Originally posted by: nikitagmc
Kools, what I find wrong here is what I always pointed out all the time ever since this Manav-Shravani track started. Archu can move on- she is the dedicated types. If Sulochana emotionally blackmails her even once, she will agree for marriage and once married , she WILL do justice to her marriage. I have no doubts that she will be happy. And I will be happy for her.
Where does that leave Manav? Why should he always find his happiness in others all the time. The one thing that has been consistent about his character is that he has never been selfish, not even once. If he has been bad or unjust, it was for others, not for himself. At the end of the day he is just remembering the past and being happy remembering it (cos my 6th sense believes Manav- Shravani are not married and this time Manav refused). Here much of the fault is his as well, no one asked him to be so selfless, but I don't want that for such dumb behavior he should pay such a big price.
I want to see Manav happy too. Okay get Archu married, but then show that Manav is happy for her. That he works hard and his garage gets bigger and bigger. That he develops a very nice bond with PB, who over the years realises how much his Kaka (not Papa) did for him and feels proud. That he gets Shravani married to a good guy and wishes her the best and thus fulfills the promise he had given Girishji that he would take care of her happiness. That he takes care of his parents and STAYS HAPPY for their sake and for his own. I don't want to see him crying for Archu after she gets married, which many people want. This is too much for someone who never got a single thing he wanted in his life. Rather I want that he understands he was wrong and remembers the good times he had with Archana and lives life SOLELY ON HIS TERMS, not for any other zimmedari. Show him doing social work in an NGO and enjoying it. Show him jovial, surrounded by friends and family who realise his worth- even Archu looks at him from a distance and feels proud and happy for him. I just don't want him with Shravani in a pathetic compro marriage. Better leave him alone. And I don't want to see him crying for Archana like a devdas after he gets married. Get Archana married, but then make Manav happy too, that's it.
Niki
Manav made his choice and was very firm about it . This divorce was HIS choice . Manav is a stronger character than Archna . He made the choice of a responsibility [ PB} and did not budge from it till the end . Archu went with the divorce coz she is totally weak in love with Manav ......what he wants that I want is her concept of love .Now inspite of seeing this ....that Archu loves him this much that she is supporting the divorce for HIS sake , even then manav did not change his decision .............that means something , hai na ? He is not stupid , not a fool , not weak and even NOT a coward although i called him that in mock anger up in this thread . He is a very , very fIRM man . Unswayed by emotional bonds , physical beauty , personal happiness , he has the immense strength to focus on a goal and not to BUDGE from it . Right at the railway station he told Archu , we both have to pay for some mistakes and move ON . He never touched her although she threw herself in his arms , never even considered going back to her or encouraged her in ANY WAY . Consistently he told her , U go , move on .Even in the train he told her , if Vinod is going , U study , take up job . Manav is very practical .
He has the capacity to bless Archus marraige coz he is NOT the ordinary kind of guy who will be jealous and throw tantrums [ just like Archu ] . Remember how he signed on divorce papers , letting her go for SAtish , thinking she will have better future there .
And so i feel , like Kasauti Zindagi ki , they shud show Archu moving on .We can see tracks of Archus hubby being totally opposite of Manav ...........hot headed , passionate , possesive , loving her crazily .Manavs love is calm like the deep sea .They can show two kinds of love and contrasting characters and it will be interesting to see it . They can show us Archu constantly seeing this diiffrence . They can show tracks of what u want .........Manavs personal progress ...........becoming owner of a chain of garages or devising an automobile part and getting a patent for it , loving the PB , educating him by sending him abroad , being a very fAIR husbnd to Shravni . We can see a wiser , mature Shravni . We can see him guiding Archu or vice versa when they bump into each other or when one understands the other is in crisis .We can see Archu getting a daughter and she marrying Sachu or something and this beautiful bond blooming in maturity and serial ending . There r hundreds of avenues to bring PR back on track .
What wud be worthless wud be to show Archu hovering around Manavs marraige and crying like before .That is a SHUDDER SHUDDER .