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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#71

My dear saffy , Are u denying ur an Archu fan ? . And kindly think before calling me a basher . Being a Fan is not negative , being a basher most certainly is . I am frank with what i absolutely get horrified at but I dont believe in bashing people unnecessarily . . My intention was not to insult u by calling u an Archu fan . I regard samarth , u , Tanya , GM all as Archu fans .Is that something bad ? . But being a confirmed Basher mOST certainly is , I take offense to that . .
She had gone against all 65 year olds and 30 year olds when she thought she was right , and now it aint right to go again and again with same man when Saas specifically told her not to go was my point . She is the one who will live with her saas not manohar , that much brains anyone can have was my only point . Some latitude is given to a favorite character but it aint correct in reality was my point , hence my Archu Fan point .

Lets end the discussion here , no point in going back and forth .

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#72

My dear KoolDi 😆 Ok,u r a shravni fan and am a shravni basher,happy😆

Now stop being horrified😆😆u r terrifying me now😕Am sorry if it hurt any sentiments,you know me well enuf,I never will

Its ok to have likes and dislikes I supposeI did not mean bashing in a negative way.Criticism can be positive and negative.Being a fan need not be dumb either.Its each one's andaaz causing appreciation

Please dont take it personally.😳Friends?

Edited by SaffyFlower - 14 years ago

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#73

I would love it if jaywant comes up with the 10 , 000 rupees cash and goes to Manav's house and gives him the money there and tell him that make sure your mother and your finace never bother my mother again ...

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#74

Criticism can be positive and negative.Being a fan need not be dumb either.Its each one's andaaz causing appreciation

Please dont take it personally.😳Friends?

Being a Fan doesn't make anyone DUMB . I never said Ur a Fan to denote DUMBNESS in ur post saffy . But yes , Being a fan , can definetely give one a bias and lessen objectivity . One starts consciously or unconsciously making excuses for even the mistakes of that character .

For me an argument has meaning if one honestly accepts the mistakes of the character . One cant say Manohar is bigger than her in age so she is absolved . With that logic , Vandu shud listen to any nonsense Rasika tells her , Rasika is elder in age .

Neither do i justify open defiance of elders like Varsha does , nor do I advocate blind following of Elders like Archana does .And its not just looking at manohar this time that I found wrong , I had found her savita worship wrong too . I like OWN mind . A very strong concept of right and wrong in OWN mind . She showed it during defending Manav , where she went wrong then was in the WAY she showed it . Contrary to popular belief , I don't just bash her for the sake of it . I do take her side when she is right . But of late , she has NOT been right . She has been psychotic . [ Roasting hands , doing this sUICIDAL marraige etc .}

yes FRIENDS .😊

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Criticism can be positive and negative.Being a fan need not be dumb either.Its each one's andaaz causing appreciation

Please dont take it personally.😳Friends?

Being a Fan doesn't make anyone DUMB . I never said Ur a Fan to denote DUMBNESS in ur post saffy . But yes , Being a fan , can definetely give one a bias and lessen objectivity . One starts consciously or unconsciously making excuses for even the mistakes of that character .

For me an argument has meaning if one honestly accepts the mistakes of the character . One cant say Manohar is bigger than her in age so she is absolved . With that logic , Vandu shud listen to any nonsense Rasika tells her , Rasika is elder in age .

Neither do i justify open defiance of elders like Varsha does , nor do I advocate blind following of Elders like Archana does .And its not just looking at manohar this time that I found wrong , I had found her savita worship wrong too . I like OWN mind . A very strong concept of right and wrong in OWN mind . She showed it during defending Manav , where she went wrong then was in the WAY she showed it . Contrary to popular belief , I don't just bash her for the sake of it . I do take her side when she is right . But of late , she has NOT been right . She has been psychotic . [ Roasting hands , doing this sUICIDAL marraige etc .}

yes FRIENDS .😊

Thanks Di.😛 I know why you write what you write.😳Just to clarify,I analyze the fundamental nature of a character and appreciate them for it,circumstantial acts I see as weaknesses - hence,I cannot appreciate grey characters who might turn dark anytime but understand grey relationships which good characters can turn pure.

TanyaDi,sorry for spamming😕

Edited by SaffyFlower - 14 years ago

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#76

don't worry , the way the two of you ar communicating , it is very intelligent and it is all related to the show . I would not call it spamming at all.

Saffy I cannot wait to see how manav will get through his thick head that he made a wrong choice by supporting his mother even when she was wrong ..

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: SaffyFlower

Thanks Di.😛 I know why you write what you write.😳Just to clarify,I analyze the fundamental nature of a character and appreciate them for it,circumstantial acts I see as weaknesses - hence,I cannot appreciate grey characters but understand grey relationships.

TanyaDi,sorry for spamming😕

Its somewhat ulta with me . For me .........Everything counts. For instance Today I didnt Find Dharmesh THAT hateful . I found him MORE wrong yesterday when he didnt show sporting spirit to Vaishali . For his inflated ego . Oh boy , he had it didnt he . It was swollen .

But Same Dharmesh ...when he said onestly Business is my number one passion , I didnt go an HOO HAA .How can he say this . He was honest . It REALLY is . Just like all women r not dying to be mothers [ Varsha] All Men dont make Wives children their priority . Something else is . Spirituality is , Business is .Social work or some agenda is . Why shud he lie abt that and give her the answers SHE wants . In this I didnt find him wrong .

But Yes , What I felt was SHE shud make something of herself and have an individual personality to command HIS respect . He is NOT the kind of man who will respect his wife simply coz she is lovely or will deny him sex in bed if gussa . But he will sit up and take notice if she makes sumthing of herself as thas what he values in life .

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#78

Manav did all this to bring the smile back on his mother's face after she lost sachin in an accident .He butchered Archana's heart and now that he is falling more and more in love with her every single day he is finding it so hard to let her go ...

He really must realize how badly he messed up ...

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umayal

@LuvSSever

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
don't worry , the way the two of you ar communicating , it is very intelligent and it is all related to the show . I would not call it spamming at all.

Saffy I cannot wait to see how manav will get through his thick head that he made a wrong choice by supporting his mother even when she was wrong ..

Yes Di, Two big things ,I am waiting so long to see was , Manav confronting his aai for her bad deeds. though sav aai has suffered a big loss, still she hasn't got back for what she has done to manav. so waiting to see manav giving back to his aai for treating archu like that and spoiling mannu's life in the beginning by joining hands with manju.

And the second thing was suffering of manju. I so wish to see these two.

of course ,a third one was there, ARMAN reunion.😊

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#80

But Kool, even though he does not consider her his prioroty , he should not talk like this to her . There is something called tact .

I said the same thing for Archana when she corrected Prabha in front of her relatives that please don't say anything to manav , he is a good man . Archan was right in her own mind .She considers manav to eb a great guy but she should have been more tactful and tried to see things from the point of view of others ..

same way Dharmesh did not use tact and he should be a little more sensible .

We cannot expect everyone in this world to think liek us .

Most of the women will not like it if their husband will tell then , I love somehting more than you ...