Show Chat : 1st July 2011 - Page 12

Created

Last reply

Replies

338

Views

20k

Users

26

Likes

867

Frequent Posters

bhallarox thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
@manavarchanafan

Sorry if I offended you, even I don't want ArMan separate, but I'm sorry if my prediction offended you.😊
bhallarox thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mijanur

today sushant again showes why he is one of the best actor in tv industry.the way he showes manav's emotion,pain,frustation.its awsome.i am sure this year also he will win ita & maximum tv awards.
in today's show manav showes his emotion,pain from past.manav becomes strong.he is not the old manav who bears insult silently & cries for his helplessness.like him he also wants archana to become stronger.he can't accept the fact that archana bears the insult & don't replied them back.i think the fact archana bears insult silently hurt her more than she don't speak in english.but i agree the fact that manav was little harsh on archana.he should also consider archana's situation.archana always keep her busy in house.she is still very emotional.she needs time & manav's support to become more confident & practical.i am happy that at the end of the day manav realise his mistake.
archana is also fail to understand what manav's pov.manav wants to see a strong,confident archana.manav wants to see the archana who does not bears the insult silently.manav wants to see the archana who will replied strongly when some on put a finger at her.
varsha the drama quean continues her drama today also.satish pleas take your wife to a doctor before its too late.
at last i want to say the last scene of friday's episode showes us again what archana mean for manav.the new manav can't show his love for archana due to his work load.but the new manav's ocean of love for archana is not reduced but it increase hugely.it showes manav wants to give archana every happiness.he gives his every property to her.he does not keep anything for him.because for him its archana who means the world for him.no success of manav can't satisfy manav untill archana also feel the benifte of his success.no praise of manav can't satisfy manav untill he see archana also praise by people.no happiness can't touch him untill he see the happiness in archana's face.because manav is a part of a single soule which other part belongs to archana.because manav is a name which sounds imcomplete without archana.because at the end of the day they are our beloved arman.



Completely agree mijanur, could not have been said better😊
Tanyaz thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mijanur

archana is also fail to understand what manav's pov.manav wants to see a strong,confident archana.manav wants to see the archana who does not bears the insult silently.manav wants to see the archana who will replied strongly when some on put a finger at her.
.

Mijanur , I agree with you that instead of complaining that he has changed , Archana has to try and understand Manav .She must try and change herself and become the way he wants her to be ..It is for her own good ...
And please please , don't give your baby away to Varsha ...😡
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz



Mijanur , I agree with you that instead of complaining that he has changed , Archana has to try and understand Manav .She must try and change herself and become the way he wants her to be ..It is for her own good ...


And please please , don't give your baby away to Varsha ...😡

tanya di i also wish that this time archana won't give soham to varsha.varsha allready takes enough advantage of the goodness of archana.i think this time archana should think about her own happiness.she has allready made enough sacrifices.so i think this is the high time for archana to become more confident,practical.
Thanee thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
Hi Girls..

What I see yesterday..a man who love his wife with all his heart...is crying with anger..cause his wife has been insulted...it not just cause she didn't speak English..but here his wife has not said anything ..He was happy to see his wife very happy...he is proud of her ..he want her to become strong...to stand up for herself...He didn't bear to see his wife been insulted..yes..he could do something..but..unfortunately..he didn't support her that time...He take out all his anger for Darmesh on her (a bit too for his Ego) but not that much...Yes He was rude but I don't think its to hurt her. deliberately...This anger is instinctive ..
We all in a moment of our life..had been wrong with someone...mean even hurt..just cause we love him or her..

I understand Manv here.and .he admit he was wrong..and that is good...👍🏼

Just one thing yes..Archu didn't speak English...that doesn't mean that Her mouth must be shut...and accept what Darmesh is saying...in a past year..Archan in a big party( High Society)..had talk for his Saas...
Why here he let Darmesh talk to her like this...yes perhaps she thought she won't make tamasha here..but eveyone had seen what happen...so if you deffend yourselves its for you...and nobody will think you are..wrong here..

They can't always bend before bad people...Archu must understand that...We must always fight for our rights..Manv has understand..that..and want Archu.to change..not to be always weak..in front of those people..

I like what he said..out there is a world...and I want you to know what happen out...so that you can teach our children...He was absolutely.right here..
He know Archu is intelligent...is educated...he know that.That why...he want Archu to do things out..from the 4 walls of their house...
I said yes...I like him...I like this Manv..he want to move ...he want his wife to understand and..make effort..4 yrs past and Archu is waiting his old Manv...Yes..this old manv...has made this new Manv...but...new Manv can't become old Manv...cause there are so many nightmare in the past..

Many things had change in his mind...but he will never forget his past...that why he want to move on for a better futur...for that he must have his wife with him...Manv has shaked Archu..I hope he has open her eyes...and we will see a change in Archu

Archu..must stop telling him.."App jesseh nehi teh"...how many time he must hear that..you was not like this???Stop Archu...come on open your eyes...if you said to Manv what happen..is nothing..so why you cry..in front of many people??? No Archu..this hurt you ..but you didn't open you mouth to shut up Darmesh...Be strong..and be more confident...go out and see the world is not good as you think...!!!!!!

When ???Savita will see..that All those women specially Rasika and Manju are using her...Manju among them...she will creat prob once more..let see..Don't like Savita..among those women...👎🏼

Precap my god..I like that..."you no pull me..😆me no coming..Archana yes coming..."🤣 So wonderfully said..Savita I like you...🤗
Don't know why excactly Aachna want Manv to excuse him in front of so many people...I think it because he didn't do anything that moment to support her.in front of so many people.instead he went away..😕
All his policy ..Archu name.."if that is not love tell me what its that???

