Originally posted by: gaurimisha
I agree partially.
Disagree tht I wud advice my friend to abort.No.If she is as attached to the child as shravani was,I wud stand by her and ask her to go ahead with it.Get a job n be a single mother.I dont believe in social taboos where a mother has to abort her child bcoz she has no support of a male member.Bache bhagwan ki den hote hai.Having a male by ur side shudnt be a reason to abort or keep the baby...tht shud be purely the choice of the mother.
If tom she wants to remarry...she can vry well find a guy n marry him.
Manav,at tht point,did just tht.He wanted to support her so tht she doesnt lose out on her happiness of being a mother....though I disagree with the way he went abt it.But I do agree with his intentions.
Archana did the most human thing by stopping shravani from aborting.Shravani was going to do so bcoz she felt her child was coming in btw ArMan reunion.She was vry wrong in thinking of such an solution.If she cud go abt showing her tummy in all functions n marriage receptions etc without being married,then she cud vry well stay as a single mother.The whole abortion thing was quite an immature behaviour.She cud easily hav had her child n let ArMan re-unite too.There was absolute no reason for this abortion drama.
Archana and Manav ,both are behaving weirdly.Both say something,feel something else n do another thing.I agree with u tht Archu was wrong in sleeping tht way in the precap.If u divorced,u shud stay away.But I understand her problem.She divorced for this man.The reason for tht divorce is the vry reason why she is behaving all erratic.She appears vry human here but i wud like someone to counsel her n advice her...someone sensible like Dharmesh.
And yes,Archana did the best thing by not letting manav put tht sindoor.Is it some kind of joke?Savita asks manav to put sindoor,and he goes ahead with it mechanically!!!DId he say something to her?Nope...nothing.When she reminded him abthis own words on the divorce day,may I know what was Manavs' stand?Nothing.Its a insult for a woman to be a replacement bride as Archu was made to be.Its gud tht she refused.
Archana shudnt go back to Manav unless he,himself wants it and comes forward to say so without any hesitation.Not before that.