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Thanee

@Thanee

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Posted: 14 years ago

#81

HI .......

I read a bit your comments..on Savita I join your opinion...I'm totally agree

with you...but...I will say that Savita can be "when she want "Cruel ,Ziddy, Stubborn, whatever we can call her in negative way.But also she can have a good heart also...when she want...

For a few minutes..think about these few months Archana passed at D's House...It was very very difficult at first..but slowly...Archana gain her love.For ex Varsha mariage...what she do...She gave Archana Saree...Haar...for that mariage....This famous Haar which Damodar offer her, she sold this haar to buy a gift for Varsha...Someone else will tell ..we don't have money..so we all stayed at home...No she insist to sold it..

And before the divorce..how she take care about her.."Choti Choti Bate" But they were happy.How she want the divorce not happened..its was very hard for her also . I'll never forget when Divorce happened he told Manav in the Kitchen " Mera Archu waspas kardo"....What to say when hearing that....and when Also when archu asked her to..treat Shravni as she treat her like a bahu...in this house..she said Archu..Yes she will be a beti but not a bahu Nobody will replace you...I till remember that...correct me if she did not said that...but i'm sure she did once.

We have several small good moments where we saw she is not totally bad..lastly..recently when she talked with Jay mother..She tell her

"I'm Jealous You got a Lutchmee"that prove that somewhere, deep from her heart, she love Archana very much.

But now what happen...bad moments came over good moments...

but don't worry...she will realise...her mistake...I think we will have this good Savita we lost ....She must make big effort..otherwise ..She will really lost Manav and her Lutchmee...

I will end by...Parents also must respect their children....so that children can do the same...especially Mothers.....cause almost all children are close to their Mother than their father ..Mother must give good Example...

Savita is bad but not so bad like we see..We can't blame her totally.All those circumtances added together make a Bad Savita..Be patient this mother will open his heart for Archu...and accept her with a big🤗...Hope I'm not dreaming..😆

Don't throw me tomatoes..please...I really think before I write this..😆

Bye

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: HardyBoy

Hardy Boy ...

I am one of those who is currently very put off with savita ..

However I have always said and will say even now that manav should contribute and take care of parents financially and I think he will as I think he told his father on the phone in Friday's episode ...

hardy Boy ...what savita is asking for ' leave your wife and then come and live with me ' , how justified is that ...

Manav has tried twice to coem but she wants him to come alone and leave his wife .She even said that to Vandita .

And what about the kind of abusive language she uses for Archan ...even tried to physically hurt her ....do you think Archanan shoudl go and live in a house where this is the way she will be treated ....for now ..Of course eventually I would like Savita to realize her mistake ...but for now how can Archana go and live there ....

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#83

I agree with Thanee.. savita did show us her good side also once .

Let's hope we see that side again ...

let's hope that she will think about what vandita was tryign to tell her and hopefully we will start seeing some reconsiliation process between mother and son .....

I am however very firm that Archana should only livewith her when she has cooled down a lot .....

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

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Posted: 14 years ago

#84

Hi TannuDi ! Wow ! sotd is looking different today😆am in Boston since yday,my friend's sister delivered a baby and we came visiting.Baby seems normal🤔,drinking milk and shitting,drinking milk and shitting,vicious cycle😲😆

Ok,back to PR🤢Let me say kudos to the ones who are NOT a party pooper👍🏼-

Manav da bacha for being a gracious host ,😉

Archu da bachi for making the terms of entry and behavior clear to Varsha,making halwa to cheer up her lil sis and giving it to her hubby but as usual not eating herself😆,

sulo for simply being there to be happy for everybody and not being the eternal worrisome bothersome usual self,

Varsha for behaving herself very very surprisingly and not pottering her ego for once,😲

vaishu for not bothering the jovial party with her problems,and keeping a straight face in such difficult times,she is carrying herself in good dignity u know😭

ArMan are doing precisely wat they should be doing -

help their relatives when they are in need,😳

when their friends/relatives lower their ego and enter their home,they are gracious hosts to one and all even if they choose to be ungracious guests,except of course for those who threaten peace,😡

those who come to put their nose in the air,they let them go to scratch themselves thin😆

they are staying away from visiting anybody unless specifically invited - as its best to avoid negativism... for those around them have NOT been gracious to say the least,and most disrespectful at the worst -

its a way to adjust but not to compromise their own selves,just be as they are.⭐️

It is best that ArMan do not fan egoes anymore - Let the Ks and Ds come to them at equal terms...at least sulo,vaishu and varshu have understood they were being disrespectful...that acknowledgement is important I say😳

And uff to the party pooper- da me,myself,my ego,the full of herself,stepmotherly savita👎🏼 she did not even step in but made sure she tortures Manav's soul once more😆his wife is a part of his soul,one's soulmate is only one's spouse,it is divinely ordained.So she ensures she tortures his soul with her ego as usual.😡

