answer to that dharmesh.. & in this manav should help her..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey :) welcome to the forum :D
ur not the only one to feel this way...quite a lot of ppl do too & so do i...i think manav should have held his tongue and anger...but i guess his anger was justified..i mean, archana DID learn how to speak eng (she claimed to have studied till 10th rite?) and yet she didnt bother to retaliate..she should have said something.. :( poor manav..sometimes she just gets on my nerves..playing the damsel in distress, the weak little creature that cant do anything..it was ok when she was poor and unpadd, but now? now she has studies, she has the money to be confident then why must she always play the "im so weak, please insult me" game? wonder when she'll learn yaar.. :( archana's character needs to improve like manav's did man..then, then the actual fun will start..with the star couple walking around..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hi and a warm welcome


you know, if manav wanted, he could have REALLY turned the tables on dharmesh that night. by coming to her rescue, showing off achanas talent,maybe HE himself talking with archana in english so she eased up

the one thing that bothers me about it that NOONE stood up for archana! just because someone doesnt speak english doesnt mean they should be looked down upon. i dont remember what country the english people were from, but in america and canada, people dont shove you away just for not speaking english. they really love the vast indian culture.


and i will not say manav is alone in this. here too, i have seen at parties , women who speak fluent english, who are indian show off to people, specially women who dont speak english. what BOTHERS me is that these women actually are embarassed that they dont understand english. from where i am standing, i just want to go and speak french off to thier faces or spanish with my friends and see how they like it.

the people who will have prejiduces will have them regardless of what language spoken.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think the whole thing is silly. Archana was working in Dharmesh's factory as a supervisor or something, handling official documents. She couldn't have done that without knowing some English.

Also, in one episode in the past, she noticed someone in a bank was unable to fill a form, and she helped her(him?) fill the form.

I don't know how parties go in India, but it seems that parties are a forum for guests (and hosts) to insult somebody or the other. Knowing English seems to be equated with class. The host, DK, was watching it, why didn't he or Ashna intervene? Why didn't the foolish Manav intervene? No class.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

welcome to the forum Molly ...

You are not happy with Manav for telling off Archu about not speaking in English ..There are some more members who feel this way ...
I am also not happy with him for yelling at her for this particular reason but I would love it if he yells at her 10 times more if she gives Soham to Varsha ...
He is not chosing his battles correctly ...
I truly believe that he is a well wisher of Archana but yes, he should have gone a little easy on the way he told her off...that was a bit harsh ...
I also do not like the fact that Archana is not trying to understand that Manav means well for her and has moved on to do better in his life ...
Her asking for the old Manav all the time is unfair and silly ...makes her look insecure of losing him ...



I actually think that Archana is insecure of losing him. Remember when she told him that she hopes his job won't be the cause of distance between them. I think she is believeing her fears are coming through now. But i have to agree with some of the suff she said, about her being the cause of his embarrassment and how he never thought that way before. I think she was right.
I think when she was speaking about the old Manav she meant the Manav that spent more time with her than his job.

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