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Posted: 14 years ago
#21
Thank God Dharmesh is coming back. At least this Savita and her illness will give us some space. This track is leading to nowhere
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Just read the written update and I was shocked with it. Felt like crying on reading about Savita Aai. I have never felt so angry on Archu ever before, especially when she said I won't let you sleep when Savita so politely asked that I beg you, let me sleep, and Archu pulled Savita's blanket and Savita slept on the floor instead. Still Madam Archu didn't understand and says whatever I'm doing is for your own good. Oh yeah!!! Self-opiniated to the core!!! Archu can never accept that she can also be wrong at times. Huh!

At this rate, I'm going to start disliking her as badly as I dislike Damo right now. CV's please improve this stupid track!!!!

Someone please send Archu to her maika! Let Manav handle the situation!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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^^ amen to nikita's post.. i have been feeling the same anger at archu for sometime now and today she just took the cake. she was soo annoying in the way she was trying to rile savita and the poor woman was just broken. she couldnt meet archu's eyes..

usha nadkarni's acting was just amazing!

manav needs to stop hiding behind the women in his life and step it up, take care of his mom and family.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know one thing for sure , for Archana's character ,I want her to stay in the background now for some time .It is Manav who created this mess by first spoiling his mother so much and then by being so strict with her all of a sudden ....

So let him clean it .She should not try and help him because if she does it then even if her intentions are good , she is disliked ....
just stay in the background , wear pretty sarees and look awesome .....
Let Manav clean this mess....and how about Vandita also think about her mother for a change .....
But I doubt if the creatives wil llet this happen ..This show is definitely showing Archana more than any other character and I hope this stops ..Manav too should be given some responsibilities...not just for creating problems but also for solving them ....
I loved the romantic scene between Manav and Archana today .They both looked so good .No bollywood actor can come near them in terms of chemiistry ....
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Today Archana being stubborn with Savita was because Savita was hurting herself by just eating roti and achaar ...
Damodar also came and he asked her and then left her alone indifferently ..Archana did not leave her alone .She wanted Savita to eat well....
I did not find it wrong the way she was getting frustrated , in fact she even told Savita to slap her if she wants ( as like a mother ) ..
Wha t was wrong was what she did in the kitchen the other day ..that was wrong approach and also the way she went in the wash room..
But today she was fighting with her as a daughter would with her mother .
The problem is that Archu still thinks of her as her mother but savita doesn't think of her as anyone to her ....
Archana is not like Manav , Vandita and damodar ...they are not looking that bothered about this lady ..Out of all her family members the person most worried seems to be Archana ...
Manv cries ...but that's all he does ,cries ....
And this is something that Archu is realizing now that Savita is not even showing hate .......Archana told her mother today that she is giving up as she just doesn't know what to do ....
I did not find her wrong today ...I guess she is wrong in stil lcaring about savita .She should leave savita alone ..Let her son handle this situation ....
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Exactly my thoughts Tanya Di. Archana's intention are very good to cure Savita but her methods of curing her is not suitable in the present situation. Infact the more Archu is getting involved with her the more her conditions is getting worse. Archu does not realise that her method has failed , probably because nobody in the house is realizing the seriousness of the situation and she thinks what she is doing is right.

The problem here is Manav. He should take the situation in his hand and stop crying on Archu's shoulder all the time. All his crying is making Archu come up with some crazy ideas and getting blamed for it . For God sake deal with your mother and make her understand that you love her without involving your wife. You know your mother better than your wife.
The scene between Archu & Savita of standing in between and pulling the bed sheet was a very kiddish one ( not a mean one ) or rather a foolish one as a DIL , my daughter does that to get my attention when i try to ignore her when I'm angry . Here what she wanted was Savita to react in the bargain forgot that Savita is her MIL to agree to her and infact went and slept on the floor.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hmmm... today's episode is on the fence for me...

I liked varsha's conversation with bhavna. she was right in many of the things sh e said. she is on the path of redemption and this trauma in her life has connected her with many emotions she didnt have before. i am seeing varsha softening yet upholding her ideals and her integrity. i want her to adopt one of the kids from the ashram and live a life of happiness... women like varsha are many and these people tend to make big differences in many kids life by giving love and happiness. 👍🏼

i also liked archu's quick thinking in offering to stay.. it diffused the tense situation and pacified savita. she really didnt want to let manav go and was trying to rile him.. in a long time, archu did something good from my pov.

BUT; my problem comes from
1) manav NOT coming up with that idea. he was getting angry at the guests and his mother rather than having a calm head. now, this too looks like manav siding with archana rather than doing "something or anything" to stay with his aai!

