Hope's Hopeless Ramblings (June 22-24, 2010) - Page 3

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: umayal

Hai Hope di.
Again Excellent work👏. All your ramblings were nice. It will never fail to impress me and entertain me.
So sweet of you to add for all the epi's even though you cant do it on that day because of your busy work.



Hey umi:

good to see you here. how'z it going?

are you sending my Kools your Hail Kool di via PM? you know she loves getting it with her morning chai.

Hope
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ya.Fine Di. Going well. But have lots of work to do. Still I took a leave and going to My home town😊. I have to PM Kool Di. Miss her badly 😔. Going home,so surely i will get more time to be online,so surely I will PM kool di and reply here too.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: stillhopeful



Hey Anu:

Did not see you on previous ramblings hon? What happened? went silent or what?

Anu on days I don' do ramblings I still come online and post on Tanyadi's thread

These days PR is draggin again live before divorce. it almost looks like one the marriage track is dealt with these people have no other creative plots.

you know I found that odd too that he does not have her number on speed dial. please I would have my hubby's number as No. 1 and my dad's number as No. 2. So maybe he does not because he does not know how to use these functions on a cell phone.

anyways, good to see u back

Hope



Hey Hope,

I was in India for almost a month and traveling on the days you posted the ramblings. So though I read them did not have time to post anything. Now back to the US.

Seriously these days its difficult to watch PR. I type PR june on youtube and then end up watching 2009 episodes. ArMan chemistry has been totally destroyed and it was the reason I started watching PR in the first place. If Manchoo wedding happens, its WU for me again. I simple cant tolerate Shravani! I know ArMan are very much responsible for how she has turned out to be, but come on yaar, you were supposed to be a sensible, educated girl! And her screeching 🤢. I have to say, this girl Pooja needs to learn how to act..in order to act possessive and selfish you dont necessarily have to act like you are in a horror film!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Gauri:

first toh🤗 🤗

I am missing Mumbai rains and a garma garam chai too.😃

Seeing Shravani these days just puzzles me. To think that Manav is still going to marry her after seeing the true girl within repeatedly baffles me. I mean would you really sacrifice so much for an ingrate. You pretty much have to be a spirit or something to make that kind of sacrifice, hai na?

I am feeling really bad for Satish. Really bad, he took on his mom for Varhsu and now varshu is misbehaving. She is going to face his displeasure and not like it. I am sure. SHe is so confident of his love when she loses it, she will be shattered and then let her hold her atma-samaan like a fluffy pillow and hug it to death.

I am getting reallt angry with women these days who keep harping on atma-samaan in a defiant vein. respect comes with humility, loss of vanity and a consideration of others, especially when you are married. If she has this attitude she should move out and live alone with her hubby. No matter how mean Bhavna is, I think SATISH deserves a peaceful life.

Truly well said !!!!
Its not only women .Tthese days many often tend to equate self-respect with showing disrespect to others, which is not the same thing. True respect comes from the heart and is earned , just like love. Humility does not mean lack of self-respect.The line separating vanity and arrogance is rather thin, causing great harm to budding relationships.
Varsha should not let her relationship with Satish get ruined by showing disrepect to his mother when everyone has acknowledged the mistakes made and apologized.
In life, there is really nothing like teaching so and so a lesson. As for every lesson we teach others there are many we should learn ourselves.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishwap



I am getting reallt angry with women these days who keep harping on atma-samaan in a defiant vein. respect comes with humility, loss of vanity and a consideration of others, especially when you are married. If she has this attitude she should move out and live alone with her hubby. No matter how mean Bhavna is, I think SATISH deserves a peaceful life.

Truly well said !!!!
Its not only women .Tthese days many often tend to equate self-respect with showing disrespect to others, which is not the same thing. True respect comes from the heart and is earned , just like love. Humility does not mean lack of self-respect.The line separating vanity and arrogance is rather thin, causing great harm to budding relationships.
Varsha should not let her relationship with Satish get ruined by showing disrepect to his mother when everyone has acknowledged the mistakes made and apologized.


Hi Vishwap:

yes I agree with you.

I was brought up in a houselhold pretty similar in values to karanjkars.

I was the youngest daughter and so very very indulged. If anyone had a fake sense of entitlement and this notion of vanity-masquerading as self-respect that was me hands-down.

My hubby choose to marry me though I was from a different community and this did not go well with his mother whom he loves. But he made this decision because he said he was sure I was the one for him. I was very uppity before marriage but when I moved for a month with my in-laws I realized if I want my man happy I needed to wisen up and be tactful about which battles to fight and which ones to drop. It makes my husband's life easier and our relationship stronger.

I too have slipped up on ocassion and seen my hubby's disagreement and stress but then I immediately try to self-correct. this does not make me doormat. women today should understand this. Parents and in-laws if not abusive should not be disrespeected in the name of self-respect and entitlement. the scars of their age and experience make them worthy of the respect badge.

I would however not hesitate from experiencing and vocalizing some displeasure if my hubby or somebody else of my own generation did something disrespectful towards me.

But in my personal opinion taking the higher moral ground always gains you respect of others as opposed to chanting the "Respect Me" nara from rooftops and making it a do or die issue which Varsha is doing right now. it shows a great degree of immaturity in my opinion.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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As usual, great ramblings Hope . You are so right , these two are talking way more sense now .

Archana espacially is talking less nonsense and more practical .
And yes Manav should think once if it is crime to think of your own happiness at the end of the day .
Hope the current track is so stupid that I don't even know how to talk about it .
Hats off to you yaar , you still trying to find whatever humour you can in it . It's guys like you that make PR tolerable these days ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

As usual, great ramblings Hope . You are so right , these two are talking way more sense now .

Archana espacially is talking less nonsense and more practical .
And yes Manav should think once if it is crime to think of your own happiness at the end of the day .
Hope the current track is so stupid that I don't even know how to talk about it .
Hats off to you yaar , you still trying to find whatever humour you can in it . It's guys like you that make PR tolerable these days ..



tanyadi:

first toh congrats on your new house. mubarak ho mubarak ho.

Secondly, I find it futile to talk about ArMan so I am glad that the SaSha track is progressing. it gives me something to talk about, na

Don't u think that they are pushing the atma samaan thing too far

are she is acting like a little kid with her expressions and behavior.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi Hope,

Bull's eye👏...evrything u told is true...actually the epi hav becum so boring dat im forgetting the previous ones which never happened wid me before.....i truely badly miss the old PR forum😔 and today im missing it more donno why😒

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hema:

I totally agree with you.

the Old PR forum had spicy debates. you know Nikki, Kool, Tanya, GM and all of us picked a side of debate and went at it as loggerheads.

We cared about the relationships goofs the leads make.

Now the interest has been destroyed so as a result no point in debate, right

The magic of ongoing debate is what is missing hon. we all just come her and do gupshup but no fire no passion. we have all become disappointed.

Anyways, i don't think Kools is coming back. but hopeful some debate will come from the Sasha pair

I might even stop writing mockign posts and write serious posts again on the Sasha pair, let's see.

Hope
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i know Hope...the only reason of me being in IF is PR Forum...i never wanted to join before for obvious reasons...i know all of u longer than u know me...but as u said the show spoiled it all😡..evrybody is der but the prevoius excitement and enthusiasm is missing🥺

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