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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

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I am sorry Kool , we will have to agree to disagree here . We have different POV shere ....In my eyes , both Manav and Archana were bonding with each other big time in the last 2 months .....

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

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And most definitely Ii do not think of her asa pathetic creature , she is going through a very bad phaseof her life but I am very proud of her ....I do not find her pathetic at all .

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

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The thing is Manav never ever acknowledged Archna as his responsibility too as u said it . NEVEr .The moment the pregnancy occured he is repeating like parrot that Shravni is his jimmedari .It is sooooo clear , its the baby he wants , his brother's baby , dear to HIS MOM .

As far as Ur point of Sulo coming and talking to Archu is concerned ........She shud not talk gently but give her a resounding SLAP . Where the hell is she , when she is needed now ?How can she allow her daughter to lose her dignity like this ? This story started as a story of Mother daughter bond . well nowdays Mother daughter hardly care for each other . Daughter didnt even go out to help her asthmatic mom with sisters wedding and chose to nurse Shravni coz daughter has frankly lost it . Mother is now free , after second daughters wedding , but She is still not cornering this strange first daughter and having a heart talk with her .

Any mother who cared wud say enough is enough , if u dont come Ill kill myself , and DRAG a daughter like Archna home .

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#64

even though I should be angry with Manav today , somehow I am not. Things happen in life where people are not in control ...He is weak but a good man ...

he should not have bonded so much with Archu but sometimes when you are in love then not everything done has logic to it .

I wish him luck actually ....

I only want one thing from him ...to tell Archana that they cannot be friends and that she has to do a complete cut off ...

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Tanyaz
I am sorry Kool , we will have to agree to disagree here . We have different POV shere ....In my eyes , both Manav and Archana were bonding with each other big time in the last 2 months .....

Ok , lets agree to disagree and though i dont have it I do know what ur POV is . Even if u saw them bonding BIG TIME in last 2 months , was it BIG ENOUGH to make Manav change his decision ?U tell me that first Tanya ., ...........Has he changed his decision ?Toh Bhaad mein jaaye aisa bonding ! Remember we both had argued with Akash sauing bhaad mein jaaye aisa man ka rishta ? Arre if the so called bonding is not bringing forth any concrete development , DROP IT !

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addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Even seeing the wedding won't snap her out of it as SHE IS IN DENIAL . What makes u think seeing the wedding will snap her out or help her to get over it when seeing Shravni inside the house , the sindoor scene and engagement didnt ? I bet u , this woman will run after the wedding to decorate their SR bed and still be a part of their lives .

Nothing will make her move on as SHE DOES NOT WANT TO MOVE ON . What Im saying is this ............instead of behaving in this stupid , undignified , irritating manner and giving mixed signals all the time why doesnt she simply say NO to the divorce ? Like Vinod , Satish , Vaishu suggested ? Whats so wrong in that ?Shravnis honor has gone down the drain as it is as The society knows now that she is unwed mom . Archna can easily say to Manav .......Sorry , since that question does NOT arise anymore now , Im refusing divorce .MIlk Sop Hubby will initially sulk but eventually come around and all will be KHUSH . Let Girish go with Shravni and PB to states na . Archu can think about having her OWN BABIES .Anything wrong with this ?

And Nope , Manav HAS NOT NURTURED this relationship AT ALL .. From beginning to end , He told her WE r over .She threw herself in his arms twice , he didnt even hug her back . She dragged him publicly in mandap , She was not hearing a single word her sis was saying ........today too she was trembling and babbling emotionally while he quietly looked on .Even in his viral fever he was controlled . It is Archna who comes across as a desperate woman who needs to get a grip .And what relationship , how much is she gonna weave dreams .From the first time she stepped in house till now Manav is sitting quiet as he does NOT wanna give her ANY HOPE . His control is REMARKABLE and Archna shud learn something from him . The way she has clung on to him , any man wud have taken her to his garage or outside sumwhere and deflowered her . Truly . Its Men who r supposed to be the less control creatures . In PR , story is diffrent .

As far as this big relation with Savita goes ..........remember , Savita is having sympathy for her but thats it .Beyond that even she is firm ...she is NOT telling Shravni to go and that Archna will remain Bahu .manav and Deshmukhs r JUST NOT BUDGING . Am only telling facts as i see them .

