I don't feel sorry for Archana

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Posted: 15 years ago
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When I first started to watch this show I felt very sorry for Archana.I always thought why is destiny playing such a cruel game with her.After lot of difficulties her marriage was fixed with Satish.But it also broke.She married a mechanic by mistake.But accepting her fate she started to live with that man and slowly fell for him.But some misunderstandings again snatched her happiness from her.I really felt bad for the poor girl.But when Shravani walked out of Archana's lifeI thought that God has given blessings to Archana.God gave her three chances to get back her Manav.But each time she refused to take the blessings of God.I don't have a litle sympathhy for her now.She had a good chance of getting Manav back in her life without any illegal steps.God gave her many chances but this girl always denied them.I don't cry for her now,I just feel irritated when I see her.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Many share the feeling .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree.I dont find her irritating exactly though she is acting a little berserk these days. But I dont sympathize with her at all. Cannot feel sorry for a character who holds fate and Bappa accountable for her misfortunes when she has been handed multiple opportunities to change her fortunes by fate only. She chose Mahanta over her personal happiness so be it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I stopped sympathizing with her when she quit studies and job for her stupid three month stay at sasural to 'SAVE ' Manav . It was a godsend second opprtunity for EDUCATION and she gave it up to hang clothes in that rotten wooded balcony and to endure Savitas abuse as if that was the best thing on earth .From that point onward I lost sympathy , empathy aLL for this character .After that she took a spate of stupid decisions and started parading as the suffering Virgin Madonna of Dombivli . It was so simple , refusing Divorce just like she refused to give up the job the other day and telling Shravni GO TO HELL . He promised u , I DIDNT . And it takes TWO to MAKE A DIVORCE .But na .She did Shravanis AARTI and welcomed her . That cliched it for me.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Archana and Manav both lost my sympathy when they put Shravani ahead of their love and their marriage, why the importance? The whole logic that Shravani should be married to save her reputation was ridiculous considering many knew who she was pregnant for. To this day she is living with Manav and his family without being a married woman. Ekta destroyed two characters to prop up one, the divorce should have never happened! The storyline just seems wasteful when you look at it, had ArMan divorced over what Ajit did it would've made more sense
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I stopped sympathizing with her when she quit studies and job for her stupid three month stay at sasural to 'SAVE ' Manav . It was a godsend second opprtunity for EDUCATION and she gave it up to hang clothes in that rotten wooded balcony and to endure Savitas abuse as if that was the best thing on earth .From that point onward I lost sympathy , empathy aLL for this character .After that she took a spate of stupid decisions and started parading as the suffering Virgin Madonna of Dombivli . It was so simple , refusing Divorce just like she refused to give up the job the other day and telling Shravni GO TO HELL . He promised u , I DIDNT . And it takes TWO to MAKE A DIVORCE .But na .She did Shravanis AARTI and welcomed her . That cliched it for me.

KoolDi - but Archu had made up her mind to stick to her divorce,the day she came to know that Manav had given her place in the house to Shravni.She told this to Shravni clearly and asked her not to leave.
She never fought for something she felt was not hers anymore.She wanted it from Manav only when he was ready to accept that she deserved the spot.Coz its his house.
But she went thru hell to get what she thought was hers,and thatz manav's love.No way was she gonna walk away and let him think bad of her character for life.
I appreciate Archu staying back for those 3 months to prove to him her love and to herself unconsciously though I think,his love.
Between their proving ,sort of an unconscious sense of vengeance,ArMan used Shravni actually initially.I dint like that.
She wud have stopped divorce only if manav had volunteered first.She wanted his respect foremost I think,she knew she had his love.
The mahanta crap bugs me like crazy too,I fwd her bhajans and bhashans usually.Preferred her way better when she never opened her mouth,and only pouted😆
I wudnt fight a divorce either if it means losing respect.Dunno which is a better foundation,respect or love,if u can choose only one -can anyone answer that? Just curious as am not yet married.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The story line and the characters of PR don't make sense any more . I just watch it for fun and so that I can stay connected to this forum..
Despite of everything , Archu is stil lmy favourite character ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: saffiyyah

KoolDi - but Archu had made up her mind to stick to her divorce,the day she came to know that Manav had given her place in the house to Shravni.She told this to Shravni clearly and asked her not to leave.
She never fought for something she felt was not hers anymore.She wanted it from Manav only when he was ready to accept that she deserved the spot.Coz its his house.
But she went thru hell to get what she thought was hers,and thatz manav's love.No way was she gonna walk away and let him think bad of her character for life.
I appreciate Archu staying back for those 3 months to prove to him her love and to herself unconsciously though I think,his love.
Between their proving ,sort of an unconscious sense of vengeance,ArMan used Shravni actually initially.I dint like that.
She wud have stopped divorce only if manav had volunteered first.She wanted his respect foremost I think,she knew she had his love.
The mahanta crap bugs me like crazy too,I fwd her bhajans and bhashans usually.Preferred her way better when she never opened her mouth,and only pouted😆
I wudnt fight a divorce either if it means losing respect.Dunno which is a better foundation,respect or love,if u can choose only one -can anyone answer that? Just curious as am not yet married.

