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Guys ........I have been reading the furious reactions to the manav Shravni hug scene and I wud like to point out somethings to u ........... . 1] The hug was neither sexual , nor passionate .
Infact guys u should be very relaxed as this character called Manav LACKS passion or sexual urges . He was simply born without that kind of DNA. He can NEVER feel it . { even in later life , with Archu when he gets back with her ] . All he apparently feels are urges to do good to society by axing his own feet on occasions .The rest of the time he is just quiet . Why r u guys running after him with a hammer like this . I mean LOOK at his character .
The hug itself was an on the spur of the moment thing [ not planned to make Archu jealous by knowing in advance she was watching ] ..............more of an emotional moment totally from Shravni's side ALONE. If u guys can remove the Shravni Hate 3 D glasses for just one second U will notice that
a] Till now there r hardly any touching scenes between Manav and Shravni ........except for the hand holding and the abortion stoppage hug .........both extremely human reactions and NOT at all sexual or passionate .
b] Shravni huuged him emotionally as a fiancee ........a first time pregger woman , now in her last month , suddenly becoming emotional at realising how much he stood by her thru Thick and thin . Plz note that much before Archna came into his life , she knew him as a kid too . We r NOT living in the Victorian era ......cant a fiancee simply give an emotional hug to her wud to be while having a moment ? This is the twenty first century u know. I know u guys hate the way she treats Archu but Im strictly speaking of the Hug here . The room was open and she had no 'trapping Manav' intentions in her mind prior to the hug at all .
c] Shravni shud not have any emotions , any moments , is an amazing demand . Shud the full duniya be like Manav and Archu who are devoid of human feelings ? The hug was more of an emotional cognizance of a wonderful human being who gave her support when she needed it the most . Whats so terrible about it ?
2] About the 'UNFAIRNESS" to Archu : Well , I hate to say it and be the bad one AGAIN but ..........Has anyone told her or forced her to TAKE THIS ? She has watched sindoor being put , him getting engaged , them holding hands , Girish suggesting her to GO , Manav giving Shravni money , YET SHE DOES NOT GO . Inspite of watching the hug , Archu wants to live there and do the Baby Shower .God Bharai preparations . Any message here ? Plenty........
a] Archu has a serious problem accepting reality and needs therapy
b] Her self esteem is abominably LOW [ in fact ZERO].
A lot of excuses r advanced for Archu saying oh , she still feels Manav loves her coz Manav too , returned her vibes 'SOMEWHAT' . This is , in my opinion , a grossly unfair and biased blame on Manav .He is weak , stupid and many things but he did NOT lead Archu on or even lie to her ONCE about getting back .He constantly told her there was NO HOPE or POSSIBILITY of them getting back together EVER . She threw herself twice in his arms , he did not return the hug , even on Varshas wedding day , he did NOT PLAY HUSBAND even for a moment when Archu hugged him[ that too btw was not a sexual hug but simply having a moment] ...........that well his feet are grounded in REALITY . Im not talking of whether he is doing right or wrong here , Im merely stating the facts . It is Archu who very obviously CANNOT deal with reality and has problems inspite of being constantly told that EVERYTHING HAS CHANGED . Without parents to knock sense into her and drag her home , she is fumbling and floundering in an emotional quagmire created by HERSELF . Its Hi Time she recognizes REALITY .
Archu's unconscious attempt to stand on the chair once more after having such a serious accident once in that rotten wooded balcony is proof of the fact that she says one thing , feels another and then deals with her confused emotions and helplessness in an unconscious way ...........like unconsciously attempting suicide or wanting to be damaged once more to gain Manav's attention and closeness or smiling amidst brimming tears and insisting on masochistic painful jobs like wanting to go around giving Shravni's baby shower invitations inspite of MAnav not liking it , Shravni hating it , Girish displeased , and Damo and Savita dissuading her saying BE NORMAL . Infact , Archu's attempt at unconscious suicide or body damage and giving Manav those answers was VERY PATHETIC . It is oh so NOT a thing for Archu fans to be proud of . The girl needs a mother to take her out of there , not just from there , but OUT OF DOMBIVLI for some days , to a village or something where she can deal with her emotions in private , under counselling by sensible eLDERS .
This is NOT hate for Archu on my part . I feel she needs to grow as a character by talking positive dialogues and not pathetically hanging around like this like a leech , it is SHAMEFUL . Someone once said Ekta reads us and purposefully does the opposite in this show .........we want ARMAN to be together she keeps them APART . Well the same goes for what she made of ARchu .Reading your constant comments on Shravni as "SHAMELESS" Ekta decided to make Archu 'SHAMELESS' .She has made her shameless in love ............just see how she is clinging on .
3] The best solution for this is Archu going home , resuming studies , doing job , and RISING even above Shravi who was once her Guru . I wud love to see her that way . They can show a complete change in persona ..like away with dowdy bordered saris , wearing chiffons and sleeveless , open hair , talking smartly to executives in ENGLISH [ wanna see her firing in english ?] and absolutely outshining Manav Shravni when they bump in parties . But inwardly remaining the same loving person who greets Damodar affectionately to the suprise of people , who touches Savitas feet with love , gives Shravi a ROYAL complex , and is every inch a son to Sulo and Manohar to the extent that Rasika is intimidated of her standing for MS president chair . But if I say this I ask for the divorce and u guys dont want it . Well so be it , Show the reunion .
4 ] Savita telling her all this now that U STOP the divorce is UNFAIR to Archu . NO WAY . Some days back this woman was telling Shravni to get Manav by hook and crook today she is doing about turn and telling Archu to take the responsibility of saying NO to the divorce .Sorry Lady , but ur being unconsciously CHAALU here and making Archu the scapegoat . To remain NOT AT FAULT in Girish, Shravnis eyes , This lady , instead of shouldering FULL responsibility of the Manav Archu break up and stopping the divorce HERSELF is staying hidden behind the curtains and advising Archu to become the bad and shameless one in saying NO to the divorce . Archu shud simply get up and GO HOMe .If divorce stops , it better be someone else .......not Archu plz .
Bappa Element in PR is shown in SICK way . Two extremely unhappy marraiges have been shown to be blessed by Bappa in that very Dombivli temple
ArMAN marraige which has been unhappy , and so abusive that a girl will tremble to set foot in matrimony
Vandu Ajit marraige which took place right under Bappa's trunk .........infact Vandu accepted the proposal in the temple only and was married off in same temple............look at that AWFUL marraige . She is being RAPED daily and tortured .
If Gods blessing brings forth such marraiges , better to do court marraiges without it . PR creatives have made MOCKERY of BAPPA by showing that he , who is hailed as remover of obstacles and misery , blessed SUCH IMPOTENT MARRAIGES..........one not even consummated , one having DAILY RAPE .
Hope his wrath falls on Ektas Creative teams and PR fLOPS .
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