2) damodar. he had NO RIGHT or REASON to be angry for his kids. this is strictly between manav ( who is paying) and savita. i dont understand anything this man does or says. i am baffled, annoyed and stupifed at his "anger" W*F is he talking about???
if he is going to pay, because he kids are paying to live, then he owes a LOT OF MONEY. 25-30 YEARS OF MONEY. i thought it was nice of savita not to ask him that.

what I see:

savita being indifferent to manav; which is not good. and by the precap, i see archu upto her old tricks. Savita is mentally sick. she is and WILL be unpredictable.
savita is indifferent to archu, so archu shouldnt petulantly try to irritate savita. let manav shower ALL his LOVE and ATTENTION on her. thats what savita wants.
the more manav hides behind archana and lets her do his dirty work, the more savita goes into depression.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Neither the characters nor the CVs will ever learn. Archana is still trying to "cure" Savita by provoking her, Manav is still doing nothing and useless Damodar is going to fight with wife for his son and DIL. Why can't this guy see his wife's side for once in his life? Such a faltu character--I'm getting furious just thinking about him. Savita should tell him that what he's giving her is not enough, and ask him to come up with the full amount or shut his mouth and butt out of her business. Manav and Archana have each other, why does this guy care so much for them and not for his wife who has been by his side, complaining or not, for all these years? And this Archana, this lady will never learn will she? She had a good idea of paying rent and helping MIL, very good. But whats she doing grabbing stuff from savita in precap, Idk. Savita may be a brash, bitter woman but she clearly cares for her family that doesn't reciprocate. Archana is not at fault here, but she should stop making Savita's condition worse ASAP.

Coming to Varsha, seems like she's really interested in being a mother. That's awesome, but it'll take some time for her to re-establish trust again. I'm still not convinced it's not a fad for her---craving for the one thing she can't have. And I'm afraid that once she has it, a child, she will not value him/her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#29
OMG what can we do about this damodar😡😡 like seriously don't get his "sabak sikana padega" dialogue i mean what sabak??? doesn't he know that savita is sick or has he gone down the MEMORY LOSS lane too. i must say he is the WORST husband to have! i mean all he does is put his wife down and constantly YELL at her. now i know where MANAV got his BRAIN from.😳

i just LOVED savita today. 👍🏼the way she said the 100 rupees dialogue, it just made me smile. good that she didn't fight with the USELESS husband. i mean why waste time talking to a DUMB person. so KUDOS to savita for not wasting time talking👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i have been thinking for some time What has Damo done in his pathetic life so far apart from Chanting mantras of his holy Bahu.Its good to see him support him Bahu but where are his moral responsibilities towards his wife..What has he done for her..Its coz of him Savita is like this...He has never fulfilled her desire nor cared to ,it was Savita who raised her 3 children all on her own..Any women would have desire this guy never cared or bothered to fulfill any of her desires..Its coz of this drunkard Manav could not study and had to work from young age to support his family...Has this thought ever occured to Damo..He keeps blaming Savita..IF not for Savita he would have been thrown out long time back n none of their children would have been raised properly.....CV's have shown Damo character to be someone who just does nothing n keeps blaming his wife for everything without giving a damn about her n blindly keep supporting his holy Bahu n keep degrading Savita in front of her and keep chanting the holy Archu mantra....Manav can do that coz Archu is his wife but Damo he is such a disgrace..CV's have totally degraded him as they have degraded Manav..
In short all Damo has done is contribute nothing for family welfare,keep blaming Savita degrade her n chant his holy Bahu name all the time..Quite amazing husband n father..A great example for people how not to be...A 👎🏼 for the guy..Sorry cant feel any positive vibes for this guy..A man who no respect for his wife,does not care about his family welfare,did not even bother how his children were raised n keeps degrading his wife even in her sick condition n did not care to fulfill any of his wife's desire ,sorry has no respect from my side...

PS : At this rate all I see is that Archu with this pathetic approach n Manav being as hapless and quiet(quiet amazing of Manav asking his wife to do his job for him,at least cant he even do this on his own for his mom ,Manav brilliant ) something is either going to happen Savita or some big props might come for which once again Archu is going to be blamed badly n this gives chance for Jaywant to make an entry n makes things worse n I wont be surprised again if Manav being an emotional fool would once again be angry with Archu..I cant see any positivity by Archu aproach...If they show Archu curing Savita then I am sorry all real doctors who spend 5 years doing MBBS would be embrassed seeing this n the viewers would be too...Someone tell these CV's to at least show some doctor let it be Archu idea but please show a doctor here for a change...

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