What she did back then and what she is doing currently , is SHAMEFUL .
Collecting memories when as u say , she decided to not fight the divorce ...........shameful..........where was her respect then ?
She shud have walked out head held high the day he told her he is marrying another woman and focussed on her studies .Let Rasika squeal to court or do whatever , he will manage . Why did she grab that excuse to go and live there like a shameless ?
Rushing to be Manavs wife and Savitas bahu ..Shameful
Pampering of Shravani .........MOST SHAMEFUL
Boot licking Savita............shameful
giving up studies as if it was kachra ....shameful
this full thing of standing with sheera , one umbrella ..........Shameful . After divorce , mind u . When the man is NOT committing , and threw her OUT long back .
All these listed actions made me NOT sympathise with her and that weepy face she pulled .First u do ur own satyanaash urself and then blame it on kismet and bAPPA , sorry . Only useless people behave like this . Hazaar opprtunities she had to resurrect her marraige for hERSELF , to do her development , to KICK sHravni OUT . But Na. She was on a high horse of mahaanta alllll along . The way she influenced her sisters to sell jewels to give Vinod money for second flat , Saffy she desrved a slap for her action , not applause .Arre if u have no brains do satyanaash of urself , why r u teaching ur sisters to be losers ? Is it a great thing to be a loser ?
Telling woman in that train ..I have bacha I have sasural ........Shameful .
This decision to marry Jaywant she will take bcoz of Shravni or Savitas blasting again will be WRONG . One shud marry only for oneself , NOt for others , EVER .
Her decisions are horrible .If she decided NOt to fight for her marraige , She shud have done it the right way .All along , she lOST DIGNITY the way she went about it .
Shravni has been described as shameless . But Shravni is not lead , who the hell is interested in her . Archu is lead . She goes on taking extremely stupid decisions .Just like she told Shravni NO for the job she shud have refused to say yes to the divorce . Thats my firm opinion .She wants Manav badly so does Manav . She shud have NOT let Manav go .Manav wud have not been able to do a Sh ......thing about it if she had firmly said No . So much tamasha doing capacity she has which flares up at occasions ......like Rasikas party or the workers where she fired Manav , why not while saying NO to the divorce ? She shud have asked Shravni .....Kyu ? Main apna suhaag tumhe kyu doon ? Tumne galti ki hai aur main apni shaadi barbaad karu , kisne bola ? Manav ne ? To theek se sun , Manav hote koun hai ye faisla akele lene waale ? Kisne di unhe ijazat ? Jab court meri ijazat maang rahi hai , Manav kya cheez hai ?
Sab ke sab seedhe ho jaate saffy . The topic starter is right ...........God gave her everyting , she THREW it away . Now also she is floundering .Boss , Dost , this and that . Grab Manav na . go , sleep with him and make him ur slave . Cry Wy . Put him in such a difficult position that he will have to choose between his own child and Sachu . Also , tell parents to take house back from Vinod as he has second flat and make them do a will in which all sisters too get share , flats r worth crores of rupees in Mumbai , why shud bro get everything when even sisters contributed equally . Of course I know shell never do it , its not her character etc , but had to vent .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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But I am supporting ur stand for Archu to get Preggy with Manav's baby Di😆Dint u see my post in ur thead 2de??
Making babies seems to be the only weapon in the show.Women r gud for nothing otherwise.
What a mentality for mumbai based CVs.We have to suppport pre-marital sex now in order to prove our points😆
But I want Archu to stand up and correct this serial's crap,and be a brave working single mom and marry only for true love,her bravado always ends up she becoming only brash
As u said,she is protagonist here,her character strenghthening is most important
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Posted: 15 years ago
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saffy im purposefully making that demand . With SARCASM . Defeat Shravni at her own game . Savita too .It was Savitas BS condition that DONT consummate which WRECKED Archus life . Had Manav slept with her , he wud be heavily wrought with guilt before throwing her over for a baby . As it happens she was virgin , and her virginity proved to be her CURSE . The world is not good and fullof moral rectitude , to survive in it , one has to learn to play the game.

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