Show Chat : 1st July 2011 - Page 9

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Ok i'm not the only one who didn't appeciate Manav's outburst!😃 Thank God!!😆 I'm sure Usha wont like either. She hates when ppl yell.😆
Ok dont want to b known as a certified Manav basher.😆 I do agree he loves his wife fondly n he meant gud but he was very harsh n i felt bad for this simple woman - Archana. She has been termed stupid, fool, regressive,... but fact is , this is wat made her special in Manav's eyes n they fell in love coz both were a misfit in this cruel n materialistic world.
Agree just like Manav has moved on by learning about life the hard way unfortunately, Archana too shud change for the better. But i still felt bad for her when she said - the Archana u loved has now become ur
embarrassment!
She was sincere when she told Manavthat she cares a damn if others give her importance or not n she defo cares a damn wat others think of her. Only Manav matters to her.
I think she'll change n grow strong soon for Manav first(then for herself) n soon she'll not only b talking English but she'll b walking, eating sleeping English Like Big B😆

@ bold Hi jaanu dear, you are not alone, I found Manav to be a bit harsh but this is all because of Dharmesh, and I hope Manav gets Dharmesh good for what Dharmesh did. Manav was absolutely rught in what he said but maybe he could have said it a bit calmer.

Originally posted by: soul_angel

@soul angel, @bold, just curious to know who is Monisha?😊

Bhalla she was a character in the show called Sarabhai VS Sarabhai 😛

For a second I thought you were talking about Manjusha😆

You know this forum have always been amusing to me in the sense that in other forums I always see fights between two couples fans like A couple fan VS B couple fan but in this forum whenever I see an arguement its always between Manav and Archana like Manav fans VS Archana fans 😆 not that severe arguements though which I see in another forums..they toh go ballistic in abusing eachothers families after their favorite couple 🤣

Originally posted by: bhallarox

Tanya Di, do you think Archana or Manav was right today?

They were both right and both wrong ..

Originally posted by: soul_angel

You know this forum have always been amusing to me in the sense that in other forums I always see fights between two couples fans like A couple fan VS B couple fan but in this forum whenever I see an arguement its always between Manav and Archana like Manav fans VS Archana fans 😆 not that severe arguements though which I see in another forums..they toh go ballistic in abusing eachothers families after their favorite couple 🤣

Its been a while since I have been on this forum and I am yet to meet a complete ArMan fan 😆 and its amusing to me cause you guys argue like Husband and Wife but still always stay together 🤣🤣🤣

I hope you all stay like this..like a Happily married and bantering couple 🤗🤣

Very sweet of you soulangel, yes this forum usually has some people on Manav's side or on Archana's side, I typically am on Manav's side but it obviously depends on the situation, today I thought Manav was right in telling off Archana but maybe he should not have raised his voice that much on her, but a lecture was long over due to Archana for letting Varsha have her baby.

Thanks very much for the wishes soulangel😊

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

They were both right and both wrong ..

Archana was wrong in not getting effected that much by what Dharmesh said .She was crying and that is a lot .Someone makes yo ucry and yo ucome out and say ' it makes no difference to me ' .How is that ??

This low self esteem is now getting seriously wrong for Archana ...It will soon make her give up her child to her spoilt little sister as she probably feels that the baby is not happy with her ..

But she was very right in telling manav that he is hurting her by telling hwer that she is the cause of his embarassment ..She had every right to get hurt by Manav's words ...She doesn't know English ,At that time she was trying to put in the words and she did explain to Manav that she was not confident ..I think she was very honest to him ...

And he stayed angry ...even next morning ..

Didn't even look at Soham or ask about how he is coping in his new environment .Surely whatever problem Manav has cannot be bigger than the problme that little Soham is facing ...

She is wrong in misunderstanding him ...He has changed but for the better and now she too should change ..Hiding inside the kitchen will have to stop ...

OK, today he was very angry and was yelling but other wise he is the same sweet loving Manav ...He loves her so much ..How can she say ' you have changed ' ...🤔

Manav was wrong that he got so angry and shouted at Archana for not knowing English ..It made her feel so small ...

Whatever his intentions , his words were very very hurtful ...

Archan loves him so much .If he tells her , get yoruself in an english class ...of course she will do exactly what he wants ...

If he wanst ot see a confident Archana then he must not do what he did today ...it will take away whatever confidence she has ...He has to tackle this simple issue in a nicer and more understanding manner ...

he relates much better to Ashna than he does to Archan these days ...

He is making the same mistake that Ashna is ..Ashnais not telling DK nicely what she wants ..Manav is not telling Archana nicely what he wants ...

Both DK and Archana are very nice people ;they will listen to their partners ...

Maybe DK and Archana should start getting together and discussing the problems of each other's marital life just as Manav and Ashna seems to be doing so every other day ...😆😆

Ashna has become a full time marriage councelor to Manav ...

Great points Di, at first I thought Manav was completely right but your points were so good that they actually changed my thinking.😛

Archana and DK are nowhere near close as much as Manav and Ashna are to each other. And like you said, Manav is relatign these days way more to Ashna then Archana, could this lead to Manav falling in love with Ashna and start slowly drifting away from Archana? This has not started yet, Manav just spends less time with Archana because he is busy and is at work, he is changing for the better.

As Jaanu Di correctly said, Archana should not keep putting in Manav's head, you are not the old Manav anymore, you have changed, she is trying to make Manav think that he is wrong by changing. It looks like Archana does not like the new Manav, Manav may have been a bit aggressive today, but Archana should have spoke up to Dharmesh if she did not understand English, Manav was right in saying why did you let Dharmesh win.

You know the only reason Archana and Manav are distancing is because of Dharmesh's harkat yesterday? This is what Dharmesh wants, Archana and Manav to distance, and he may want Archana to stop having trust on Manav, and he will try to punish manav for what he did to him? I don't even know if Dharmesh would approve of the way Manav was talking to Archana.

Archana manages the affairs of the house well . She is a typical middleclass housewife educated in the local language.

Originally posted by: GManda72

Archana manages the affairs of the house well . She is a typical middleclass housewife educated in the local language.

She may be confident and efficient in managing her home affairs but attending a high profile party where you are the center of all eyes can be unnerving especially for a simple girl like her. With her limited exposure, to expect her to suddenly turn mod is extremely unreasonable on Manav's part. To blame her for spoiling his day is worse.

Yes probably she needs to change now but she has to be told that in a better way. It will take time.

To blame her solely for the baby affair is also unfair. If manav felt so strongly he could have nipped it in the bud!

I only hope Archana remains a sweet and simple person. I like her that way!

Totally agree!!👍🏼

I loved savita in the precap😆, Usha ji acts so well😛 her english🤣 Too good😆