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Posted: 15 years ago
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I completely agree with your views tarantulla..........u cud not have put it in a better way .Totally my views , by god !
One more thing . Archana sleeping on the floor in the kitchen in Manav's house and her house r totally different things . In many middle class households , due to scarcity of space , people put their bedding on the floor and sleep there . I understand that totally .
But In Manav's house , she was banished to the kitchen as an INSULT . No one can deny this........this is a fact . Jo kuch Bacha kucha hai Kha Lo ..Savita had told her nastily . Phokat mein Khayegi kya , kaam kar she had said . Well , Archu was working even in her moms house .Is this the same thing ?
Manavs house has three rooms ........The living room , the bedroom and one room for Manav........It is actually a mini flat [ real chawls r one roomed only]. Kaka Baba sleep in living room . Savita , Shravni and Vandu slept in one room and Manav alone slept in one room . Only Archna slept in kitchen . She was NOT GIVEN A BEDDING OR A MATTRESS but slept like a servant on a chatai only . They cud have shown that Manav volunteers to sleep in living room with the men , and offers the bed to Archu as she shud live with some dignity there during her court stay , but they didnt show it .
It is not the sleeping on floor that offends me as a viewer .Im from a traditional marathi household and have often slept on the flooor , giving up the bed to other desrving family members ....like my grandmother or polio stricken sister . Sometimes , even my elder brother who I simply loved , and where I slept didnt matter . But the way it was shown .........Eat food in kitchen , NOT AT THE DINING TABLE , SLEEP IN THE KITCHEN , NOT WITH US was what bothered me like hell as a viewer . It was abusive . It was not about space ........it was done as an insult . Karanjkars have two roomed home too , but no one sleeps near the kitchen platform as in Mumbai , most of the time , SERVANTS sleep there , typically in the kitchen on a chatai , with just a pillow . Of course if the house has just one room and a kitchen , perhaps family members do sleep there too as no option is there .But in Archus case , it was definetely an insult and cannot be justfied in any way . This is purely my personal opinion , no offense .
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Posted: 15 years ago
#62

I know that Savita treated Archana badly and the reason behind asking her to sleep on kitchen floor, that's why I wrote that was an arrangement from before ( when Savita hated Archana) that is being continued due to space problem now. My argument was on sleeping on floor not being qualified for respect thing. Manav himself slept in gallery outside the house before marriage. And we have drifted from initial topic of why Archana in wrong in defending Shravani and what choices characters in serial made and why to what is being potrayed in serial and what formula is being used.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tarantulla_p

Shravani's honor?? I think that is a question for her dad and her not Manav or Archana. In addition, giving a child a father's name has very little to do with marrying the mother. Shravani could have stayed in the house with Manav and Archana and had Manav and Archana legally adopt the child. Amicable solution for everyone. However, something like that will happen in real life but it doesnt provide the juice for a TRP topping drama.

How this question is not for Manav when Shravani honor is in stake coz of Manav's brother? Would Girishji send his only daughter to live in Deshmukh house as Sachin's widow? What kind of life she will have in that house, wouldn't a father worry about it?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tarantulla_p

I think we both agree the decision to marry Shravani was made under tremendous stress and no clear thinking on everyone's part , in addition to it being a vengeful act on Savita's part. This smells like a huge mistake. Supporting a mistake of this proportion is a mistake. Justifying it is worse.

After that fact that Manav promised marriage to Shravani and Shravani's pregnancy was advancing on that promise, Archana had no other option but to support it as Manav was not ready to take her back. She sees that it was due to her Sachin died and Shravani lost her fiance and she is trying to make amends and bring some happiness in Deshmukh family in form of child.
Edited by Arien_03 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: piya_10



Manav knew he ws sick, so he wanted Archu by his side not due to any selfish reason bt he jst wanted to see his wife's face.....i guess when u r not feeling well u do like being with yr loved ones yr family.....nd the background song with flashbacks demonstrated the fact that he is human after all with real emotions .....my eyes became moist when I saw tears rolling down his cheecks remembering those beautiful moments......nd scared that he might lose Archu forever .....as I hve said before Archu is quite strong here or at least pretending to be ....bt Manav is completely broke.....he got sick at the thought of losing Archu what wll happen when he'll actually hve to let her go....he's dreading the day 😭



Tanya, i loved it that he woke her up😆 See we want to see him going to Archu nd want her. He did exactly that.

Piya, I think he wanted to spend some time with her as he had such a baddddd dream He didnt want her just bcoz he was sick. I think he didnt even know himself that he was sick. He was too scared with the thought of losing Archu. He WANTED to see her nd hav her by his side nd he HAD to b with her at that time. He didnt care abt anything else (thats what I love) Even when she was taking care of him he was thinking abt all the past moments bcoz of the dream he just had nd the thought of losing Archu, not bcoz he was sick nd he needed someone. He wud hav gone to his aai if he just needed someone bcoz he was feeling sick[LOL[. He just wanted to b with Archu. shayad beemar na hota to....ahum... 😍 😆 Archu ne saray plans kharab kerdiye😆 remember how she was standing with the pillow on their SR as Manav closed the door nd turned around. I just loved the look on his face 🤣 kya kya socha hoga bechare ne 😆
nd ur eyes only became moist??!! I cry whenever there is an arman scene like that 😳 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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o.k. cry baby I agree 😆 bt he did want her cos he ws not feeling well not jst physically bt emotionally the thought of losing his wife ws killing him the dream / nightmare made him more aware of his inner feelings .....not sure he went there to hve "ahum" 🤣 aur karta bhi kya Savita toh kharrate leke so rahi thi waise Archu did the ryt thing grabbed his hand nd took him to bed ofcourse he had fever agar uss waqt aisa waisa kuch hota toh choo ko lagta ki Archu ne Manav ka fayda uthaya hai 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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oho he wudnt do it in the kitchen he went their to bring her to his room 😉 but archu made him sleep 😆
choo will always think archu ne manav ka faida uthaya
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Posted: 15 years ago
#68
btw , what wud hve happnd if Manav ws not sick ?? 😉 😍 if his intentions were such ☺️
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If Manav was not sick, then, he wudnt b the only one on the bed 😉 😆 i think main pagal ho gayi hun 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: piya_10

btw , what wud hve happnd if Manav ws not sick ?? 😉 😍 if his intentions were such ☺️

To phir I'm sure Ashwin ka bhoot manav me ghus gaya hoga😆😆
Edited by gaurimisha - 15 years ago

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