what a way to celebrate the second birthday of PR ...😭
All day I was feeling so bad about the little baby as if the baby was real ...
Anyway ...now the Blame Game
Here are my views...
As you all know , I have been very angry at Archana for three main reasons ...lifting heavy buckets , always saying ' I will love Sachu more than my own child ' and for just standing there when Savita was throwing the medicines ...
However I was waiting for the doctor to say what was the main reason for the medical complication that needed surgery ... Not once did any doctor said that Archana over did the house work and did not take it easy ...If that was the given reason then I would have blamed Archana ...
The house work she was doing ( beside the stupid and wrong act of lifting heavy buckets and picking Sachu ) did not look that much to me ...In both my pregnancies , I was doing 10 times more house work ...
It has been shown very poorly as to why she had a complication ...They neevr gave a reason for savita getting sick and we have been not given the reason for Archu's baby needing a surgery so early i nthe pregnancy ...
There was not mentioned even once that Archu did not take medicines properly so even Savita cannot be blamed ( however foolish her act of throwing medicines prescribed by the doctor ) .Obviously her gharelu nuskhas did no harm to the baby ...
Now the only reason given seems to be , lack of finances for which the operaton was halted for such a long time that the baby died ...
this is indeed a very very unfortunate situation that a baby died because his parents could not come up with money to save his life ...
over here I will not blame daddy Manav only ...the mother too has to be blamed ..because everytime Manav foolishly gave money for wrong reasons or didn't ask for it back ...Archana encouraged him and called him a devta ..A good wife should not just put maska on her husband all the time , she should tell him to be sensible about money ...OK , he helped his in laws but the way his wife's medical condition was , he should have asked Satish and Varsha to pay him that money back ...
Archana should have advised him ...
More than that I will not blame anyone ...
the people who made the mistake are the ones who have been punished ...
Archana lost her baby and she almost died , went through so much pain and now will have to face a life without Manav ...this has almost destroyed her marriage and her life ...
Manav ..this character has been punished the worst , even though he was the one who was waiting for the baby the most , even more than Archana ..I always get worried when Manav goes on a guilt trip ...his guilt trips are very very dangerous ...and today he went on the worst guilt trip of his life ...
This guilt trip is so bad that he doesn't even thinks of being worthy to see Archana in the eye ...he doesn't feels worthy to be called a man ...he just feels like a complete failure and is doing something that he never did before ...running away ...He is just not himself anymore ...
So even though somewhere I do blame Manav and Archana for not being sensible about money and more interested in being mahaan than being sensible and practical...my heart goes out to them as they are the ones who will be punished and who will go through unbearable sufferings ...
I hope these characters will come out of it in the end and will learn something sensible ...otherwise what is the pint of showing all this misery if they still continue to be be stupidly Mahaan ...
I am particulary worried about Manav .
Archu was never shown to be bonding that much with the baby , which is natural...sometimes a parent takes more time to bond with their baby , I think she will quickly divert her energies in Sachu ...and try to find her child in him ..( I will not like that as I think her baby should have it's own special place ...
I think her main suffering will come from losing Manav and worrying where he has gone ...she will go insane thinking about him ...
The person to worry about is Manav .If he has a memory loss then he wil lbe lucky because he can escape these painful memories ...but if he doesn't have a memeory loss ( I hope he doesn't ) then I think we will see a very different Manav ..This is the worst thing that has happened to him ...His confidence shattered , his self respect destroyed , he has lost his love ( because he cannot even see her in the eye now because of guilt ) and he has lost his most cherished dream ...his baby ...
It's not just him losing his baby ...it's the way he lost it ...
Those 4 murdered him today ...specially Dharmesh whose words will keep haunting him forever , for a long long time ...Manav lost everything today ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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