Good ArMan did not run behind her right there,she wud have done bigger tamashabest not to fan such egoes any further...Let Manav go and give her an explanation later,it was her misunderstanding that he had invited the Ks and not her,despite telling his father first - she will extract her pound of flesh from him as usual🥱which is exactly wat I dislike about her the most-

how can he respect her when she disrepespects him so much yaar,she will only generate disdain from him now with her ego- love happens naturally but respect needs to be earned you know,it comes only on mutual terms😳

To me,when one does the same thing repeatedly,it becomes a habit and eventually habit becomes character 😲savita has created a deadlock,she has to come out of the box,coz she has repeatedly hurts everyone else when they tried to be in her box😳her intention that her happiness should be even at the expense of her son's happiness, should be a matter of great worry about her base firtrath I say😕

Last time too,she came and insulted them when ArMan were offering her tea.If you have nothing good to say,then why come at all😕I mean,at least don't talk crap😕wat sanskaar she talks about kids yaar,when she has absolutely none😕

Sulo and Savita - both are hypocrites in equal ways - they both fawn on either their DIL or SIL,but contrastingly humiliate their DIL or SIL coz their ego is not satisified in their children's marriage -

sulo accepts evil manju for DIL while savita, evil ajit -

they both are 2 sides of the same MIL-Mother coin -

by saying only one side exists and fawning it,while pretending the other does'nt,only makes the coin itself counterfeit😆

But sulo will maintain peace for the sake of her children

BTW,what is savita's great economic depression now, that she did not have when her son was a driver yaar???😕he actually had no job after his marriage😕wat treasure is he hiding,nonsense I say😆

she neither appreciates that her hubby makes a living now for her sake,she has not had to compromise anything in her house, while her DIL does not even have a gas cylinder or a preassure cooker yet ,and she has the gall to start fighting about the money even after her son has promised his father he is going to pay for their expenses once he earns SOMETHING beyond his rozi roti.😲If somebody should be fighting about money,it should be Archu,else she wud have to donate her twins for sure😆

Archu did wat it takes to bond satish and manav - satish gave manav a job in the factory when he was in dire straits.Archu took dhammu to the Ds - dhammu waved the 3 lakhs,he gave manav his job back.savita loved it all 😆.Then the factory maliks put him in jail,Archu got him out.This very same savita never counts her blessings when cursing Archu all the time😕

I liked what Vidyasu pointed out about sachu - I mean,why cant savita go and stay with sachu and his mother,to take care of the baby,in its comforts😕why the hell bringing to the chawl and deprive the baby so much yaar - comforts and mother😕she is not accepting her son's life into her house,treats her hubby like kachra😕most inconsistent chr of all - first greedy,then liar,then devious,then domestic abuser,suddenly buddy with sulo for 2 days,then conveniently tell DIL not to divorce but NEVER tell obedient son NOT to divorce - so much for honesty😆and then do pleasantries with Archu for her engagement while her son is crying like a child😕,finally love grandson more than son,then totally love herself more than grandson,what else is left😆😆

she gonna drop that baby and get the entire chawl screaming at her,and Archu has to forcefully move in to do the motherly job😕I hope Archu goes to work at a nice office and stays away from savita,who wants to see MIL-DIL kich kich yaar,manav will go mad🥱 - and once Archu becomes preggy,savita will be sulo,I betcha😆

I already wrote - Manju and savita started the deviousness and strong arm tactics,for same reason - insecure about money and ego,one has a superiority complex,the other an inferiority complex- savita colluded with manju to destroy Archu's life and shatter her first son's dreams - manju ensured savita lost her second son and shattered her dreams.

But savita conveniently ignored Manju when she called Manav a chor😆while slapping dhammu😆so much for honesty,huh😆 interestingly,sulo only slaps when she clearly tells Manav, 'I dont accept u as damaad'😆honesty,I suppose,in blunt terms😆😆

When savita acknowledges what she did with manju,her realization for what she paid thru sachin will be clear to her.Am sure savita and manju will collude again to harm ArMan,and that is when manju's turn to pay will comeI don't see savita's resurrection until then🥱

Ok,am not gonna waste my time on these 2 scud missiles among all these loose cannons anymore😆

Liked Satish also here,he has time and again tried to bring his family and ArMan closer,whether giving a personal invitation to Manav for his party earlier ...and is using the mandir oppurtunity successfully,once again making varsha herself invite her sisters.Vote for Satish TannuDi as ArMan option not there⭐️

I think trps are down this week,with the dhammu-madhuri-vaishu chakkarPR was rated way below RMJ😲😲😲

Edited by SaffyFlower - 14 years ago

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#85

Hi saffy , congrats to your friend for having a baby ...yup that's all they do the first few months ...and we just go awwwwww ...🤗

As always you are bringing up an interesting angle to the whole thing .You think that it is better the way Arman are dealing with everyone right now .Well if this is a proper planned strategy then I am impressed that they have enough brains to work out a strategy .....

( I mean treat those who respect you with respect ) but somehow I don't think it is otherwise why would Manav be good to Varsha ..., she didn't even say sorry yaar ......

But Vaishu is Ok, she is being nice and so is Sulochna .....

