Daily Discussion Thread : 11th May - Page 6

If their bond is so strong right now and if they are so much in love then it is not only Archana who was the one running after him ....

Archana is not the one who is running after a man who doesn't want her .....

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Manav won't push Archana out of his life completely, no matter how hard they tried the bond between them only grew in the time they've been given leading upto their divorce. Archana and Manav will remain friends and will live with the reality that they will lead seperate lives. It is sad really, they both love each other yet are sacrificing their love for Shravani. Girish and Shravani should be ashamed of themselves!

I agree with you . It is very sad indeed . The best way to get over a relationship is a clean break. But this is a different situation. The couple concerned is so head over heels in love and the only factors that have pulled them away are external factors ..

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Even though he never made a commitment to Archana , Manav sure did nurture his relationship with her in the last 2 months , they both did .

That is how I have seen things ...

yes , Archana right now is at the lowest point of her life and is not behaving in a sane manner . perhaps that is why savita told her that she is not to take no decisions on her own ...

No , I don't want her to be friends . What ever made you think that . But what I am saying that because manav was constantly telling her that they will always be there for each other as friends , she believes this friends BS.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

If their bond is so strong right now and if they are so much in love then it is not only Archana who was the one running after him ....

Manav is kind of responsible for Archana's behavior too..After all, he did go out of his way to help her family and everybody including her read love for Archana in his actions. Further, he pushed Shravani away a couple of times to let Archana rule the kitchen etc. He did send mixed signals. Yes, he never said he will not divorce her but until Girish came back, he didnt say Archana go away either.

I am not very impressed with Savita's actions. Too little, too late is how I see it. All this sweet talk for last 20 or so days does not wipe away all her abuse. She is being touted as a golden hearted foul mouthed character but I didnt see any golden heart before Vandita's marriage.

The crux of the matter is, should both Archana and Shravani live in the same house anymore? Neither wants to give up. Deep down, Archana wants to hold on to her position as Manav's wife and the DIL till the last minute while not appearing to be threatening to Shravani. Shravani reads the situation between Archana and Manav very clearly. She knows they love each other, she knows if she is gone for 10 days, Manav will be making moon eyes at Archana and forget all about her and the baby. She wants to be married to Manav at all costs and since he committed to it, she will do anything for it.

Its really Manav's call now. He can probably see how difficult it is for Archana in this situation - he should talk to her and let her off gently. This is not a time for mute observation. He took the decision but she is suffering the consequences, she is as much his responsibility as Shravani is going to be. I think its a huge failure on his part the way he let his wife be treated. if Archana was my sister, I would say even if the guy loved you more than the world, he is not worth it because he never stood up for her against any of her abuse.

Deni , I also don't want her to have anything to do with him but the way she is talking ...of course she will stay like a friend ...it is Manav who has been leading her on in this strange way ....that he will be a son to her family , that he will never let any harm come to her sisters , that he will always be friends ....