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Posted: 14 years ago
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Okay guys, let me tell me at the outset- I'm not a very romantic person. Specially that passion wala romance is a bit too much for me. I feel mushy regarding it. More than the passion-wala romance, I like cute romance (as my FF readers will vouch for). That is the reason I liked ArMan romance.

But now- this romance is getting irritating. And seriously NOT LOGICAL. Do the CV's INTEND to show ArMan as husband wife or not? Till now, they are portraying them as two best friends living in together!!!😆

Its been a week since they've eloped, and two nights since they're in their house. Yet we've not seen even a hint of 'proper' intimacy.

Okay on the first few days, we had a reason- no chhat and no room.
When they got a house- another reason- it started raining, and they couldn't sleep. Plus I sort of felt that Manav was too worried after getting bruised etc to indulge into romance since his mind was on daana paani arrangement. Maybe they even felt that it wasn't right since they weren't legally married.

But what now??? In today's episode, there was no rain, no problem, they were even in a nice mood (as seen by yesterday's episode ending), legally married, happy after marriage-- so why not show some closeness, if not consummation?

Agreed that they are shy. But even when you are shy, you make a move na? Show some inclination at least? At least TRY to come a bit closer? Here they do nothing except TALK!!! When Manav Archu were married first time around, they actually tried to come closer- their progression seemed realistic. Here toh, nothing! I thought we would see something like that after Archana was pressing to sleep with Manav the other day, and he kept on refusing. But no!- the next scene they showed was both of them running for cover under the rain- okay accepted- but then??? Taye taye phish!!! 😕No kiss, no hug, no touching, no passion, not even pushing strand behind ears and eye-locking, nothing, both went to sleep!!!😡 Arey baba, we know this is a pavitra serial, but if husband wife are such... not even kissing on forehead, then one will easily assume them BROTHER SISTER!!!! Yes! I have slept on my brother's shoulder in this way in train... such a scene it was!!!😆

Nothing as yet is suggestive of a husband wife relationship or a romantic relationship. And it really doesn't seem logical- they are married, they have absolutely no problems with their relationship, they love each other, they don't have any third person to interrupt, they are hale and hearty (no sickness excuse), they are jobless (so no excuse of 'I'm oh-so-tired today'.) then what is the problem?

If it was a newly married couple, I would have understood that maybe they want to take things slow and get to know each other first. But these people are way toooooo comfortable with each other!!! They hug each other too, so what the heck is wrong then???

Okay since I always give people benefit of doubt, will do so here as well. I will try to give possible logical reasons behind the situation:
1.) ArMan are saints. 😆They feel that such Moh Maya and Kama is for neech people. Touching your partner is a sin. Kissing to... tauba tauba...!!! They may have left their mahanta aside, but their other saintly feelings stand the same.

2.) ArMan don't know how to do 'it'. They need BOOKS.😆

3.) ArMan simply don't feel the need. They are happy staring at each other. That gives them so much satisfaction and happiness that they don't feel the need to do anything. Why waste energy??😉 As it is there is lack of money to buy food- better conserve energy so that we can go to work tomorrow!😆

4.)It is a future sadistic track for the serial- to show that Manav LACKS something. CV's, you show this and I will drop the show!!!!!😡😡😡😡

So is this non-consummation, CV's hint of a future separation before SR and then more sadness and separation for months to come, with Archana and Manav pining for each other and living upto the title- 'PAvitra Rishta'???

Whatever it is, CV's, if you don't want to show them consummating so soon, fine! But at least show some reason for it! There is no reason for it! Your leads are coming across as irritating! The portrayal of their relationship is coming across as unnatural!! It really doesn't gel and is utterly unrealistic- at least to me!

Thumbs down!!!!



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Extremely irritated Niki ! Everybody venting it out fabulously in the SOTD<choicest of words,we can write a book with all the posts😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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great post nikita...👏

totally agree with you..

very frustrating...why are the cvs hellbent on showing the leads like this??........makes no sense..


a big thumbs down from me as well...😡😡😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Niki I am so disgusted by watching today's episode.....just can't tell you.

what are they showing???? itsall vomit worthy. i don't even want to use my brains to analyse any of the acts that these characters did today on the show.

Today's episode was laying down for one of the most disgusting plots....even worse than what they have shown till today.

They will make us hate ArMan at the end of it all.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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@all:

See, its not like I'm a sucker for romantic scenes. Yes, I like them, but overall I focus on the greater picture- the story. Don't show consummation, don't show kiss- but give a reason na? Show them perturbed, lost in problems, utterly disturbed, show the bruises and Manav unable to move or sleep bcos of them- then I'll not say anything.

But the way they are showing this relationship- I just can't understand it. ArMan are in a completely favourable situation. Still if they chose to sit and talk and not go ahead even a tiny bit, then what to say? Arey even shy people don't do this much!!!

It seems very unnatural!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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niki excellent post absolutely agree yes dun show sr bt some husband-wife relation shp nt best friends type...every track dey are thnkng of doing nw is crap be it shrav,sulo,gj,manav nt able to fnd d job uff
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am not angry at all ......ArMan has taught me to be patient 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great post Nicki! Its absolutely appalling to say the least how the leads are so unnatural in the passion department. yesterday epi ended wid them lol abt finding each other cute and pyaari!! need I say more?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Okay people, have come up with another logical reason why nothing 'normal' is being shown- as suggested by Kools- ArMan have no money for contraceptives and know they can't afford a baby right now. So they are waiting.... 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very very good post Niki, what a disgusting horrible episode today . I wrote the update then decided not to even analyse it , but after looking at your post , I would like to elaborate a little .

I think it is really really stupid the way both the leads are being shown , totally unrealistic .They are butchering the characters again .
archana was a supervisor , one of the board members of a big automobile parts company ....why the hell can't she be shown looking for a job .All she wants is to do cooking . If she really loved the guy ,she would have been out there looking for a job to help him out .She is giving him not one single good advice , that to contact Tarun etc ...suddenly she hs gone stupid .
If this is what she thinks love is , then I am sorry , I don't agree with her at all.
How come she does not question his abnormal shyness in trying to be close to her .....very very strange .
What is getting me most angry is the degenration of manav and Archan .They will only be shown as losers , honestly ..
Someone in the writing team only wants to show them as loosers ..
Ekta Kapoor's team of writers suck big time ..
And just look at what Shraavni did today ..I don't even have words to go into it ..If it were to me , I would put Sachu in care of social workers and file a case against his mother for neglecting her responsibilities.
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