Originally posted by: unknown18
U only become the BAHU if u get married to the guy! U cannot change the meanings of relations. Y I think she is shameless is bcoz she is living there on Manav's expense. She is very educated then y cant she go nd get a job or something. She even calls herself Manav's wife. Now u will say thats fine too but if u r calling her the bahu then she is the mother of Sachin's child, not Manav's, then she shud call herself Sachin's wife, not Manav's wife, nd then she can b the bahu of the house.
Ok listen .
She wud have become Bahu long back if Archu had not come barging in at the wrong time.
Now it seems Kaka has died .
The Deshmkh family accepted her as bahu coz Sachin died and his seed was in her womb which they wanted as part of their life.
She did not upset Archu's apple cart ..........Archu's marraige was already broken . However after coming back , by constantly throwing herself in manavs arms and rushing to take responsibility Archu definetely upset HEr arrangement with Manav .
Then she went away ........not once but twice .
This Archu went and brought her back .
And now she says My bacha . my sasuraal and latest ..MY BHAGWAAN ?
Before calling her shameless [ and here i am not telling u sid , i have noticed many use that word] ...................Wud she be less shameful if she had chosen to abort baby ?
And to bring baby in the world she was practical enough to accept help that was given to her VOLUNTARILY by deshmukh family ..........this was shameless ?
And even I have postponed my PHD for my twins. Many women do it ...her delivery was difficult she had no mother , is this the time do do job when child needs her ? Thats her choice , many women opt NOT to do jobs that time , its perfectly acceptable.
What was NOT acceptable was Archu giving up her studies job when clearly Manav was telling her U GO AFTER 3 MONTHS .What is NOT acceptable is ARchu giving up second time . EVEN THIS JOB once more yet again when LIfe gave her an opprtunity Yet again . Archu has no child nor a marraige , yet she chooses to hanker after BHAGWAN and destroy all lifes opportunities .