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No Tanya dear , I must say I am surprised at your non relenting and unforgiving stand where mistakes r concerned ....ur supposed to be the Softie of the forum and I , the Hard one.😆 . As i see it , Mistakes r of various types and do desrve forgiveness . There r some which are so bad that in this life they cannot get forgiveness but even we pray for them . For example , murderers or robbers etc . . Shravani's mistake was a mistake of youth . A moment of passion for which she paid dearly .In my eyes she is NOT a terrible person who 'nneds to pay ' needs to pay . No . Young people do mistakes , its our duty to reprimand them and help them to walk on a straight path.......not to condemn them and say U did it , now u pay . Flogging them to death is not right , this is NOT the stone age that a woman shud be stoned for having premarital sex or a baby out of wedlock .She decided to bring a life in the world , not kill it for HER mistake..........it is commendable . She didnrt come between Archu Manav .they were finished much before that .Anyways I wont go into that part . Point is , mistakes of youth shud be forgiven . . Then we see Ajit's mistake . Much more horrible than Shravnis . He sent an innocent gal to a brothel , made her badnaam . He raped a gal . He was a horrible man , but at some point he changed . Gods whiplash made him introspective and he realized his follies . I feel Introspective people need forgiveness too . Coz not many introspect themselves , it is a rare quality . Many die without even realising they did wrong , such is the intoxication of arrogance . The chance that Archu gave Ajit shows her soft heart . Much as I blast her , it touched my heart . Forgiving the man who gave her character a bad name is indeed a big thing and perhaps we shall see good coming out of this . She will be rewarded for this action . . Then we see Rasikas and Manjus mistake . No youthful fallacy there , no introspection there . Both r mature , and destroy innocent lives with full knowledge [ so did Ajit] . But Ajit introspected himself and did soul searching , Rasika does not have a soul at all , she seems to have sold it to the devil . Manju is fast following her on the same track . While Ajit is trying to make it upto Vandu , Rasika Manju still harass Vandu for no reason . They STILL want to destroy Archu even more and cannot bear her success while Ajit was genuinely happy for her success .Infact Ajit did NOT mind that Dharmesh refused him a job , he was more worried that Archu may feel bad .Thats REALLLY repenting or changing . And so , while I wud forgive Ajit for attempting to change , I wud NOT forgve Rasika or Manju as they Enjoy seeing innocents die a painful death .
It all depends on the mistake . Nothing is hard and fast ..that if u do a mistake , rectify it alone only .I dont believe in such rigidity at all . If God was this rigid , we wud have a miserable life .....as it is , he takes hundreds of our mistakes on his head and forgives us . Thats what helps us to get along in life , his eternal mercy . Sorry for sermonizing .
Archu shud be forrgiven too , is my opinion . Yes what she did is wrong but she has a heart of gold . She doesnt desrve ruthlessness coz she never was ruthless herself with anyone.I hope Ajit saves her .
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Bhabhi Ji Ghar Pe Hain?
