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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know Archana was wrong in the way she reunited with Manav, but does Sulochana have to be so cold towards her? Archana has sacrificed a lot for her family and yet when does one thing for herself, everyone turns their back on her. What I don't understand about Sulochana is how she can be so forgiving and nice to Manju despite everything she's done yet treat Archana like a stranger. I can't stand Sulochana or Savita, I want to see them regret the way they've treated their kids.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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The way Sulochana is showing her hurt, anger and dislike to Archu is by making it all about herself...It is not abt Sulochana...She needs to understand Archu picked Manav over her family b/c Sulochana put that Q in front of her...That was a wrong thing to do by a mother...Mother should be happy that her daughter is supporting her husband...that does not mean she does not love her mayka or parents...

Sulochana needs to convey how ArMan got married hurt her not who they are...She is making it all abt Sulochana....Which is bit childish...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sulochna is being very childish .When Archu said ' I a mhappy ' she snapped back at her ' by making others unhappy ' . What a thing to say .still it is all about her that she is thinking .When will Sulochna start thinking about what Archu wants ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree with Varsha. Sulo is taking it very personally that her daughter chose her husband over her. It is an ego problem.She has always had the upper hand on Archuz life compared 2 her 2 other laadlis It is equally true she loves Archu a lot, she is a better mom than Savita. She wont bear 2 c Archuz suffering 4 long. She is hurt n behaving childishly 4 sure which is very unfair vis- a -vis Archu who has done a lot 4 her n the family.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It is always about what THEY want ..... Sulo, savita, Varsha, Bhavna etc etc. All they do is to mask their wants as 'sanskaar", "accepted norms"," independence ", "duty", "rights" etc etc. I agree wholeheartedly with the opening post. Sulo can tolerate and forgive Manju repeatedly calling it "sanskaar" ,"bahu", "beta " and so on. But she cannot even be civil to Archana whom she professes to love? I do not expect anything more than that from her at the moment.
She has been hurt but it is all about "how can she choose Manav over me" . Her ego rather than an attempt to even consider/ contemplate why the normally loyal Archana chose to do what she did.
But there is a lesson for me in all this. I must say that after watching PR , I have begun to become less judgemental about my children's actions. I have stopped reacting abruptly and try to understand their point of view of a given situation. And communicate and discuss the merits and demerits of taking a particular decision. Believe me, it has helped both sides a lot!
Edited by vishwap - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know ! .. I mean I can understand the jhatka parents are going to feel if their daughter goes AWOL on the wedding day .. but going by her dialogues , it feels like sulo is archu's boyfriend who is maha pissed on being ditched for some other hottie...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sulochana and Savita have always come across as selfish women in some aspect or the other.

Sulo who used to go on harping about how much she wants Archu to be happy should realise that she is indeed happy with Manav. How can she forget that it is because of her poor health that Archu left her studies half way.Perhaps if she had continued studying like Varsha or vaishu she could have been in a better position now.

On the other hand Savita shudnt forget that it was Manav who bore the responsibility of his family right from the time he was 16. SO arent these two entitled to be happy for once without any burden weighing them down??

Really tired of these silly egoistic women with Manju leading the brat pack.!!!!! followed by Varshu, Vaishu and of course these two 60 yr olds who behave like 6 yr old girls.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi...

The role of sulochana is very nice in this serial..
She is not only the mom for her daughters but she is a best friend to them..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Solu Aai is maha pissed off because Archu choose her love ( Manav) over her family. I agree, it was a shock for the family and was an embarrassing situation that day.

What I don't understand is, Solu Aai has claimed more than once that she is not only her mother but her friend. Then how cum she did not see her friend cum daughters sadness & unhappiness about the second marriage to Jaywant . Now , she is just in denial and cannot come to terms that Archu is no longer her self sacrificing daughter .

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Posted: 14 years ago
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honestly i dont tink sulochana did wrong,wen archu got a choice very conviently she choosed manav. from d time she left d house hav not seen archu missing her mom but sulochana has. now wen archu saw sulo her daughter ki atma came bck to her.tats wrong yaar. wat archu did was not a small ting she ran from d mandap and still nobody gave sulo a proper reason.dats real face of jay. archu cld atleast tell her mom abt it yestday in train but she dint.she strted she is happy etc etc.any mther will not like her daughter suffering so much,if my mom gets a option for me to choose a guy either manav(poor,uneducated,looser.who divorced her daughter once, and now mking her stay at d most horrible place over and d way manju exagerated no proper food)
jay(rich better den k fly,educated,ready to accept her divorce daughter,forgive her mahanta etc)
over here in front of sulochana jay is a hero and manav a bad future for archu,and kind of i agree to it after wtchng yestday episode. d most imp ting over here is tat sulo shld know jay real face,but nobody archu,satish,ajit is even tinking of dng tat.i support sulo for tat sulo in bld wrds tld after u leave wid manav i will break all relations wid u and archu agreed so mow accept it. its only a week.dey ran,giv sulo sum time yaar
dis is ting wicch dont like abt armaan ,dey dont understnd d meaning of marriage,divorce etc

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