Let see monday...I think it will be interesting...😊
bye..

Edited by Thanee - 14 years ago
LovePRSoham thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
I am really really upset with Manav... I never expected he would do this... I thought I will wait and go through everyone's pov so that I can change my view... But I am really sorry guys I cant... I am not able to justify Manav's anger...
So according to New Manav old Manav is dead and will never return as he was a failure... He could not save his child and satisfy his wife... OK fine I agree with this... So he wanted to make money to secure his wife and children's future.. Again agree... He said he was happy to see Archana happy... So he wants his wife to be happy and he is really working hard...
But if I see at New Manav, did he do what he is claiming???? According to me a big NO...
He let his son Soham grow with Varsha who was resposible for his baby's death indirectly.. Where was his anger then??? Why did he not stop Archu then??? Why did he not get Soham back?? Does he not love Soham?? Was he so busy that he did not get time to go and get his son... Ok lets say his love for his wife Archana stopped him from doing this... Fine I am happy he loves Archana... Now where was that love yesterday???? His wife was hurt as she was insulted in front of so many people... What did he do?? Did he support his wife?? Did he go and smash that guy who insulted?? NO... He saw problems with his own wife... Infact he kept on asking why did she not speak in English?? I would have been happy if he had asked why was she standing silently instead of giving him back... No he wanted to know why she did not speak English... Did he ever see Archana speaking English?? Then how can he expect her to do?? Where is the understanding now??? She did say she is hurt by this... What did he do?? He was still angry on her... Archana said her old Manav was never like this... Was is it so wrong?? She begged him to get the old Manav as she was happy with her old lifestyle... So Archana is somewhere not happy with her life now...
So Manav failed to keep Archana happy and also his child Soham... Then what is he doing and why is he doing?? He is just boasting that he wants his wife to be happy and get rich for his children... He could neither support his wife when she was hurt nor could take care of his child..
So for me New Manav failed once again...
His anger was so much that he did not speak to his wife, mom and also his cute son Soham.. also next morning his wife prepared breakfast and he did not even eat... Aashna had to make him realise his mistake.. Until then he was not shown as guilty even for one second...
I am sorry if I hurt anyone this is my feelings.. I really fet bad to see Archana getting insulted by both Dharmesh and her husband Manav... I think I will take a long time to forgive this New Manav
bhallarox thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
Hi Rachna Di, feel free to be angry with Manav for what he said to Archana, although I think Archana was wrong too, you made some great points.

In Manav's defense

1. He was right in telling Archana that why did she let Dharmesh win like this?

2. Archana should stop telling MAnav that he was never like this before.

In Archana's defense

1. She was being put on the spot, and it may have been hard for her to speak English in front of everyone.

2. She will definitely be hurt after her sister's husband insulted her and after that her own husband insulted her.

I decided to give 2 points in each of their defense, and I hope both ArMan clear out their differences so they can be a happy couple again.

I am not trying to change your POV at all Rachna Di, in fact I actually like hearing different POVs.😊
Edited by bhallarox - 14 years ago
LovePRSoham thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bhallarox

Hi Rachna Di, feel free to be angry with Manav for what he said to Archana, although I think Archana was wrong too, you made some great points.

In Manav's defense

1. He was right in telling Archana that why did she let Dharmesh win like this?

Bhalla I agree.. He just wanted Archana to give back to Dharmesh and not stand getting insulted... Did he say that properly?? No he said why she did not speak to Dharmesh and others in English.. He was wrong there.. Also his words his tone everything was wrong..

2. Archana should stop telling MAnav that he was never like this before.
Yesterday Archana did not tell this just like that Bhalla... Manav knew she is from Marathi medium and he was trying to compare her with Vaishu.. That is when Archana felt bad as her Old Manav would have never said all this to her... So she said he was not like this before...

In Archana's defense

1. She was being put on the spot, and it may have been hard for her to speak English in front of everyone.

2. She will definitely be hurt after her sister's husband insulted her and after that her own husband insulted her.

I decided to give 2 points in each of their defense, and I hope both ArMan clear out their differences so they can be a happy couple again.

I am not trying to change your POV at all Rachna Di, in fact I actually like hearing different POVs.😊
Bhalla many times even I have changed my opionion after reading everyone's pov.. But I am not able to do this as Manav was wrong.. Archana was not wrong at all..

Manav changed as he went through the hell that night and started hating his relatives as they did not help him.. He was also angry at himself as he had failed to save his baby... He got support from DK and Aashna.. It was easy for him... But what about Archana.. She is still there and it is not easy for some people to change that easily... If she is taking time to change I dont think it is a mistake...


bhallarox thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
Yes Rachna Di, Manav did go a bit too far, there was absolutely no need to compare his wife and Vaishu, he knows Archana went to a Marathi school and Vaishu went to a more English school, that was a little mean of him.
LovePRSoham thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bhallarox

Yes Rachna Di, Manav did go a bit too far, there was absolutely no need to compare his wife and Vaishu, he knows Archana went to a Marathi school and Vaishu went to a more English school, that was a little mean of him.

Bhalla I think it was not little but he was just too much.. 😛 He was very very insensitive...
If he was hurt so badly (more than Archana) as his Archana got insulted then he could have come out and hugged (if he did not knew how to deal with Dharmesh) her.. She would have felt better too.. I would have appreciated more if he had made her realise how important it is to stand for one's own.. That would have imcreased her morale..
He should have made Archana speak to everyone including Dharmesh in the coming party (Aashan and DK's wedding anniversary)...That would have been a slap on the Dharmesh face...
I think Manav knows Archana better than herself 😆.. She kept on saying she could not speak English as she is not fluent and he was still asking her why she did not...
Edited by LovePRSoham - 14 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".