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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bigamy, if any, was his compulsion of the moment. He was forced, nay… blackmailed in to a consent by melodramatic Shravni and her crafty father, and creative were careful to bring about a total break of trust between the couple at that time. They were mutually agreed to a divorce application. And we all know about the events…leading to Sindoor and betrothal…no longer his first or second choice…just an extension of his present dilemma, he is tied in knot over.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nikki how he feels will never change and he till this day loves Archu and that should be enough. both have done things for each other so i don't really feel bad about it. even now its in their power to get back together.😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good night fiends. Enjoyed your feedbacks. Thanks.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Trust me, I know how much helpless this guy is right now. Also under what conditions he put the sindoor. Where my personal opinion is concerned- putting sindoor etc are mere rituals and do not signify marriage- they don't do any magic b'cos of which a person is certified 'married'. According to me marriage is when two people accept each other with trust, love and respect. And so, this is not bigamy according to me- it was just a silly way to ward off the doubts of Manav's silly Aai and obtuse Girishji.

However the sindoor and engagement ended up hurting the sentiments of a large number of people and made them hate Manav, and so I hate the creatives.

Where his love for Archu is concerned, I have no doubts he loves her very much. He is ready to die for her.

My sympathies lie with this character. Till today I am justifying him in front of Tanya Di and others.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Also would like to add that I'm angry with creatives for showing him so weak. He isn't taking any concrete steps to sort out a logical solution out of all this mess.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nickita , Manav showed some strength today and I am so happy about it . The self analysation that you keep talking about was there today . He wants to ask Bappa for something for himself and not for anyone else ...That is a good start . Clearly he is very fed up now ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

carpe and samarth

According to me marriage is when two people accept each other with trust, love and respect. And so, this is not bigamy according to me- it was just a silly way to ward off the doubts of Manav's silly Aai and obtuse Girishji.
Nikki absolutely, feelings and emotions need to be considered here, the act itself means nothing. However, Sharvani took it to an extreme thinking that Manav and her are married just b/c of that act. But again it is only one sided. She needs to back down not b/c Arman can be together but cos she can get someone who will love her and not manav who is clearly in love with Archu😆
However the sindoor and engagement ended up hurting the sentiments of a large number of people and made them hate Manav, and so I hate the creatives.
Yes well these actions have sentimental values of sorts. Personally speaking yes i would NOT go through with such actions unless it was in a mundup and in front of God. I think Shravani should have said no to this. Clearly Manav had no say in this cos he is too concerned with other peoples feelings
Where his love for Archu is concerned, I have no doubts he loves her very much. He is ready to die for her.
Sometimes we need to fight to live for the love of our life😊
My sympathies lie with this character. Till today I am justifying him in front of Tanya Di and others.
i understand, and i too feel like i need to stand up for him. he is truly butchered left right and center poor guy.
I will help you defend him 😆😆😆

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Also would like to add that I'm angry with creatives for showing him so weak. He isn't taking any concrete steps to sort out a logical solution out of all this mess.



Nikki like Tanya Di said he is taking steps....
but we also need to understand that he also feels he is responsible for what he has done. I mean it would be wrong to show him strong on the Shravani Front one day and on the Archu front the next day. Its should be a gradual progression just like Savita. Also even Archu took her gala time to trust Manav it wasn't until she was all set to get married off to Satish that she woke up.😆
There has to be build up to the wow moment😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Friends, do you think Manav himself is the greatest obstacle to their reunion? No, by now, Archana has become the one. Don't you see? By repeated assurances extended to Shravni, she is creating her own commitment… as most dutiful ardhangini… she can not allow Manav to backtrack even if he were to turn around on behalf of Archana. She-a bigger 'integrity' then her husband will try to enforce the divorce.😡

On their self destructive stands, a quote from a wise man is apt.

"A person should not be too honest.

Straight trees are cut first and honest people are victimized first."

Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC 75 BC)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: samarth_050

Friends, do you think Manav himself is the greatest obstacle to their reunion? No, by now, Archana has become the one. Don't you see? By repeated assurances extended to Shravni, she is creating her own commitment' as most dutiful ardhangini' she can not allow Manav to backtrack even if he were to turn around on behalf of Archana. She-a bigger 'integrity' then her husband will try to enforce the divorce.😡

On their self destructive stands, a quote from a wise man is apt.

"A person should not be too honest.

Straight trees are cut first and honest people are victimized first."

Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC 75 BC)



Agree with you about Archana, today's episode seemed so contrived with her goody goody act. goodness too much sentiments. why was she crying when she chose this life.

as far as straight trees. yes i agree one shouldn't be too honest but if that person is strong then nothing can touch them just look at varsha. she made her mistakes but didn't run at the first sign of problems. honesty by no means is the problem but weak mindedness is.....


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