Till yesterday I was getting very very confused about something . I have now started to feel that Archana is almost desperate to get manav married to Shravani .
This new promo confirmed that . Manav used the trump card of this thing only to convince her of a second marriage . Even he knows that she is almost desperate and will do anything to see maanv married to Shravani and also to see them happy together ..
All day I kept thinking , why on earth would any woman be so desperate to see her man going to bed with another woman, loving her and giving her a home ....
Is Archana sane or what ??And as I do like her a lot , there must have been something special about her for me .....so why would a nice and a special girl want something so wrong .....
I put up that question yesterday in kool's thread .
Why is Archana desperate to get manav married to Sharavani ???
Kool, Arien and Varsha were kind enough to explain the answer to me ..andit now makes a lot more sense ...
Seems to me now that after sachin's death .....Archana feels somewhat responsible and feels guilty about his death . She feels that somewhere her family was involved and she has to do praishchit for this ..
She took away savita's sachin and Sachu's dad and she has to give this back to them ...
Similarly it also seems that even maanv is wrestling with this sort of a thought , that it was his susral that caused his brother's death and he has to give his mother her sachin back ...Apparantl ythat is why he made this promise to Girish and Shravani and replaced Archana with Shravani in his life ..
Now I find this un fair ...Terribly unfair ...I do not blame either Manav or archan for sachin;'s death at all..It was a bad accident and no one but sachin and the truck driver should be blamed ..Period ...
Now if Manav and Archana have together come to this conclusion that OK ...we both fools believe that this is our fault and together let us do this divorce and give Sachu a father agaian then still I would have been Ok .
But it was Manav's decision ....which he took on his own . Which was severly opposed by his father , even savita was quiet because even she knew that it was a tough decision , without any consultation or informing to his then wife Archana ....a wife who was coming to him every single day at that time , begging him to reconsider him to take her back .....to love her again ....
He just took a decision on his own , that changed Archana's life forever . he decided the path for them ....the path of balidaan ..
And then he kept on going more and more on this path . Even after knowing that it was not her fault at all thatl is an angel and thanks to him she is getting destroyed ..Even then , he just told her to go back to her mayka even after knowing how much she loves him and to what extent she can do to prove that love ....as if she had no feelings at all ....
Few days ago even he acknowledged now that he has been terribly unfair to her ...Took all the decisions for her life and never consulted her . That like other people in her life he too has used and hurt her ...
About time he said that because he was absolutely right ....
He should have neevr chosen that stupid path of sacrifise ...should have said ' sachin's death was an accident ' it was no one 's fault . Tha tif my wife wantsa reconsiliation and that she is not at all the kind to get me beaten up in jail then of course I should give my marriage another chance ....
She came home to beg him for another chance but it was him who told her ...Sorry decision is made ..yo uhave to go I am marrying Shravani as I feel responsible for my brother's death and will give a home and name to this baby ....
I blame him for putting Archana on that horrible and senseless path in the first place ..
I also blame Archana ......for two things ...
Blindly following that path and not even once trying to tell Manav that it was neither his mistake not hers that sachin died and that they both have to stop blaming themselves ..Seems like she too firmly believes that manav has made up his mind about giving sachu to savita and the only way to keep manav happy is just to follow his path blindly ...
That is wrong .....
Also that she believes herslef that she is guilty for something she did not even do ...even that is wrong ...It's so bloody stupid to think like this ..Uff ....
So these are the reasons why I blame these two people ...Manav more for he was the one who chose this path first ....and kept on going on it without ever caring about the great injustice he was doing to his wife ..And less than him I blame Archana for giving manav the power ( pretty much with her own choice ) to destroy her whenever and however he wants to destroy her ....
In that respect she is a fool and very much to be blamed for the state her life is in now .....
Should have kept away from a man like manav ..Instead she kept going after him.....so good now look what is happening . Go and get married again when yo uare hardly in the right state of mind ....
Only so that yo ucan follow your Bhagwan on this path of this foolish senseless sacrifise .....
The person I feel very sorry for right now is jaywant .....This man may turn negative , who knows ...But as of now he is playing very fair ..He categorically made onl yone condition ....
That Archan should not be forced in any way at all and that she should be totally mentaly prepared for thsi marriage . He did not ask a single question about her past , or anything else about her ....onl ythis one condition ...a very vary fair condition keeping both Archana's and his future in mind ....He is being extremly fair both to himself and archana .
And look what he is going to get .......deception and lies .....
the very reason why Archana will say Yes to marriage si because of intense amount of blackmailing .....by Manav and her mother ( in the back ground ) ....
I know Archana will do her best to keep relationship fair with Jaywant but at the same time I also know that she can never ever stop loving manav .At least she is most definitely not ready now ....
Archana is being forced into this marriage ...and that is exactl ywhat jay did not want....
So I blame both manav ( him more ) and Archana ....and I feel sorry for Jaywant , at this point of time ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
