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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

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Posted: 15 years ago

#81

I vote for Manav bcoz he did bow to one thing that cannot be controlled -be-intehaan mohabbat,that is self-destructive @its worst

Intehaan ki gadi thi - gaddi gayi mohabbat mein😆

He chose Archu's izzat(which he thinks is be all,end all with jilted jay😆) as priority over his family's izzat and his marriage being jeopordized this time.Tis stupid to throw away one's life to be in jail,but still tis an act of courage.

He did not intend to hurt his family,but when he had to make a choice between be-intehaan mohabbat and his zimmedari,he chose to be a majnu - that is why among all the types of love extolled,that of be-intenhaan mohabbat has more paens and poems than even a mother's love.A mother also chooses her child over all other types of zimma or love.There is a story of Krishna choosing Rukmini over Bhama in the matters of the heart,and many other such stories also.

What I see as a difference between Manav's and Jay's love here is - Jay's intention to hurt Manav to get Archu.He cud just concentrate on winning archu's heart,he does not want to accept defeat in his love-that she love's Manav above him clearly.Love is abt win-lose for him and shravni.

Be-intehaan Love has to be about the urgent need to give wat the lover wants over the desire to take.

ArMan felt the need to give up something v v important for them as they felt their lover needed it.

But they let their own world crumble for their lover,bcoz be-intehaan love made them tumble

Jay and Shravni know their fiances are sensing a limitation in the giving love dept ,otherwise ArMan r willing to be dutiful - love is an emotion unlike marriage which is an institution with rules.So no point in demanding love,it cannot be controlled like being physically committed.While ArMan r willing to accept the engagement with its limitation,clearly Jay/Shravni are not.And both parties are not wrong here.But the expectation/limitation part has to be balanced

Both spouses need to accept the limitation of what they can give and what they can get-and decide whether it works for them.If they feel cheated,I dont see how they can force the spouse in the matters of the heart -its a definitive lose situation

It cud be expectations like beauty and earning capability also,here it is love.

I am not voting for Archu bcoz she understands that she cant tolerate giving love to another man other than the one she loves,v late she accepted this reality,not all men r like satish who will wait

for tide to turn.Although Jay knowing her current sensibilities cud have told wat he felt and kept his hands off until marriage,he shud know her by now

Then why does she remind Manav to marry SHravni and give her all,when he has made it clear that he loves her and not shravni? Is a man not entitled to feel to be a 1 woman man in the love dept? The poor guy was trying to explain it in the prev ME !

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: SaffyFlower

I vote for Manav bcoz he did bow to one thing that cannot be controlled -be-intehaan mohabbat

Intehaan ki gadi thi - gaddi gayi mohabbat mein😆

He chose Archu's izzat(which he thinks is be all,end all with jilted jay😆) as priority over his family's izzat and his marriage being jeopordized this time.

I also think this was the choice in front of him then and he opted for the choice to he made .
I also gave him my vote though I wish he had been a little more brave and had trusted archan a little more that she can take care of herself and her izzat on her own ...

He did not intend to hurt his family,but when he had to make a choice between be-intehaan mohabbat and his zimmedari,he chose to be a majnu -

I would love to see more of a Majnu in him ....It's about time he started thinking about his love ..

Maybe we are just getting excited over nothign today but what he did has given some hope that the old Manav that was such a Majnu is still in him somewhere...

What I see as a difference between Manav's and Jay's love here is - Jay's intention to hurt Manav to get Archu.He cud just concentrate on winning archu's heart,he does not want to accept defeat in his love-that she love's Manav above him clearly.Love is abt win-lose for him and shravni.

Well in that case no one can win from my Archana . No one can love the way she does ...

I am not voting for Archu bcoz she understands that she cant tolerate giving love to another man other than the one she loves.Then why she reminds Manav to marry SHravni and give her all,when he has made clear that he loves her and not shravni? Is a man not entitled to feel to be a 1 woman man in the love dept?

You know , you are so right . I have always hated thsi about her .All the tiem telling Manav , be khush with Shravani blah blah blah , now all jay did was to hold her arm and she ran so fast . But then Manav was more determined about Shravani where as jaywant's rishta was forced on archana ...

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#83

I don't think Archana liked the Singapore fried rice very much . I have never had them before . Are they good ???

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toothbrush13

@toothbrush13

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#84

I hope you're feeling better, Tanya di. Do you still feel really sick?

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#85

I am feeling much better now . I just came back from the doctor's . he thinks I am getting better as well.

My Uncle called and fired me for neglecting him. When i told him that I wasnot well he said , nonsense , you sound just fine to me ..

Looks like I better pay him a visit this Sunday .

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Arien_03

@Arien_03

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Posted: 15 years ago

#86

Voted for Manav for putting Archana above his promise to Shravani and above Sachin. He had to divorce Archana for his promise made to Shravani but he is not willing to compromise Archana's reputation at any cost, even if it means he cannot fulfill his promise. He signed papers so that Jaywant doesn't start bad-mouthing about Archana but that doesn't mean he still wants Archana to marry Jaywant. When someone is about to press trigger on gun thats put to your head, you just comply with what the person is asking you to do at that moment to save the situation. Archana reached in an incoherent state and wasn't in the state to hear anything when she went to meet Manav in lock-up and walked away before Manav could tell her anything. Manav simply didn't have any chance to speak to her about Jaywant.

Didn't vote for Archana for realizing that she is doing injustice to Jaywant and his family coz it took the date event, Jaywants advances towards her to make her uncomfortable and its her own discomfort that made her realize that she is being unfair to Jaywant.

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
I don't think Archana liked the Singapore fried rice very much . I have never had them before . Are they good ???

Yup Tanya Di, Singapore Fried Rice is a very tasty dish. I personally like Chinese very much, so I always find it yum-yum.⭐️

But a person like Archu who isn't used to eating it wouldn't suddenly like the strong flavour of Ajinamoto I suppose.

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
I am feeling much better now . I just came back from the doctor's . he thinks I am getting better as well.
My Uncle called and fired me for neglecting him. When i told him that I wasnot well he said , nonsense , you sound just fine to me ..

Looks like I better pay him a visit this Sunday .

😲

Tanya Di, please don't risk it.

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#89

OK Nicki , I will take it easy ..

Nicki , I am really hating varsha these days . When it was her time she did not even let her own husband touch her because she was not in that frame of mind and not ready . Now look how she is imposing Jaywant on Archana .

Good or bad or whatever , she knows that Archana is madly in love with manav and he is in remand custody ..Still she is doing this ...

And manav did all the unfairness to archcna ....to varsha he was so good .He took such good care of her and look at her now .

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#90

Tanya Di, right now I don't like any character on this show except Satish. But jab mera khud ka sikka hi khota hai (Manav) to ab main kis kis ki buraai karoon??

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