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Today's episode saddened me . . Yes Abortion is the prerogative of woman as its HER body that bears it all and is at risk . . Yes Space is the requirement of every woman . . Yes , every woman is NOT dying to be a mother . . But . Responsibility is the prerogative of every woman too . There is such a thing as SAFE SEX if you don't want the child . It doesn't BEG you to bring it in the world . It comes in the world due to the efforts of two ADULTS . Once it comes , it depends helplessly on YOU for its existence as it is UNABLE to fend for itself . . If Space is essential , so is PROXIMITY in marraige . Proximity brings a couple closer , Space , if unchecked , BREAKS the institution called marraige . How much space do u want , Define it . But then remember that when the husband starts demanding space , don't feel insulted as a woman . It goes both ways , so be very very careful before stepping in this SPACE area . . No , every woman who is not dying to be a mother should definetely not be judged . But every woman who SNUFFS OUT A LIFE in a fit of anger should definetely be questioned . That is an UGLY ASPECT in her . . She Aborted in a fit of RAGE . She had not taken adequate protection and the child was her mISTAKE . She did not ABORT coz she believed in abortion as a right of woman .She aborted to TEACH A LESSON to Satish and Bhavna . . She Hated the child from day one . But she was cowardly enough not to accept responsibility of that mistake and declare I am going to abort right from the beginning . She Aborted BY putting the responsibility on Satish and Bhavna by flouncing off in rage . It was not GROWN UP , it was COWARDICE .
She had everything going for her .........EVERYTHING . A decent loving husband , Good in laws . Bhavna may not be perfect but she is a good woman . A gem of a father in law , unlimited freedom , wealth . She could not digest the happiness and thought she had a MISERABLE LIFE ..
Lately she was dancing on Satish's head . She had emasculated him with her constant TANDAVS . His role in the marraige was only LISTENING TO HER .
Barging in his office and telling in front of his friends TO HELL WITH UR MEETING was the limit of emasculation of a man . No Man should take THIS from a woman . He should have NOT Gone out to meet her .But he did .
Let her now seek the wonderful life with SPACE that she thought EXISTS somewhere in this world .Coz the truth is , even in a job ,you give up something and adjust in every minute , every hour . Let her seek that happiness and let her see if it fills her void . What she is seeking is not existing anywhere in the world .
Satish was right , she needs a lot of growing up to do .
I hope Satish never takes her back . Its sUch a pity Manav is still hovering around Archana .......Satish could have divorced Varsha and married Archana with the blessings of Manohar and Sulo , who should have coldly informed Varsha Go , proceed to the US .
But Nevertheless ...........I do hope we see Satish remarrying . I wouldn't wish Varsha on any man .
Two women did the mistake of bringing a child in the world due to irresponsible sex . Shravni and Varsha . Shravni accepted her responsibility and chose not to abort although her fiancee had died and she would suffer social stigma .She took this decision even bEFORE Manav agreed to marry her and SAVE her .
Varsha chose to snuff that life out inspite of having EVERYTHING , simply for an ego issue . Yet there will NEVER be a Varsha HATE CLUB .
Geet - Hui Sabse Parayee
