This leap makes no sense!!!!!

What in the world is Ekta thinking?

Manav and Archana who were a special couple now seem like ordinary people who fight everyday.
Its more of Archana's fault than Manav's fault. I understand that Manav is not giving her time, but aren't there husbands who are not with their wives because of their work? Plus, the way she said, "Aapko yaad tha ai ka janamdin?" Give the guy a break. I just feel that Archana is overreacting.

Plus, why in the world is Soham with Varsha? How can Manav give away Soham to Varsha considering the fact that she is the one who he helds responsible for his child's death? This makes no sense. Plus, it seems like she is not even grateful to Manav and Archana. In fact, she doesn't even want Archana to meet Soham. Can she really be called a mother? A word she is dying to hear, but doesn't even understand the meaning of it.

Also, what was the point of the whole melodrama b/w Dharmesh and Vaishali (first marriage, then finding out he is married, then divorce, and Dharmesh wanting to take revenge). All of sudden he has changed and Vaishali is with him again. Why?

The only good thing that has happened is Dharmesh working for Manav and calling him, "Sir." I can't wait till Monday's episode. He deserved it. But I still feel Varsha, Manjusha, and her mother need to be punished.

Oh yeah, one more thing, "If Manav is so rich now, why is he still living in the chawl?" Can he not afford a nice house or is Ekta saving money by reducing the budget?

Agree completely especially about Manav and Archana. Even I thought Archana overreacted. She needs to be more understanding and patient! And come what may he did take the time our and visited his MIL on her B'Day!!! His attitude and values have not changed, Archana's has. He has been very patient with her and yes I agree keeping her starving on that special day was not right but Archana and her accusing nature got on my nerves. She has become a typical nagging housewife. Won't blame Manav for drifting away from her - excuse me for saying so, LOL.

just bcoz ur wife is loving u a lot ... constantly after u ... it doesnt give any husband the right to drift away under the name of space

To some extent being demanding is OK whether it be a wife or husband - but in my opinion Archana is overdoing it and has overreacted and basically has lost any desire to understand.

I do not think that Archana is wrong in feeling neglected. If a husband is busy with his work it is allright. But if it means not giving even a small amount of time to his wife, then it is natural that she feels bad.

exactly !!!!

Originally posted by: ptecvish

I do not think that Archana is wrong in feeling neglected. If a husband is busy with his work it is allright. But if it means not giving even a small amount of time to his wife, then it is natural that she feels bad.

Expecting the wife to understand all the time and tolerate her husband's absences everytime is not practical. What about her need to feel wanted? She is human after all. Does she not have a right to feel bad at least? Especially when they have been so close once.

If the wife is expected to understand the husband's needs , a husband can also acknowledge her needs to say the least!

My POV!

Haha, I like how you all can relate to all this. Be it from Manav's point of view, or Archana. You all can see yourselves in their shoes.. Its soo interesting to see different forms of personalities.. haha.. which becomes the definition of the person's values and morals, or at least how they see them. lol. Well i personally feel, Archu seemed to have lived through with this, for the past 4 years, continuously. Since they didn't show us what happened, we are just judging things based on what we are seeing now. Maybe Archu bared through this all, all of these 4 years, and now she is bursting out. At times, when we have expectations in life, like, we imagine things to be a certain way, and it doesnt live up to our expectations, we get mad or frustrated and impatient.

Archana doesn't mean to push Manav in the wrong way, but as a wife, she does have her hopes and dreams which she wishes to share with her husband. Her happiness lies with him, her day starts with him and ends with him. All this money, like she said, what is the point of having all this money, for their happiness, when she doesnt even have or get a chance to share it with her one and only love. you see?

She may come across as 'nagging' but its is in her nagging that you see her love for him. She wants him to see a point.

He has gone through tremendous trauma, and making money has become his passion, almost his obsession, as he feels only with money he can solve all his world's problems. Losing his baby was the biggest trigger, and he feels with the help of money, he can give his wife all the happiness in the world. Though he may still feel the same way about her and about everything, one thing he is missing out on is, where is this money going to take them? how far? can he bring back the past? Can he bring back the time he missed spending with his wife? can he bring back his lost child? He is thinking about the future, true, but at the cost of what? His present?

To Archana, every min. spent away from his love, is a year's worth of wait. Manav should learn to be happy with the money he already has and is making, as if he doesnt learn to feel grateful, then every amt he makes, hereafter would seem small to him, and he would keep thinking to make more and more and more.. and it is going to be neverending... sighh..