It is good that the three sisters are bonding and it was a nice thing to see....

Vandita was also very nice I thought ....

Reagrding Savita ....her behaviour with Manav ..whatever yaar ... me losing interest in their relationship ..I hope they work it out , good for them ...

I just don't want Archan to end up i na place where she is called a Churail and a dayan every single day ..

No girl deserves this kind of nonsense .....

My interest in Manav is with this new business he is opening and I do hope he romances his wife a bit more than what he has been doing ....

And keep that damn door shut ...

You did vote for someone , didn't you ???

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: smrth

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Savita: Is she a bipolar? How else can one explain her Lady Jackyl or Mrs. Hyde sorties!

Would keep on cursing Archana for Jail- Her son's death etc., never bothering to remember inconvenient culprit Manjusha, but then won't hesitate a moment to burn this girl alive if it satiates her macabre sense of revenge-unafraid of jail and next moment will start moving as a saddest mother in the world (haltingly and broken, eyes full of hurt and lips pursed in sadness- with a craftily sneaked jewellery in one hand!). Won't hesitate a moment to throw her husband down into same Jail on same pretexts when he tries to rein in her murderous rage, and conveniently slipping back into the role of a mistreated, ill provided wife. Won't think twice in throwing her son and his bride out on the road in dead of a night won't budge an inch over most obdurate stand in accepting them back, but then expect same son to keep on looking after them- old aged parents- even more laughably- expecting him to return to his parents with immediate abandonment of his wife!! She will keep on accusing her son of neglect, never bothering to spend a single cent /thought where his happiness lays. After all it's her incontrovertible right as a mother- well exercised since his early age. May be she has the right of charging every single ounce of blood she had nourished him to, but what right does she have to effect slavery on her DIL?
Won't think twice over the PUBLIC onslaught of her son- not even for a moment trying to look at the pain in his eyes, reckless imperilment of her own daughter's marriage (ref. Ajit a misnomer target in lieu of Manjusha, now that he HAS repented) or endless taunting to Manav-Archana and next instant will done a pathetic cloak of an abandoned old parent (Will berate them in enraged fury and next moment revert back to sad- defeated-eyes- twitched- hurt- lips of an old dejected parent)'..

Let us not even remember- character assassination, dowry demands, doormat treatment, foxily stopping her TRUSTING son's (and his wife) marriage consummation, ruthless destruction of a girl's marriage in connivance with her SIL''She is a mother injured indeed, except that she is no proper mother ever.

Excellent analysis Smrth ..

I agree with every thing you have said here ...

My main grouse with savita is not the pain she is causing Archana but the pain she keeps causing Manav , as you too have explained above ..

She makes the mother in me very very angry ....

Mandy is wonderful ..She writes little but is so to the point and she doesn't hold back ....I look forward to her post every day ....

Thanks for appreciating my posts too ....you are very kind ....😊

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#87

Hi TannuDi 😛 Ya,I voted for satish😆I wrote it in the end I think😕

Manav behaved very normally on how one treats a guest TannuDI,just cordial😕I mean,wud u tell a guest to get out when they are talking with your family member cordially,however u dislike them😕He told dhammu to leave coz dhammu was creating ruckus😕

That is why I mentioned,when ppl come they are a gracious host - they dont visit anybody coz nobody else is gracious anyways😆😆ArMan want some peace,they are tired of chik chik😆and so am I😕wanna see a good mandir scene,its been a while since they did their fav play date😆now they can double date with satish along😆

I think manav needs to tell satish about dhammy asap😕

Edited by SaffyFlower - 14 years ago

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: SaffyFlower

ArMan want some peace,they are tired of chik chik😆and so am I😕wanna see a good mandir scene,its been a while since they did their fav play date😆now they can double date with satish along😆

I think manav needs to tell satish about dhammy asap😕

OMG saffy ..how true 😆😆😆

I am also sick and tired of chik chik ....bahut ho gaya ...uff

Yup , the mandir date / picnic should be nice ..There woudl be a sad feelign but still at least they all are together and they have started to bond again ..maybe they will be shown eating together and praying together ...

I hope we are shown some nice scenes ...

Manav and Satish will get to spend some time ...Manav shoudl tell him about Dharmesh ..I don't know what is going to happen to Satish's business and the partnership now ....if this effects anything ...

Manav should also tell Satish about Jaywant 's dirty games but we all knwo he won't tell him anything ...He would only be supportive of him ....

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#89

Manav has always been a gracious host ...Always ...

He is such a lovely boy actually ....

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

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Posted: 14 years ago

#90

TannuDi,I think it is very important when to be cordial,when to be friendly,the need to be helpful but not at one's own expense,when to stay away from the megalomaniacal me myself types- there is a time to talk and a time to relax and take a walk😆

Archu and Manav clearly know that savita comes with only one intention - to separate them😳as I said,habits become so much of one's character,she has constantly tried to separate Archu and Manav,that ArMan simply must be wary of meeting her and hearing her demands again,full of herselfshe has not proved otherwise,not even 1 phone call to Archu...why will they think otherwise then?😕

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