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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#41

we will have to agree to disagree here totally Kool. In my opinion Archana has done far more for manav than the other way round ...

maybe I am Archu fan orrwhatever but this is how I see things ..

From here on she is best to refuse any help that he offers her ...

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

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Posted: 14 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: pinkly

Well said... pathetic daughters and dumb son.

This is not true guys - thatz not how middle class works. Mayka never takes money from daughters after marriage,its beneath their status.Maybe they will borrow@the best,thatz all.

See,for all her nautanki,MAnju still contributes to her saasurvadi,not to her mother who is is dire straits herself. Else she saves for her kids,splurges on them.Only Manav was giving money to his sis.

No point archu goin to job now,shez gonna get married in a week.Most MILs of middleclass expect DIL to contribute for direct betterment of their son - either she do household wrk or she earn for him.

Prabha wont let archu send money to her mom,forget it.

Bhavna wud flip and do tamashas like savita if varsha said she was doin job to support parents,ok.Same for Dharmu's parents,they want model DIL @home,they will say why u wanna make money?Even varsha is allowed to wrk now not for money,but for 'career' coz shez got timeto kill.

Sulo Mano will never take regular money from married daughters,never.They will tell them to save for themselves and their own kids only.

Sulo Mano shud stop depending on their son,zamaana has changed a lot.I feel sorry for them but they were wrong.They shud ask Vinod to move to the flat and have a paying guest or something.

Else,ask VInod to give the flat's rent money to them.They need to have some investment,ok

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

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Posted: 14 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: bonnefille
Agree completely that sulo always insulted manav within closed rooms wheras savita made it public humiliation for archana.....n for a woman it is hard to deal with.....

i hate savita a lot.....i do not like her tamasha behaviour at all.........she's loud and crass......n her loudness is often purposeless.

But i disagree manav shouldn't have given her money or she should have refused. Divorce doesn't mean one cannot help the other in need. It was a relationship irrespective of it being that of marriage.....they care for each other. If manav was just a friend would she have been wrong to take his help or he helping her? Even when ppl are casual acquaintances......they try to help each other out. Helping or accepting help is never wrong. if it is so wrong......sulo should have never made manav a caterer, archana should have never given ajit the job, archana should never got manav out of jail and manav now should not care if archana marries jaywant. Ppl help those for whom they care.......helping and caring aren't wrong even if you have a divorced relationship. if these two feeling weren't supposed to be there......manav and archana would have both taken different routes long time back.

Great post Bonne 👍🏼we so do think alike😳This is how our generation thinks yaar - kya rey,we all go thru dating,break ups,male friends,its not new to borrow from each other,big deal I say.

savita is a coward and a bully.If she has guts let her go and change her son,bade aajaatey hain baath karney ko,I wud have ripped her if I was there,I take no such nonsense from anybody.Wonder why sulo's mouth zips up in front of her,watz the pt in ranting @manav??

They do rishta,rishta -These guyz shud haq jatha on whom they have rishta with - savita & phoons on manav,sulo,prabha and Jay on archu - instead they keep giving lectures to ArMan - apna kartoot pehle dekho.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#44

but Safy that's such a Jurassic way of thinking 😆 cant take financial help from daughters ... why not ?? daughters are equally capable of taking care of their parents as sons ..... times have changed nd we need to change our stereotypical thots as well

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

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Posted: 14 years ago

#45

Show seems soo boring TannuDi after yday's excitement🥱Pretty much fwd most of it.

I am reading WU just to vote and cheer u -u doin such a dedicated job with this thread👍🏼

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

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Posted: 14 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: piya_10
but Safy that's such a Jurassic way of thinking 😆 cant take financial help from daughters ... why not ?? daughters are equally capable of taking care of their parents as sons ..... times have changed nd we need to change our stereotypical thots as well

But they dont do tha Piya,tis strange am telling u,especially when son is attached to mom,mom has say in bahu's finance yaar

My BIL used to make 200K a yr,every penny she sends to my parents even as gift for occasion he and his parents kept tab ok

I send money to my sis now w/o my parents knowing ,else they keep saying save for urself,buy jewellery for urself ,same nonsense I tell u - my own decent parents wud flip if my SIL who is doing faltu job sends money to her parents u know,mere bhai ka dimaag khaa jatey😆

upper middle class is v conscious of these things yaar,its us young guns who cant think like that.

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shorti21

@shorti21

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Posted: 14 years ago

#47

I voted for dharmu's dad today. He just seems more sensible than most of the parental characters in the show, except for damodar, I love him!

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#48

What about all that she did for him ..I guess that doesn't count anything does it ...

I am talking strictly abt the financial accepting part when nOT ALLOWED context .Not of the GENERAL OVERALL PR View . Even there I wont say she alone did for him .........He dID agree to let his old parents starve for hER , although it was the worlds most faaltu reason .Even now he is trying his best . So sorry , but I cannot see her as the only heroine . Agree to disagree .

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Posted: 14 years ago

#49

I believe both have done a lot for the other though Manav has done more financially for her family nd yet her family doesnt miss a chance to humiliate him ..... still rem' Sulo's public slap to Manav on SN day which decent sanskari MIL ever slaps her SIL ?? nd the sisters are no less selfish they conveniently forget his generosity .... the only person in K house who respects Manav is Manohar

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#50

anyone watch Pratigya today ?made a small post in PR forum ....Babu outshines Parvati . Check it out .😊 . Btw I ACTUALLY agree with Saffys views in toto .About Middle class mentality in nOT accepting daughters money .They wud be HORRIFIed , thats the way the cookie crumbles and its not JURASSIc , it exists very much even today .

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