Kools i agree with u that archana maybe is in denial....that is y i am hoping they dont show her as having some emotional probs later, however, how is her behavior undignified...? what she did for u to feel that..is she fighting for manav ....doesnt she always pacify shravani...becoming overwhelmed with emotions after seeing ur hubby being so kind and caring to ur family, after learning he took money (i hated that) to save ur family...how is that undignified..please be reminded that manav is her huband and all know she loves him deeply and that is no joke...U feel manav never reciprocated, again we differ, that one scene when he deliberately and lovingly woke her...justifies his immense love for his wife...expressed differently..he definitley nurtured his marriage...we all watched at his subtle smiles and joy when sav aai would grant them outdoor trips (together and alone)...i need no more evidence as to his love and his want for his wife.... (like him going and spending time at her fam? for these reasons i always call him spineless...he wants her but he is too proud ...he is not a fighter..

I would hate for archana nowwwwwwwwww to recant on divorce..if manav wants it, give him...i always made it clear even though i feel that someone will stop it...it would mean nothing for me if MANAV is not the one to say NOOOO..period..

Manav is a pure gentleman so he wont do anything like what u suggested....she is clinging to him cause she loves him....and he is still her husband...if she continues to act same way after divorce then u will have an ally in deni....no doubt....cause i hate such women...

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tarantulla_p

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Posted: 15 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
tarantulla

The thing is Manav never ever acknowledged Archna as his responsibility too as u said it . NEVEr .The moment the pregnancy occured he is repeating like parrot that Shravni is his jimmedari .It is sooooo clear , its the baby he wants , his brother's baby , dear to HIS MOM .

As far as Ur point of Sulo coming and talking to Archu is concerned ........She shud not talk gently but give her a resounding SLAP . Where the hell is she , when she is needed now ?How can she allow her daughter to lose her dignity like this ? This story started as a story of Mother daughter bond . well nowdays Mother daughter hardly care for each other . Daughter didnt even go out to help her asthmatic mom with sisters wedding and chose to nurse Shravni coz daughter has frankly lost it . Mother is now free , after second daughters wedding , but She is still not cornering this strange first daughter and having a heart talk with her .

Any mother who cared wud say enough is enough , if u dont come Ill kill myself , and DRAG a daughter like Archna home .

Fact is Manav and his family took Archana for granted all along. Its unbelievable that she ceased to be his wife when they had their first major crisis. I think deep down Manav always believed Archana was too good for him and probably put himself out of her league always.

Yeah, where is her family when she needs them? She is being put through real sh*t by everyone incl herself and they are all fretting about Varsha's self created problems? Why is no thought spared about why Archana should have been abandoned by Manav for no fault of hers? No one, including Vinod and Vaishu have actually done anything but claim to pray for them. Why doesnt someone take her out for a movie or someplace cheerful so she can think straight??

I see Archana's actions as desperation for love. She knows she will have to leave the house because she knows Manav will never stop her. So she wants to live all her time at her in laws' to the hilt - the sad thing for her, is her replacement is already here and cant stand her and not one person is asking the replacement to back off. Not one. I think she has been ditched royally by Manav. She never had a chance with him since he gave Shravani his word. All that she did was a total waste of energy and time. It is for this reason that I think her depiction is so wrong. She is the suffering party all the time and comes back for more..what kind of entertainment is this?

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
And most definitely Ii do not think of her asa pathetic creature , she is going through a very bad phaseof her life but I am very proud of her ....I do not find her pathetic at all .

Proud of what ? Of tolerating all this rubbish ? Tanya if ur proud of her finally being able to change Savita I wish to point out to u that Savita DID NOT CHANGE due to Archus goodness , but bcoz her daughter suffered .Even prior to Vandus marraige Archu had been very good to Savita..defending her in front of chawl ladies , this and that , but Savita was very arrogant . She cared too hoots about Archus defence , goodness , virtues . She changed due to her own personal tragedy .

Ok be proud of her , ur her fan . But Ill be proud of her when she snaps out of this , wipes her tears and decides to do job and school .