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Posted: 15 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: Arien_03

well hving family name is enough for a woman? wouldn't she want a husband and a father figure for the child. Would Girishji ever agree to send his daughter to live in Deshmukh house under this condition that she will stay there as Sachin's widow?

At that point of time,shravani didnt want to marry anyone else.She looked forward to spent her life with sachin's child.
Whether Girishji would have agreed or not,depended how d baba ,kaka,savita and sharavni,of them all,would have taken a stand.Girishji loves his only daughter so much...may be as a father he would have relented after some pushing.
Definitely as a woman,she would want a father figure and a husband but does this mean a married man has to divorce his wife to be her husband.
Moreover,Manav didnt promise her on those lines...he clearly mentioned it was a compromise for his own family's happiness and to let her have Sachin's child,to save her honour as well.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Manav was a fool, he actually belived in this whole concept of a marriage based only on compromise
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@tanya di: I was expecting this point of they from some one. Firstly his dad believed that she cant do this because he had not seen all those hatreds and fights . But Manav had seen all those hatreds and fights in all those 2 months. One more thing in same way archana left him and didnt give him any chance to explain himself. But thats different thing. See he had seen all those hatreds and when he called her mother and she refused that she doesnt want to talk to him, he got shocked. He initially didnt believe it but then he thought that his wife is not even ready to talk to him when he is in trouble. He lost all his faith in her. And who filed complaint was not the main issue ? His wife was not ready to accept that he is innocent and the lost his family got he considered HIMSELF AS RESPONSIBLE FOR IT AS HIS WIFE WAS CONNECTED TO IT. He had tried to talk to her during those months but all in vain. And when she signed divorce papers she clearly told him that she gates him and will never look back at him. Thats why keeping all these things in mind he decided to marry her. Family is also something. Seriously speaking had i been in his place i would have fumed from inside because what i had done wrong at that time. Neither he was character less nor he ever tried to harm her repo . Still all there fights hatred loss to family. I wouldn have been able to continue archu archu at that moment as family is also something. And he suffered his family suffered for nothing.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: PRnerd

FIVE GOOD THINGS ABOUT KOOLS...
1. she is funny
2. she is loveable
3. she is a good friend and confidant
4. she is a good mother and wife
5. she is beautiful..inside and outside



I see you've already taken care of your part of the bet. Great job! Ditto to your 5! These are mine:

Five Good Things about KOOL:


1. She has the best commentaries for PR.
2. She makes me laugh no matter if I agree w/ her stance on something or not.
3. She's one of the reasons I decided to join the PR forum.
4. She sounds like an awesome person and I'm so happy to call her a friend.
5. She wrote this and it makes me laugh like crazy when I even think of it:
Of course ! Miss Shakkar replied , falling all over herself out of pure , shuddha guilt . In fact , I won't mind even if u COME WITH US ![ And sleep between us ] I really don't ! You gotta believe me ! He is yours and yours alone !
🤣🤣🤣

There are more things I could write, but we'll save that for another bet. 😉

Love ya, Kool! 🤗 Oh, and don't forget, we are are on the same side on the other bet...NO DIVORCE!




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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

so he punished her even though he knew that she did not commit the crime and that she still loves him ...

That clearly makes him a very very bad husband ...

After witnessing his family getting tortured at police lock-up and his brother's death and Manav was not his right frame of mind to decide whats rational and whats irrational. He was in roller coaster ride of emotions, his life was a mess. Looks at the events that happened since his marriage to Archana...... it has been complete mess one after another...he knew that his mother utterly hated Archana, his mother would not let Archana come back in the house and he cannot leave his family, besides he thought Archana is getting married to Satish....Archana showed up at police station with Satish to bail them out!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Huh. He even tried her to make her hate him ONLY FOR her so that she dont feel bad after those 3 months. Ask anyone how it feels when you want that person to hate you whom you love you. Yes he hurt her in that process but he thought that if she gets hurt for sometime at least she will not get hurt after divorce and for most part of her life and can move on withoui him. He did all those cold behaviour only for her even hurting himself.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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GOING TO SLEEP. GOOD NIGHT AND TAKE CARE.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Manav was a fool, he actually belived in this whole concept of a marriage based only on compromise

As Kool says it,Duffer khandaan ka sabse bada duffer.😆😆
He's very simple,knows only one solution to every problem...sacrifice ur own happiness or compromise.
Peanut brain...slow to realise many things.
Cant protect his wife agaist his mother's abuses....in fact ,practically speaking,does nothing for her...other than confessing he's helplessness.
Yet,no one can be more suitable for Archu more than him.
Edited by gaurimisha - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arien_03

After witnessing his family getting tortured at police lock-up and his brother's death and Manav was not his right frame of mind to decide whats rational and whats irrational. He was in roller coaster ride of emotions, his life was a mess. Looks at the events that happened since his marriage to Archana...... it has been complete mess one after another...he knew that his mother utterly hated Archana, his mother would not let Archana come back in the house and he cannot leave his family, besides he thought Archana is getting married to Satish....Archana showed up at police station with Satish to bail them out!

Agree here,he wasnt in the right frame of mind then.
I guess thats why he jumped to to give that promise.
All said,unknowingly or knowingly,he has been very unfair to archana....I still cant forgive him for the engagement day.
Now,that he is in his senses and he's actually showing that he cares for her,I hope he does something to stay true to his own feelings.
Edited by gaurimisha - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
Agree with Arien, he was not in right frame of mind. Thats why i said that at that situation when people lose their thinking power how can you expect him to think so rationally. The only way it looked for him was to give some happiness to his family. @gauri: yup. Should not have done engagement that fool, duffer, emotional.

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